Imagine living next door to your best friends, sharing a huge garden, pets, and even streaming accounts. Sounds like a dream, right? Well, for this 45-year-old woman, it’s a reality. She and her two best friends decided to buy land next to each other 10 years ago to combat loneliness. They’ve created their own little family, and it’s been a great experience. However, things get complicated when her married friends feel left out and unimportant.
A Unique Living Arrangement

Shared Garden and Life

Friends as Family

Helping Each Other Out

Streaming Service Squad

Married Friend’s Frustration

Double Standards?

Married Friends’ Complaints

Cancelling Plans Dilemma

Travel Plans Drama ✈️

Uninvited and Upset

Why Not Invite Her?

Married Friend’s Travels

Friendship Fiasco: Who’s in the Wrong?
So, this woman is caught in a friendship dilemma. She’s created a beautiful life with her single best friends, but her married friends feel neglected. They’re upset that she always prioritizes her single friends over them, even though they often prioritize their spouses. The latest drama involves a dream trip to Morocco that she’s taking with her single friends, leaving her married friend feeling hurt and excluded. Is she being unreasonable, or are her married friends expecting too much? Let’s see what people have to say about this situation…
NTA for choosing platonic life partners over married friends

NTA friend is manipulative and has a double standard

Friend’s jealousy of Morocco trip doesn’t justify her behavior. NTA

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless? NTA

Commenter admires a ‘baller’ property with approval

Choosing platonic life partners over married friends

Choosing single friends over married ones: NTA but needs tact

Excluding a married friend from a trip: ESH for not communicating.

Married friend yearns for female company, but OP not heartless

OP is deemed YTA for not valuing her married friend’s friendship
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NTA gets the validation they deserve

NTA for prioritizing single friends over married ones

Married friends checking with spouse before making plans. Single friend feels left out.

Choosing plumbing over dream trip with friend: justified or heartless?

NTA- Enjoy your vacation with your besties!

OP’s favoritism towards Alice and Claire causes tension with married friend. ESH.

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless? YTA.

Friendship vs Family: Legal and Ethical Dilemma

Married friend expects single friend to prioritize, but won’t reciprocate

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless? NAH.

Friendship goals! Choosing friends based on compatibility, not marital status. ❤️

OP’s unconventional social formation explained and defended
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Comparing friends to someone’s husband is weird af

Choosing plans over people, justified or heartless?
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NTA! Short and sweet agreement with a thumbs up emoji

Choosing friends over spouses: justified or heartless? NTA explains.

YTA comment receives pushback for being petty and bitter

Choosing to live with single friends, NTA verdict

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless? NAH

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless?

Choosing single friends for vacation: NTA and pretty cool

Friend’s possessiveness is NTA. Time to move on.

Friend values OP but feels imbalance in their relationship

Friend chooses other friends over lonely mom friend, skips trip. ♀️

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless? YTA.

Commenter receives YTA judgement for incriminating argument behavior

Politely declining plans with married friends. Morocco trip seems excessive

Building a village with cherished ones

Choosing single friends over married ones: justified or heartless? NTA’s awesome life and friendship.
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Friendship fallout: YTA shuts out married friend for traditional life

Marriage isn’t for everyone, cherish the joy of friendship

Travel plans cause tension between friends. Compromise or cancel?

NAH, communication is key for friends with different lifestyles

Unexpected travel advice in a comment section

Commenter deemed the a**hole, no replies.

Prioritizing family over friends: understandable, but may miss out.

Lonely commenter empathizes with article subject, suggests communication with friend.
