Hey there, Facebook fam! Gather around for a story that will make you question some people’s sanity. Our protagonist, a 23-year-old single mom, has mixed-race twin boys who are the apple of her eye. But when she attends a family cookout at her cousin’s house, things take a turn for the bizarre. Her cousin, who has a strange obsession with mixed boys dressing up nicely, takes it upon herself to change the boys’ clothes while their mom is out running an errand. What happens next? Let’s dive into the story and find out!
The Situation: Twin Boys and a Cookout

A Little Background

Family Gathering at Cousin’s House

Cousin’s Weird Obsession

A Quick Errand

Returning to a Shocking Scene

Kids in Distress

Confronting the Cousin

Cousin’s Excuse ♀️

Boys Aren’t Dolls!

Family Support

Leaving the Cookout ♀️

Cousin’s Reaction

Family Guilt-Tripping

The Suits’ Origin

Dolls or Kids? A Cookout Controversy
During a family cookout, our single mom protagonist leaves her twin boys with her cousin for a quick errand. Upon returning, she’s shocked to find her sons and step-nephew dressed in suits and sweating profusely in the hot sun! Her cousin’s reasoning? She wanted the boys to look like cute dolls for the cookout. Our heroine doesn’t hold back, confronting her cousin and reminding her that her boys are not dolls! ♀️ With the support of her mother and grandmother, she leaves the cookout, but not without her cousin and her parents calling her the a**hole for yelling. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Cousin premeditatedly dressed up your kids in suits without consent NTA

Cousin’s suit obsession crosses the line. NTA.

Mom stands up for sons’ safety and fashion choices.

A fiery comment denouncing bad parenting and standing up for oneself.

Mom stands up for her sons’ comfort and autonomy

NTA. Cousin’s behavior is crazy. There is a time and place

Cousins trying to own your kids? That’s creepy… NTA

Curious commenter questions origin of twin boys’ suits

Asserting independence for twin boys’ dress is NTA move

Cousin’s fashion sense is whack-a-doodle, NTA for mom.

Cousin’s creepy plot to dress up twin boys

Graceful response to cousin’s intentional disrespect. Family support appreciated

NTA! Dressing up twin boys in suits for a summer cookout?!

Protect your kids from objectifying relatives with poor boundaries

Mom sneaks to dress boys in suits, commenter says NTA

Cousin’s suspicious behavior raises eyebrows

Cousin’s creepy behavior towards twin boys called out

Cousin’s obsession with kids’ suits is abusive, go NC

NTA defends separating from abusive cousin who forces suits on kids

Colorism and sexism concerns raised in dressing up debate ♀️

Avoid suits for little kids, especially when there’s playtime

Cousin’s toxic behavior towards children is beyond reprehensible

Protecting the twins from abusive behavior

NTA, kids aren’t dolls. Get over the obsession
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Mama bear defends her cubs from fashion disaster

Cousin prioritized aesthetics over toddlers’ health . NTA handled it well.

OP receives support for protecting children from ‘psycho’ cousin

Mom tricks cousin to dress up twin boys in suits

Suitable response to a questionable suit hand me down situation.

Cutting out toxic family members: NTA for standing up

Cousin changes boys into suits in SoCal cookout, gets called out. NTA

Cousin crosses the line, risking kids’ health. You’re NTA

Mixed-race children should not be fetishized or tokenized. #NotTheA**hole

Engaging suggestion for playful alternative to formal attire

NTA prevails and cousin is banned for kids’ safety

Cousin’s age questioned, family’s anger seems unjustified

Concerned commenter questions family’s sanity over toddler suits.

Parent defends not dressing twins in suits in hot weather ☀️

Establishing boundaries for kids: NTA with solid back up

Mom’s sneaky move backfires on her. NTA wins.

Cousin called out for insanity by NTA commenter

Mom tries to dress up kids, gets shut down. NTA

Cousin criticized for dressing up twin boys, commenter defends NTA

Setting boundaries for mixed race boys, NTA wins battle

Setting boundaries with family over children’s clothing choices. NTA.
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Step-mom receives support after dressing twins in suits. NTA

Protective parent instincts justified. Curious about mom’s role.

Lesson learned: Don’t leave kids alone with family. ESH

Support for protecting children from harm. NTA wins.
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