It’s hard to imagine a relationship built on trust where one partner puts their significant other in a position where they don’t feel safe. But even in seemingly healthy and happy couples, there are boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed. And if those are ignored, there might be a reason to worry. A woman on Reddit shared an incident when her fiancé snuck out of their house without her knowing and took her car without permission to go hang out with his friends. The woman was furious. So much so that she called the police on him. This is where the story gets a bit more complicated, so stick around to find out how this whole thing escalated.
30F nurse moves in with her 28M fiancé but refuses to let him use her car, only to be caught by the police

Fiancé takes matters into his own hands after being refused financial help for his broken car

Woman allows her fiancé to use her car for groceries – but not without consequences!

She said no to her fiancé’s request to use her car, but he took it anyway and got caught by the police

Fiance took car without permission and got caught by police

Fiancé’s defiance leads to an unexpected consequence

Fiancé’s failed attempts to use his partner’s car ended in her calling the police and leaving him in an embarrassing situation.

Fiance secretly takes her car after she said no, triggering a heated debate about ownership

He thought taking her car was OK, but she called the police and ruined his New Year’s celebration
My fiance and I have been together for 3 years, but when I refused to let him use my car for a New Year’s celebration with his friends, he took it anyway. I was so enraged that I called the police and he and his friends were caught at the bar where they were hanging out. He was shocked that I would imply that he was a thief, but I argued that I had said no and he went behind my back. This has caused a rift between us and his friends, leading to an awkward tension that’s still present. The comments and reactions to this post will explore how people think this argument could have been avoided and whether the police were necessary for this situation.
NTA Don’t put up with disrespect!

A relationship full of

NTA. Dude thinks parties > healthcare workers.

♀️ The Police intervene

Fiancé steals partner’s car and is caught by police!

Not the a**hole!

Fiancé takes car without permission ♂️

NTA He broke your boundaries!

♀️ NTA, he stole your car

♀️ A ‘Fuck You’ move? ♀️

NTA! OP is remarkable!

NTA. He called her bluff and got caught!

NTA: dump him ♀️

NTA ♀️Fiancé disrespected woman, & police caught him!

NTA: He stole and OP called the !

NTA. It’s time for an ex!

NTA: He took what wasn’t his

No a-hole here, but

NTA:

NTA: Think twice about the future

♀️ Fiancé pays the price!

❌ NTA: He ruined his own new year!

NTA. He stole her car!

NTA: Respect isn’t optional!

A relationship gone wrong ♂️

Ex-fiance gets caught ♀️

NTA: Major red flag ⚠️

NTA: Calling the police

NTA! He put everyone in a tough spot

NTA: Fiancé’s flakey behavior

NTA: Why didn’t he get a ride?

Fiancé’s entitlement ♀️

NTA – Actions have consequences

NTA: His petty & callous behavior

NTA: ❌

Fiancé takes car

NTA: They say don’t trust the one you’re about to marry.

When your standards are but his are

NTA: Don’t stay with someone who steals your car!

NTA for walking away

♀️ Don’t cheat the rules!
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NTA: Fiance disrespected⚠️

Time to dump the baggage!

NTA: Dump the and take back your car!

NTA: why stay with someone who does this?

NTA: better luck next time!

Someone’s ex getting caught

NTA: ♂️ He shouldn’t have taken the car!

NTA: Respect yourself!

Don’t this guy

What’s going on here??

NTA: ♀️

Well done!

NTA but anti-shitty men ♂️

No a-hole here ♀️

NTA: He got caught! ♂️

♂️ ♀️ Everyone sucks here!

NTA:

Will they still marry?

NTA – don’t let ’em ♂️

NTA: + =❌

NTA: ♂️ Taking her car was theft!

NTA Dump him now!

NTA: Stealing a nurse’s car

NTA: Doing the right thing

♀️ NTA: dump him!

NTA: OP was right to say no!

️ NTA: Break Up!
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