Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of young love, financial struggles, and a surprise PS5 that’s causing some serious relationship drama! Our 19-year-old college student is juggling two jobs while her 23-year-old boyfriend is living the unemployed gamer life. Money’s tight, stress is high, and tempers are flaring. Let’s dive into this messy situation and see if we can figure out who’s the a**hole here!
Young Love, Tight Finances

Juggling College, Work, and Stress

️ Boyfriend’s Unemployment Woes

Gamer Boyfriend, Messy House ️

Surprise Package, PS5 Reveal

It’s a PS5! But at What Cost?

Anger Erupts, Questions Arise

️ Heated Words, Temporary Escape ♀️

Mom’s Perspective: His Money, His Choice

Silent Treatment, Unanswered Calls

♀️ AITA for Blowing Up at Him?

PS5 Purchase Sparks Relationship Meltdown!
Our hardworking college student is at her wit’s end with her unemployed gamer boyfriend. She’s been busting her a** to keep them afloat while he’s been playing games and leaving the house a mess. ️ But the real kicker? He somehow had the money to buy a PS5 without contributing to groceries or rent! Cue the explosive argument and our girl seeking refuge at mom’s house. ♀️ Now, the internet is divided: is she the a**hole for blowing up at him, or is he the a**hole for his selfish behavior? Let’s see what the masses have to say about this juicy drama!
A comment about older guys dating younger girls

Boyfriend is a lazy user, NTA for being furious ❌

Age difference and red flags, time to break up!

Supportive comment encourages leaving jobless boyfriend
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NTA for being upset with boyfriend’s poor attitude towards money

Financial advice for couples: keep finances separate and 50/50

NTA, dump him: lazy, entitled, useless, and doesn’t care about you.

Setting financial boundaries with boyfriend. NTA.

Girlfriend suggests leaving boyfriend after PS5 purchase

Partner prioritizes PS5 over responsibilities, NTA expresses concern.

OP’s boyfriend not pulling his weight, NTA for being upset

Girlfriend questions boyfriend’s priorities and their age difference

Independent girlfriend advises dumping lazy boyfriend.

Dump him Find someone who cares about you and contributes

Dump him You deserve better than a gaming console prioritized over you.

Dump him he’s lazy and selfish. You deserve better ❤️

Boyfriend’s PS5 purchase exposes deeper issue of financial inequality

Boyfriend buys PS5 instead of groceries and rent
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Money matters! Was the PS5 a gift or his own purchase?

Girlfriend’s boyfriend is a leech and her mom’s an enabler. NTA
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Girlfriend is NTA for being angry at lazy mooching boyfriend

Girlfriend financially supports boyfriend, comment suggests breaking up

Concerned commenter suggests financial conversation instead of PS5 drama

Serious discussion overdue about household arrangements. Is the d worth it?

PS5 purchase causes household contribution dispute. NTA.

Boyfriend’s priorities show he’s not worth the investment

NTA comment: Partner is lazy, leave him and find better ♂️
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NTA: Girlfriend working 2 jobs, paying for everything, and doing housework.

Comparison of a lazy boyfriend to a male honey bee

NTA commenter advises girlfriend to dump jobless boyfriend

Dump him sis, he’s not worth your time or money ♀️

NTA – Partner not contributing equally and made a unilateral purchase

NTA and practical advice. Monitor gaming costs and bill him.
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Girlfriend supported, mom and boyfriend in the wrong.
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NTA for calling out lazy boyfriend. Major sketch vibes

NTA. Money management is important in a relationship

Dump him and game on

Supportive comment suggests dumping ‘loser’ boyfriend over PS5 argument.

Dump him . He’s a leech and needs to contribute. NTA

Encouraging advice from a wise mom figure.

Girlfriend’s boyfriend is a lazy *ss and needs to go

Boyfriend buys PS5 instead of helping with rent/groceries. NTA.

Encouraging words on getting a job and paying bills

Girlfriend is urged to dump older boyfriend who took advantage

NTA. Harsh truth about a creepy mooching boyfriend

Unemployed BF spends $1000 on PS5, GF’s mom supports servitude ♀️
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NTA. Your money, your choice. Don’t let him guilt trip.

Don’t be a doormat, you’re NTA for setting boundaries.

Partner prioritizes PS5 over household stability according to commenter

Girlfriend’s boyfriend strikes out with no job and entitlement

Dump him! YTA comment advises girlfriend to grow a spine

Dump his a** now and be free

Take back your apartment and ditch the PS5 guy!

NTA comment: If he’s not splitting costs 50/50 then he has no business buying a PS5. Kick him out and it’ll be like you got a raise because you won’t have to feed and clean up after him. ♂️ ️

Dump him! You deserve better than a toxic ATM.

NTA stands up for herself and gets rid of toxic people

Take control of your life and let him deal with the consequences.

NTA. Girlfriend advises leaving the ‘dead weight’ of boyfriend ♂️

Dump the hobo sexual, don’t let a PS5 blind you ♀️

Boyfriend prioritizes PS5 over girlfriend’s work and school

Supportive comment advising OP to leave toxic relationship ASAP.

Girlfriend rightfully calls out lazy and inconsiderate boyfriend

Savage advice to dump the loser 20-something boyfriend

Breakup advice for girlfriend dealing with immature boyfriend.
