Imagine being a 17-year-old girl, with college on the horizon, and your parents drop a bombshell: they’re expecting a baby and want the newborn to share your room. That’s the dilemma one girl is facing, and she’s not having any of it. She’s already juggling school, college entrance exams, and the anxiety of waiting to see if she got in. Now, she’s expected to share her sanctuary with a crying baby? Read on to find out how this family conflict unfolds.
The Family Setup

The House Situation ️

Parents’ Request

Her Suggestion ️

Possible College Solution

Parents’ Reaction

Her Concerns

Alternative Solutions

Basement Issues ️

Timing Matters ⏰

Stressful Times Ahead

Personal Note

Possible Bias?

The Big Question ❓

A Battle of Wills: Teen vs. Parents
This 17-year-old girl’s life is about to change drastically, and she’s not ready to give up her space. With college looming and the stress of exams, she’s standing her ground against her parents’ request to share her room with a newborn sibling. She’s proposed alternatives, like the baby staying in their parents’ room or moving to the basement, but her parents aren’t budging. Is she being selfish, or do her concerns hold weight? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for not wanting to share room with crying baby

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling, commenters discuss family drama.
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NTA, parents trying to dump newborn responsibilities on teenager.

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. Commenters suspect ulterior motive

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA, set boundaries.

Sharing a room with an infant sibling? NTA for refusing!

Sibling doesn’t want to share room with newborn , commenters discuss normalcy of situation ♀️

NTA and senior year is important. Suggest basement studio suite

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA.

Teen raises valid concerns about sharing room with baby sibling

Sibling rivalry at its finest. ♂️
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Teen doesn’t want to share room with baby sibling. NTA.

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and suggests moving out.

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA suggests alternatives.

Teen reluctant to share room with crying baby

Teen doesn’t want to share room with baby sibling. NTA.

A simple solution: Swap rooms with parents?

Commenter suggests moving to basement for new baby sibling

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling, NTA explained

Teen refuses to share room with baby. Commenters agree: NTA

NTA. Commenters agree that parents are pushing responsibility onto OP

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA.

NTA prioritizes baby’s safety, parents being selfish

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. Parents irresponsible?

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA suggests moving.

Suggests sharing room with half brother for 6 months

Curious commenter asks for more context about stepbrother.

Sharing a room with a baby? NTA, it’s recommended!

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA suggests charging for babysitting.

Kid refuses to share room with baby sibling. Not the a**hole.

Teen refuses to care for baby sibling, seeks guidance counselor help

Don’t fall for the trap of raising your sibling. NTA
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Redditor gets called out for being detached from reality

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA. Possible solutions?

Commenter advises teen to set boundaries with future baby sibling

Commenter suggests extreme solution to sibling room-sharing conflict
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NTA for refusing to share room with future baby sibling . Commenters agree mother and stepdad are terrible.

Set boundaries and prepare backup plan. Baby in your room?

Sibling rivalry already starting? Not the a**hole here!

Newborns are tough. NTA for not wanting to share room

Sibling rivalry sparks debate on sharing bedrooms. #NotTheA**hole

Setting boundaries is important to avoid parentification abuse.
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Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA.

Don’t let them use you for free childcare

Sibling refuses to share room with baby, commenters support decision.

Consider alternate arrangements when baby arrives to avoid sleep disturbance

Teen won’t share room with baby sibling. NTA, move to basement.
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Parental lack of empathy. Basement room is acceptable compromise. NTA

Teen refuses to share room with future baby sibling. NTA.

Escape plan approved

Teen sets boundaries with parents who want free babysitting. NTA

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA.

NTA. Supportive comment about SIDS prevention methods and college exams
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Don’t be a free babysitter! You’re NTA

Sleeping with a baby in your room? Parents suck. NTA

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. Not the a-hole.

Empathetic reply to teen’s dilemma about new sibling.

Commenter defends OP, calls parents ‘Aholes’ and supports NTA

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling, NTA comment agrees.

Teen refuses to share room with baby sibling. NTA explained.

Sibling room sharing can be tough, NTA for refusing.
