We’ve all experienced the drama that comes with hand-me-downs, but this family takes it to a whole new level! When a 13-year-old boy’s school bag breaks, he’s eager to buy a new one with his allowance. However, his mom insists he use a spare bag from his older brothers. The boy isn’t happy with the choice, and the situation escalates into a full-blown family feud! Let’s dive into this bag battle and see how it unfolds.
The Broken Bag Problem

Mom’s Solution: Hand-Me-Downs

The Boy’s Resistance

Mom’s Inconsistency

Dad Steps In ♂️

Bag Switcheroo

The Ill-Fitting Bag

Dad’s Solution ️

Finding a Better Bag

Cleaning Up the Bag

Wife’s Fury

Dad’s Defense ️

The Verdict ️

A Family Divided Over a School Bag
So, the dad tried to be the peacemaker by finding a more suitable bag for his son, but his wife isn’t happy about it. She accuses him of undermining her authority, while he argues that her inconsistent story about the bag’s history didn’t help. Now, the internet is weighing in on this school bag saga, and the opinions are as diverse as the bags themselves! Let’s see what people have to say about this family’s hand-me-down drama…
Controversy over a dad giving his son a poorly fitting backpack

Commenter and replies criticize OP’s wife for abusive behavior

Commenter shares personal experience of feeling undervalued and neglected.

13-year-old wants to spend his allowance on a backpack. NTA.

Son caught in the middle of family feud over school bag

Youngest sibling deserves at least one new thing.

Teaching kids about budgeting and compromise

Let the kid buy his own damn bag! ♂️

Communication issues over a school bag? ESH in this misunderstanding.

A family feud over a hand-me-down bag? Control issues at play.

Let the kid decide what he wants

Properly fitting school bags are important for children’s posture

Controlling wife? YTA for not getting a proper school bag

Parenting gone wrong: denying basic necessities to your child

Parents criticized for not allowing son to buy his own bag

Sparks fly as commenter questions wife’s behavior in hand-me-down feud

Commenter calls out unfairness in family feud over school bag.

Let your kid spend his allowance on what he wants

A scathing NTA comment about unequal treatment in the family

Dad stands up for son’s comfort, wife prioritizes control

Controlling wife causes family feud over hand-me-downs

Encouraging support for a son’s high school struggles

Buying a new bag can save your dad’s spine

Why an ill-fitting school bag is a big deal

Family feud over hand-me-downs and allowance for a school bag

Son wants new backpack but dad insists on hand-me-downs. YTA.

A new bag shouldn’t be a big deal. Is your wife okay?

Sibling hand-me-downs causing family feud

Teen wants to buy new school bag with own money, parents refuse. ESH.

Dad steps up to solve backpack problem, gets criticized by wife

Let kids choose their own bags for a healthy back

Commenter sympathizes with dad’s bag dilemma amidst family fights ♂️

Dad’s dilemma: Hand-me-downs or new bag for deserving son?

Let your son get a new bag

Parents refuse to buy son a new school bag, ESH. Son offers to buy one himself. Concerning?

A comment calls out the parents’ behavior, sparking a rebuttal.

Don’t let hand-me-downs cause back pain. NTA.

Letting a kid buy their own backpack? ESH in this feud

YTA for not valuing your son’s health and letting wife control.

Commenter calls out both parents for their controlling behavior.

Parenting gone wrong: A judgmental comment with no context

Let the kid spend his allowance on what he wants

Wife turns minor issues into power struggles. NTA.

Family feud over hand-me-downs, but commenter offers to help

Let the kid buy the backpack with his own money

A spicy judgement and a marital dispute over bags

Dad stands up for himself but wife’s friends judge unfairly

Support for dad’s hand-me-down bag choice, criticism for wife’s behavior

Controlling parents and hand-me-downs: YTA for not standing up.

Sibling rivalry escalates over hand-me-downs. YTA verdict.

Family feud over hand-me-downs, son wants something new. ESH.

A child caught in the middle of a backpack power struggle

Let the kid pick his own bag! ESH for not considering his feelings.

Son deserves a new bag. NTA, but wife’s behavior scary
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Parents fight over hand-me-downs, leaving child caught in middle
