Imagine giving birth to your first child and then being told you’re too fragile to do anything but stay in bed. That’s the reality for one new mom who’s fed up with her husband and mother-in-law (MIL) treating her like she’s made of glass. Despite feeling mostly fine, she’s been confined to her home and only allowed out for absolute necessities. But when her husband prioritizes his mom’s needs over their own, this mama bear decides it’s time to take matters into her own hands!
New Mom, New Rules?

Not as Fragile as They Think

Bed Rest Blues

Husband to the Rescue? ♂️

Rare Outings ♀️

Craving Takeout

Phoneless and Clueless

Long Wait for Food ⏰

MIL’s Needs Come First?

Still Hungry

Annoyed and Fed Up

Taking Matters into Her Own Hands

Guilt Trip

Feeling Guilty

Mama Bear Takes a Stand
After being treated like she’s too fragile to do anything but stay in bed, this new mom has had enough. When her husband prioritizes his mom’s needs over their own, she decides it’s time to take matters into her own hands and leave the house to get her own food. Despite her husband’s guilt trip, she stands her ground, even though she can’t help but feel guilty herself. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Equal parenting responsibilities. NTA for leaving baby with dad.

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL.

New mom receives support for balancing career and parenting
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New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL

Join the r/justnomil community for support with overbearing MILs!

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL

New mom prioritizes baby and stands up to unreliable husband

New dad shares how having alone time with baby helped him bond

New mom receives support for wanting time away from baby

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL

Putting mom’s needs first is crucial for a happy baby

New mom encourages others to take it slow and communicate openly

Husband defends himself after wife accuses him of not caring

As a nurse, getting up and moving is crucial. Don’t feel bad!
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New mom stands up to overprotective husband’s guilt trip

Communication is key! NTA for wanting to go out.
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Advice for new mom dealing with overprotective husband and MIL

Husband prioritizes MIL over hungry wife’s needs ♀️

Is MIL and husband’s overprotectiveness justified during COVID-19?

New mom gets comforting advice on adjusting to motherhood

Breaking gender roles in parenting.
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New mom receives support for needing a break from overprotective husband

Empathetic comment acknowledges new mom’s anxiety and supports equality.

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL. NTA

New mom gets stir-crazy, husband’s overprotectiveness causes conflict.

New mom leaves husband with own child, gets misled by MIL.

New parents receive empathetic advice on navigating tough season

New mom stands up to overprotective husband. NTA.

Father’s responsibility is not babysitting, he’s the asshole

Mom’s risky fast food run sparks concern amidst pandemic

Mom guilt is the worst, but you deserve a sanity break

Asking for clarity on double standards in parenting roles

Father defends his ability to care for newborns against stereotypes
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New mom struggles with guilt of leaving baby, reassured by commenter.

Misread headline leads to NTA judgement for new mom

New mom receives support and validation for taking time for herself.

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL
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New mom receives support for standing up to overprotective family.

Encouraging advice for pregnant women and criticism towards useless husband.

Parenting is a team effort, but the title had me worried

Encouraging comment urges new mom to take time for herself.

Husband shames new mom for getting food, MIL lives below. ♀️

New mom relates and encourages taking a break. NTA

Auntie saves the day while sister escapes, NTA

Father of two shares advice on balancing parenting and self-care. ☕

Dad shares parenting tips and supports OP’s decision.

New mom receives support and advice to prioritize self-care

Hungry and neglected: NTA for calling out husband’s behavior

Breaking cultural norms, new mom is NTA for rebelling.

New mom’s husband starves her, commenters call him out

New mom stands up to overprotective husband, NTA
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Encouraging comment reminds new mom to take care of herself.

Parent defends alone time with kids, calls out overprotective husband

New mom struggles with bonding and mental health. NTA gets support.

Encouraging comment for new mom’s mental health

New mom gets support for defying overprotective husband and MIL

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL.

Self-care is important for new parents. NTA for taking breaks.

Did the husband leave the baby with his overbearing MIL?

New mom defends self-care, leaving baby with grandma for 4hrs

New mom defends her need for fresh air and freedom ️

New mom not the a**hole for wanting equal alone time.

New mom defies overprotective husband and MIL, NTA

Suggests MIL may be trying to help, advises communication ️

New mom gets support for taking alone time.

Husband doesn’t deliver takeout and disappears, NTA for being upset

New mom deserves a break! NTA, take a walk
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New mom receives support for needing space and independence.

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL

NTA. Overprotective husband and MIL need to address their issues.

New mom gets support and understanding for frustration with overprotective husband

Breaking gender roles and prioritizing self-care.

New mom stands up to overprotective husband and MIL. NTA

New mom deserves a break. Husband and MIL need to back off!
