A 32-year-old man, already dealing with the unexpected loss of two family members, found himself at the center of a conflict with a rude mom and her misbehaving child. After being fat-shamed by the mom, he decided to take matters into his own hands and scare the child into behaving. But did he go too far? Read on to find out what happened and decide for yourself.
A Heavy Burden ️

Family Tragedy

Seeking Comfort

Misbehaving Child

Rude Mom’s Threat

Hurtful Words

Boiling Point

Scaring the Kid

Survival Mode ♂️

Confrontation

Feeling Guilty

Crossing the Line?
In a moment of grief and frustration, a 32-year-old man scared a misbehaving child to spite his rude mom who fat-shamed him. While he doesn’t regret standing up to the mom, he feels guilty for terrifying the child. Was his reaction justified or did he cross the line? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Woman scares rude child by jokingly saying she eats them.

Playing along with a scared kid makes OP NTA

Encouraging weight loss progress with a touch of humor

Mother uses man to scare child, but it backfires. NTA

Mom warned the kid, but was he still wrong?

Great uncle in law’s response to parent’s fear tactic

Stranger scares kid, but saves the day. NTA!

NTA. Commenter acted like the bogeyman and had permission.

Mom threatens, man follows through: NTA or ESH?

Commenter scares kid, but is praised for not being the a**hole

Standing up to fat-shaming: One mom’s lesson learned

Scaring a kid to spite his mom is not okay

Fatphobic behavior from the mom, but scaring the kid ESH.

Parent finds humor in man scaring child, approves of behavior.

Commenter sympathizes but also wants to scare bad children. NTA/ESH.

Justified reaction or total a**hole move? Both, but one’s worse. ♂️

Weight loss progress celebrated, commenter defends scaring child incident.

NTA for scaring a kid, according to this commenter

Mom’s bad behavior led to a bad situation for everyone

Not the a**hole for scaring the kid, but was it necessary?

Standing up for yourself and scaring a kid? NTA wins.

Commenter finds situation funny and supports OP’s actions.

Scaring a kid to stop misbehaving: justified or not?

This commenter thinks the person is a legend for scaring the kid and offers condolences for their losses.

Parenting gone wrong, but scaring a kid is never right

Scaring a kid is wrong, but the mom deserved it

NTA for scaring a kid, but don’t take out frustrations on them

Commenter approves of man’s actions, admits inferiority.

Parenting woes: One commenter supports scaring kids to calm down.

Agreeing with the commenter’s NTA verdict

Standing up to body shaming and bad parenting

Mom’s fault? NTA scares kid. No a-hole here.

Commenter says NTA, but also calls the mom an a-hole

Embracing fear in childhood: healthy or harmful?

Defending a loved one.

Misunderstood man helps discipline child, gets accused of kidnapping. NTA

Mom warned kid, man scared kid. Who’s at fault?

Hilarious comment on weight loss journey and fatphobia. NTA

Mother criticized, man scares kid, commenter approves with laughter.

Mom uses fear tactic on innocent man, commenter defends him.
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Commenter supports man scaring kid, finds it entertaining.

Parents using scare tactics on kids is not effective. NTA.

Is scaring a kid ever justified? ESH in this case.

Disciplining a child by using someone else as a scary threat? ESH, but it’s still kinda funny.

When you laugh so hard, you inhale your tea

Redemption for a flawed hero who scared a kid

Heartfelt support for a victim of cruelty.

Mom involved him, he scared kid. NTA or ESH?

Playing the game or not, scaring a kid is wrong. NTA?

Hilarious comment about a man scaring a kid gone wrong

Mom told kid he’d be taken away, commenter says NTA.

Playing along with a parenting threat or crossing the line?

Culture-specific discipline: ‘F*ck around and find out’ mentality. NTA

Mom and kid were out of line, NTA stood up

Laughing at a scared kid: justified or cruel? ♂️

Commenter supports scaring misbehaving children in public and praises body positivity.

Mom makes promises, man delivers. NTA, but sorry for losses

Defending against rude parenting: NTA, tried to help reinforce lesson

Standing up to body shaming with a hilarious response

Confidence is key! Enjoy your burger guilt-free

Taking responsibility for your actions as a parent.

Mom’s wish backfires as commenter dishes out consequences.
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Mom’s bad response to kid’s fear makes NTA’s point clear

Sharing a funny video after supporting the poster’s stance

Regretful parent scares child, commenters disapprove

Clever response to a manipulative mother.

Agreeing with the commenter’s NTA verdict

Spreading laughter with a brilliant move.

Parent’s bad behavior doesn’t justify scaring a child. ESH ♂️

OP not the a**hole for scaring kid, condolences for loss.

Mom involved, funny outcome, not the a**hole.

Condolences with a touch of humor. Not the a**hole.

Playing along with insulting threats – fair or foul?

Humorous comment brings levity to controversial parenting situation

Scaring a kid isn’t appropriate. Enough suckiness to go around.

Don’t scare the kid! But is the mom at fault too?
