Divorces can be messy, and co-parenting can be even messier. In this story, a dad who has primary custody of his kids faces a challenging situation when his 10-year-old daughter gets her first period. Despite having grown up with sisters and being well-prepared, his ex-wife is furious that he didn’t involve her in this milestone moment. But was he really in the wrong? Let’s dive into the story and find out.
Primary Custody Dad

Limited Contact with Ex

Daughter’s First Period

Preparation and Support

Offering Female Guidance

Sister’s Approval ✅

Ex-Wife’s Anger

Dad’s Response ️

Mother-Daughter Thing?

Seeking Validation

Dad Steps Up, Ex-Wife Fumes
In this dramatic tale, a dad with primary custody of his kids does his best to handle his daughter’s first period. He’s well-prepared and even offers her female guidance from his sister. However, his ex-wife is furious that she wasn’t involved in this milestone moment, claiming it was a mother-daughter thing. The dad argues that it was a parent-kid medical issue, and he was the one present. So, who’s in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heated situation.
Father praised for handling daughter’s first period, ex-wife upset

Parental responsibility triumphs over ex-wife’s irrationality. NTA

Period talk isn’t a ‘mummy-daughter moment’. NTA handled it well.

Co-parenting requires communication, even if you don’t like it

Father handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife unhappy. Commenters support father.

Co-parenting is hard, but communication is key ️

Did OP intentionally not tell ex-wife about period?

Dad praised for handling daughter’s period, criticized for bashing ex-wife.

Father handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife angry. NTA.

Supportive comment on dad’s handling of daughter’s first period.

Father handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife unhappy
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Co-parenting is important, keeping medical info from ex is not okay

Father handles daughter’s period, ex-wife angry. Commenters side with father.

User calls out OP for not involving daughter’s mother. YTA.

Family law attorney calls out both parents for unhealthy behavior.

Letting daughter decide who to talk to about periods – good idea

Dad not obligated to inform ex-wife about daughter’s period. NTA
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Period talk can be uncomfortable. NTA for keeping quiet.

Divorced dad criticized for handling daughter’s period insensitively. Yikes

Father criticized for not involving ex-wife in daughter’s first period.

Dad handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife angry. NTA wins.

Co-parenting struggles: Ex-wife angry at dad for not giving heads up

Father handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife overreacts

Dad handles daughter’s first period like a champ

Co-parenting fail: Dad explains period to daughter, ex-wife gets furious

Co-parenting advice: NTA, but communication with ex is important

Father handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife disagrees. NTA wins.

A heartwarming NTA comment praising a dad’s parenting skills

Divorced dad criticized for not involving ex-wife in daughter’s period talk

Supportive comment defending father’s handling of daughter’s period.

Co-parenting win! Dad handles period, mom needs to chill

Father’s handling of daughter’s period sparks parenting debate.

Supportive comment encourages daughter’s autonomy and comfort in sharing.

Criticism of OP’s unnecessary insults towards ex-wife in period story.
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Choosing not to take care of family can be understandable

Father takes care of daughter during first period, ex-wife upset

Single mom praises prepared dad, questions ex-wife’s reaction.

Co-parenting issues arise over daughter’s first period. ESH.

Great dad handles daughter’s period, ex-wife upset. NTA.

Father steps up for daughter’s first period, ex-wife angry

Importance of knowing medical history for daughter’s cycle awareness.

Divorced dad faces criticism for excluding ex-wife from period talk.

Being a supportive and prepared dad is the priority, NTA.

Putting his daughter first, NTA despite ex’s hurt feelings

Supportive comment defends dad’s actions, clarifies misunderstanding.

Mixed feelings on dad handling daughter’s period; both parents at fault.

Dad praised for handling daughter’s period, ex-wife angry

Co-parenting advice: Put your kids before your egos. ESH.

A comment calling out the dad for excluding the mom during a critical milestone.
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Daughter’s period, dad’s call. Ex-wife angry. NTA.

Dad steps up for daughter, Ex-wife’s expectations unrealistic

A supportive comment from someone who wishes their father was this open about periods. The commenter shares a personal story about feeling uncomfortable asking their dad for pads while staying with him. The tone is appreciative and empathetic.

NTA for letting daughter choose who to talk to about period

Dad handles daughter’s period like a champ, ex-wife not happy

Breaking gender stereotypes in parenting

Putting the child’s needs first is crucial in this situation

Dad handles daughter’s first period well, ex-wife disagrees

Single dad handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife outraged
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Father takes care of daughter during first period, ex-wife angry

Handling daughter’s first period – kudos for educating yourself

Sensitive and thoughtful approach to a delicate situation. NTA.

Father’s exclusion of ex-wife as a resource for daughter’s first period. Soft YTA

Father handles daughter’s first period with care and education. NTA.

Dad handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife outraged. Commenter praises dad.

Co-parenting struggles and daughter caught in the middle

Concerned commenter questions dad’s attitude towards ex-wife’s involvement. YTA

Refreshing to see a good man step-up to the plate
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NTA dad handles daughter’s first period well, ex-wife upset

Father’s bitterness towards ex-wife hurts daughter’s medical issue. YTA

Father handles daughter’s first period, ex-wife angry. Commenter supports father.

Normalize normal bodily functions. NTA for being a dad.

Heartbreaking experience with unsupportive dad.

Co-parenting communication is crucial, but both parents deserve special moments ❤️

Dad wins praise for handling daughter’s first period like a boss

Dad handles daughter’s first period like a pro

Mother failed to prepare child for menstruation, dad NTA

Dad receives praise for handling daughter’s first period with care.

Dad steps up for daughter’s first period, ex-wife angry
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Father handles daughter’s first period, internet supports his decision.

Daughter’s feelings ignored, both parents are the a**holes.

Empathetic advice for a dad handling daughter’s first period

Dad handled daughter’s first period beautifully, ex-wife upset

Positive masculinity shines through in handling daughter’s first period

Father’s support during daughter’s first period is NTA-approved

Mom mad at dad for handling daughter’s first period. NTA.

Divorced parents’ messy situation puts kids in a horrible situation
