Picture this: you’re attending a family wedding, and you’ve just found out you’re pregnant. You’re over the moon, but you don’t want to steal the bride’s thunder. The problem? Your family loves to party, and your sudden sobriety will raise eyebrows. One woman faced this exact dilemma, and she’s wondering if she’d be the a-hole for attending the wedding and potentially sparking pregnancy rumors.
Baby on Board?

Wedding Weekend Woes

Keeping the Secret

Party Animal Problems

Sneaky Sobriety Plan

Rumors and Repercussions

Bride’s Reaction

Stay Home or Attend? ♀️

Announcement Dilemma

Fear of Miscarriage

TLDR;

To Attend or Not to Attend?
So, our party-loving protagonist is faced with a tough choice: attend the wedding and risk sparking pregnancy rumors, or stay home and miss out on a family milestone. Her boyfriend suggests announcing the pregnancy beforehand, but she’s hesitant due to the early stage of her pregnancy. What’s a girl to do? ♀️ Let’s check out some of the top reactions from the internet…

How to avoid announcing your pregnancy at a wedding

Avoid the pregnancy bombshell with a UTI excuse

Excuse yourself from alcohol, avoid pregnancy announcement.

Don’t be an a** and steal the spotlight at a wedding

Respect the bride and groom’s wishes, involve them in decision-making.

Navigating nosy relatives at weddings when pregnant. NTA, but tough situation.

How to hide pregnancy at a wedding: order mocktails and play it cool

Sneaky way to avoid suspicion and still share the news

How to fake drinking at a wedding

Sneaky or smart? Commenter calls out OP’s pregnancy announcement plan
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Stay sober at the wedding, but should you tell them?
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How to handle a pregnancy announcement at a wedding Lie and say you’re on antibiotics

Stay sober at the wedding with a clever excuse!

Tips for hiding pregnancy at a wedding without making it obvious

How to keep your pregnancy a secret at a wedding

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Avoid drama at weddings, use medication excuse to avoid alcohol.

When the antibiotics excuse backfires


Breaking pregnancy news at a wedding? NTA according to commenter.

Prepare for the pregnancy announcement, but keep it a surprise!

Excuses for unexpected pregnancy reveal

Commenter faces judgment for not drinking at family events.

Breaking the drinking norm: NTA takes a stand

Creative ways to keep your pregnancy under wraps at a wedding!

Pregnancy is a part of life, why blame someone? NTA

Sneaky solution to avoid drinking at a wedding

Stay low-key and focus on the bride . NTA for deflecting questions.

Politely decline alcohol with a simple excuse. NTA.

Politely decline drinks at wedding, YWBTA if you reveal pregnancy

Excuse for not drinking: period + alcohol + painkillers

Breaking the alcohol norm at social events.

How to avoid drinking at a wedding without revealing pregnancy
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How to keep your pregnancy a secret at a wedding

Navigating pregnancy rumors at a wedding? YWNBTA, but tread lightly.

Caught in a pickle? Seek advice on r/relationshipadvice. Consider telling bride.
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No a-hole here! Past behavior shouldn’t define you. Simple solution provided

Sister’s pregnancy isn’t a big deal, NTA. Stop the gossip
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