A stay-at-home dad in his early 30s is facing a dilemma with his wife over their children’s sleep schedules. The couple has two sons, ages 8 and 2, and are also raising their 5-year-old niece, whose parents are in rehab. The dad has established a solid routine for the kids, but his wife believes he’s treating their niece unfairly. As tensions rise, the dad suggests his wife take over as a stay-at-home mom if she’s unhappy with his parenting. Read on to find out how this family drama unfolds.
The Family Setup
Stay-at-Home Dad’s Role
Wife’s Anxiety and Work Life ♀️
Niece’s Arrival and Routine
Establishing a Solid Routine
Wife’s Work Schedule
Kids’ Bedtimes ⏰
Niece’s Sleep Schedule Request
Dad’s Reasoning for Refusal
Wife’s Accusation
Dad’s Defense ️
Equal Treatment for All Kids
Wife’s Harsh Words
Dad’s Bold Suggestion
Dad’s Dilemma: Fairness in Bedtime Routines ♂️
A stay-at-home dad is facing a tough decision as his wife accuses him of treating their niece unfairly when it comes to bedtime routines. The dad has established a solid routine for their two sons and niece, but his wife believes he should adjust the niece’s sleep schedule. As tensions rise, the dad suggests his wife take over as a stay-at-home mom if she’s unhappy with his parenting. How do you think this family should resolve their conflict? Share your thoughts in the comments!
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