Family drama alert! Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into the story of a young man who’s had enough of his emotionally distant parents. Growing up wasn’t easy for this guy, with no support during tough times and having to pay his own way through college. But when his parents demanded rent during semester breaks, things took a turn for the worse. Now, after years of no contact, he’s built his own family and is wondering if he’s an a**hole for not reaching out. ♂️ Let’s find out!
Growing Up with Emotionally Distant Parents

♂️ No Support During Tough Times

Off to College, Paying My Own Way

Debt Sucks, But I’m in Control

Parents Demand Rent During Semester Breaks

Rent Was Substantial for a Student

⏰ All Free Time Went into Jobs and Chores

♂️ Vowing to Go My Own Way

No Contact with Parents for Over a Decade

Building My Own Family

An Actual Family, Unlike My Parents

♂️ They Weren’t Interested in Being Parents

Fiance Disagrees, Thinks I Should Communicate ️

♂️ Am I the A**hole for Not Reaching Out?

No Contact with Parents for Over a Decade, Am I the A**hole?
After years of emotional distance and demanding rent during college breaks, this guy has had enough of his parents’ lack of support. He’s built his own life, with friends and a fiance, and hasn’t spoken to his parents in over a decade. ♂️ They’ve reached out, but he’s always refused. His fiance thinks he should communicate, but he’s not sure. Is he an a**hole for cutting them off? ♂️ The internet has some thoughts on this family drama! Let’s see what they have to say about this emotionally charged situation.
Ruled out toxic parents, stood firm. No regrets

Choose your family wisely. Charging rent for breaks is a**hole move.

Demanding rent from children is twisted. Family shouldn’t work that way

Charging rent was just the final straw for emotional neglect

NTA. Family drama is tough but sometimes necessary for happiness

Breaking free from unsupportive family. ✌️

NTA comment shuts down entitled parents.

Some people just don’t understand cutting off toxic family

Parents charge rent during holidays? Not cool! NTA

Forcing children to pay rent is a**hole-ish . NTA OP

NTA. A commentary on entitled parents and their consequences.

When family rifts happen, trust your gut and stand firm.

User suggests writing a letter to future wife about parents’ behavior.

Choosing your partner over toxic parents is NTA

A thoughtful response reminding OP to consider reconciliation with parents.

Fiancé should tread lightly, not her place to direct decisions

Setting boundaries is important for a healthy relationship ❤️

Living at home as an adult: to pay or not to pay?

Empathetic comment encourages better parenting for future generations

Choose who you let into your life . NTA wins!

Cutting ties with toxic family for self-care. NTA

Enjoy your parent-free life. You don’t owe them sh*t!

Parents charged rent at 16, kicked out at 18 for exchange student. Still charged rent in 30s.

Parents viewed children as investment, NTA for standing up.
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Should parents charge their 18-year-old kids rent?

Family mistreatment is unacceptable, blood relations don’t justify it. NTA ✌

Surviving narcissistic parents and thriving with no contact

Fiancé doesn’t understand OP’s dysfunctional family, NTA. ♂️

NTA. Setting boundaries with family is important for mental health

Navigating family dynamics can be tough, but respect is key

Emotional distance from parents led to permanent rift
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Parental neglect can have huge impacts on wellbeing. NTA.

Boomers charging their own kid rent? Cut them out

Cutting ties with family: NTA’s decision sparks agreement

Cutting off parents: NTA, emotional absence plays a role
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Understanding toxic parents is difficult, meeting them may not help ♀️

Sassy reply to entitled parents. NTA

Parents demand rent from college student on break, emotional abuse ensues

Setting boundaries with in-laws is important for a healthy relationship

Charging your kids rent? Not cool, NTA says
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Cutting toxic family out of your life is okay

Cutting toxic family members for happiness. NTA wins.

Parental tough love pays off. Move on and congrats
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Breaking free from capitalist parents – NTA ✌️

Setting boundaries with entitled friends and their spoiled kids

Understanding the emotional toll of unsupportive parents

Fiancé well-intentioned but not her decision. NTA for setting boundaries

NTA suggests alternatives to college, encourages parental support for success

Finding bio father and discussing dad brings NTA judgement

Fiancé doesn’t understand, commenter advises respect for OP’s wishes

Paying rent while in school? NTA. Parents charging rent ESH.

Charging your own kids rent while in school? NTA calls out shitty parenting

NTA, stand up for yourself and your family’s choices

Paying rent to parents – reasonable or not?

Family over profit. Parents charging rent to kids are TA

Breaking free from toxic family dynamics: NTA
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Set boundaries with GF/fiancee on relationship with your parents. NTA

Cutting ties with ‘spawners’, heartbreaking but necessary. NTA

Disagree with parents’ choices but NTA. No reason needed for NC

Choose your family, not your parents. NTA.
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Building emotional intimacy outside romantic relationships is important. NTA.

NTA parent charges rental fee to save for kids’ future

Forgiving but cautious approach suggested for estranged parents.

Deciding who to have a relationship with is justified. Good call. NTA

Respect boundaries and stay in your lane.

Breaking free from toxic family can lead to success

NTA. Suggests following your lead on handling your parents.

Choosing to cut off a parent is hard but sometimes necessary
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Sassy NTA comment suggests a hilarious solution for overbearing parents.

Encouraging support for a tough family situation

Advice on setting boundaries with unsupportive families and SOs
