A wife is left questioning her relationship after her husband’s accident reveals a shocking secret. While rushing to the hospital, she learns that her husband was desperately asking for his ex-girlfriend. Now, as she cares for him during his recovery, she wonders if she’s in the wrong for feeling hurt and betrayed.
The Fateful Accident

Disturbing News

Not Drug-Induced

Saved from Serious Injuries

Confrontation and Anger

Defending His Actions ️

Mother-in-Law’s Disapproval

Petty Thoughts

Seeking Advice

A Heartbreaking Dilemma
This wife is left feeling hurt and betrayed after her husband’s accident reveals his desperate pleas for his ex-girlfriend. As she cares for him during his recovery, she wonders if she’s in the wrong for feeling this way. What should she do in this heartbreaking situation? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
NTA. Husband’s response shows he’s victimizing himself and has unresolved feelings for his ex. OP deserves better.
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Husband’s extreme defensive reaction raises suspicion of cheating

Woman suggests leaving husband for wanting ex, commenters agree.

NTA. Husband’s behavior towards ex is concerning and disrespectful. Replies offer perspective.

Spouse dismisses feelings, tattles to mom, and wants ex present
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NTA. The commenter suggests considering couples counseling and the possibility that the husband settled for the OP. Valid feelings and potential trust breakdown.

NTA. Husband’s behavior with ex requires a conversation

Husband’s behavior towards ex is a red flag. RUN!

Ex’s delusional behavior exposed, support and revenge offered

Husband’s behavior raises red flags. NTA for considering leaving

Secure your finances, confront him about ex, consider leaving.

Ex’s possible involvement in husband’s accident sparks speculation

Partner’s freak out over ex reveals deeper issues. NTA.

Commenter advises leaving the a**hole husband. NTA

Consider hiring a private investigator, not the a**hole (NTA)
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Commenter realizes husband is TA after reading his comments

Husband asks for ex after accident, defends it as comforting choice ♂️

Shocking update reveals husband’s infidelity and OP’s strength

Invalidating feelings, selfish behavior. NTA, but heartbroken

Commenter suspects husband’s affair with ex based on accident details

Husband’s shocking secret revealed after accident, leading to relationship issues ♀️

Is the husband still in love with his ex?

Partner’s crisis reveals shocking truth about his ex. NTA.
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Commenter advises OP to be cautious of gaslighting husband

Partner called ex’s name, got mom involved. NTA but complicated

Don’t let your ex’s shadow hold you back!
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Curious commenter questions ex’s greatness and mom’s role

Commenter questions why OP is not a priority in marriage

Woman discovers boyfriend’s secret sexting with ex-girlfriend. NTA.

Investigation-worthy situation, sounds like he’s not over his ex

Husband’s behavior towards ex during accident raises red flags. NTA.

Curious readers demand an update

Husband calls ex instead of wife after accident. Commenter advises NTA.

NTA. Husband gaslighting and lacks gratitude towards wife’s help.

Discovering a shocking secret after a serious accident.

Prioritize his recovery, but don’t ignore the elephant in the room. NTA

Ex in emergency, guilt-tripping, and tattling to mom? NTA

Don’t settle for less, girl. You deserve better. NTA

Don’t be someone’s second choice.

Partner pining for ex, NTA for considering leaving ♀️

Confusion over ex’s gender sparks debate in comment section

Feeling like you’ve read this before? You’re not alone!

Trust your instincts, NTA. Check accident report for clarity

Empathetic response to a shocking revelation.

Sassy comment suggests ex and mom can help him better

MIL called instead of emergency contact? Ex caring for him? NTA

Curious commenter wants update on shocking secret

Red flags everywhere! OP, prioritize yourself. NTA.

A Reddit post with eerie similarities to the husband’s accident

Clear conscience after husband’s accident? NTA wins hearts

Spouse’s request for ex’s help: justified hurt or overreaction?

Empower yourself and find someone who respects you

NTA. Honest convo owed. Mommy can take care of him

Ex baggage alert! Commenter says NTA in husband’s accident.

When being second best hurts more than being alone

Commenter suspects husband’s ex is still in the picture. NTA.

Man’s dependence on his mother and lingering feelings for ex

Curious about MIL’s involvement in husband’s accident

NTA. Spouse’s suspicious behavior raises red flags

Something’s fishy. Why call his ex instead of his wife? NTA

Let his ex or mother take care of him. NTA.

Leave him! The comment suggests being petty and not the a-hole.
