Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, family drama, and some seriously questionable in-law behavior. Meet our college sweethearts, head over heels in love and ready to tie the knot. But wait, what’s this? A surprise phone call from the future mother-in-law demanding a criminal background check sit-down? Yikes, talk about a red flag! Let’s dive into this wild ride and see how it all unfolds…
College Sweethearts

A Love Like No Other

Popping the Question!

Meeting the In-Laws

️ A Celebratory Lunch

An Unexpected Call

A Demand, Not a Request

Creepy Much?!

To Tell or Not to Tell

Red Flag Alert!

️ Talking It Out

Fiancee in the Dark

Holding Off on a Reply

An Only Child’s Dilemma

A Shocking Development

In-Laws Gone Rogue: A Background Check Bombshell!
Well, well, well… looks like our lovebirds have found themselves in quite the pickle! Just when they thought they were sailing smoothly towards happily ever after, the future in-laws drop a major bombshell. A mandatory criminal background check sit-down? Talk about a trust fall gone wrong! Our groom-to-be is understandably shook, wondering if this is a sign of more meddling to come. But wait, there’s a twist! The bride had no idea this was coming either. Looks like the in-laws went rogue on this one! ️♀️ Now, the question on everyone’s mind: Is this a deal-breaker or just the world’s worst shovel talk? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation…
Discuss the in-law’s demand with your fiancée before breaking up

Proposing a criminal records group meeting with the in-laws

Protecting finances from in-laws.

When in-laws overstep, fight back with hilarious pettiness

Red flag alert! In-laws making demands pre-wedding

Don’t blame your fiancée for her parent’s creepiness. Communicate openly

Don’t let your in-laws control your relationship

Running a background check is reasonable, but the demand is insane

Give her a chance to prove herself, but set boundaries

Stand your ground, explain why it’s wrong. Play hardball

Set boundaries with in-laws and tell fiancé, YWBTA otherwise

Fiancée’s family demands a meeting, OP refuses. Drama ensues. ♀️

Think twice before proposing if you’re not ready for in-laws ❤️

In-laws demanding sensitive info? Stand your ground and protect yourself.

Don’t sacrifice yourself to keep the peace

“Full financial audit, DNA test, criminal check? MIL gone too far”

Don’t let in-laws ruin your engagement. YWBTA if you do

In-law power play? Talk to your fiancée and stand your ground

Marriage is about managing families together as a team

Protective measures after traumatic experience in marriage.

Communicate with her first before making any rash decisions.

User defends criminal background checks before marriage for safety reasons.

Fiance’s role in in-law demand raises questions

Suggest explaining the logic behind the sudden background check demand

Communicate with your fiancé and stand together against in-laws

Give your fiancee a chance to handle her parents

Fair play: If they want info, they should give info

Pushy in-laws? Set boundaries and prioritize your relationship

Consider counseling if fiancée is okay with intrusive in-laws

Communication is key to resolving in-law issues

Suggests valid reasons for in-law demand, proposes potential solutions.

Setting boundaries and doing background checks to avoid crazy

Don’t break off engagement without communicating with your fiancee

Honesty is the best policy! Talk to your SO and get their support.

Counter with caution: Suggest criminal check and audit for in-laws

Background check before engagement? Family secrets can be scary

Attorney offers expert solution to in-law’s intrusive demand

Demand for criminal background checks to avoid in-law drama. ♀️

When overprotective in-laws go too far

Polite response shuts down nosy in-law’s intrusive demand

Background checks for in-laws?

In-laws causing stress? Consider a background check

Overprotective in-laws demand raises concerns. Discuss with fiancée first.

Suggests a clever response to in-laws’ disturbing demand

Setting boundaries with in-laws

Think twice before ending engagement over in-law’s demand ❄

Discuss with fiancée first and propose background checks for equity

Savage response to in-law demand

Protective in-laws want to run a check on potential partner ️♀️

Savage response to in-laws’ outrageous demand

Sassy response shuts down in-laws’ unreasonable demand

Stand up for yourself and tell your in-laws to f**k off

OP suggests Mutually Assured Destruction tactic with background checks.

Assertive defense of one’s partner against invasive in-laws.

Don’t let your in-laws destroy your love ❤️

Savage comeback shuts down intrusive in-laws

When in-laws cross the line, hire a private investigator

Communication crucial in handling toxic in-laws.

Is this commenter being overly cautious or reasonable?

Demanding background checks for in-laws ️♀️ before engagement

Savvy way to handle in-law’s demand with a financial review

Don’t let traffic violations ruin your relationship with in-laws

In-laws do background check without consent, relationship red flag

Is it fair to demand transparency in a relationship?

Is it legal to run a criminal record check without consent?

Background checks before marriage? NTA says it’s unnecessary.

User shares experience with background checks for marriage, suggests medical records. NTA.

Jointly confront in-laws, set clear boundaries and punishments to stop them.

Background check request for engagement raises concerns and questions.

Running a background check is smart, but a discussion is necessary.

Invasion of privacy vs. safety concerns. Tricky family dynamics.

Suggests sarcastic response to in-laws’ unfair demand, advises not to break engagement.

Narcissistic mother ruins relationship with baseless accusations

User shares experience of background checks, hesitant about internet check

Demanding partner requires absurd background checks for marriage.

Demanding to see in-laws’ records before marriage

Demanding a criminal background check and paternity test for in-laws

Background check on in-laws for potential red flags

Demand for background check leads to sarcastic response

Demand for personal info sparks need for background check

Petty revenge suggestion sparks no reply conversation

How to deal with overbearing in-laws and a partner’s loyalty ♂️

Sarcastic response to in-laws’ unreasonable demands

A clever way to handle controlling in-laws
