Imagine growing up with parents who prioritized partying, traveling, and fighting over their own child. This 30-year-old woman’s childhood was a living nightmare, but she managed to overcome it and create a better life for herself. Now, her parents have ended up homeless and their family is begging her to help them out. But she’s not having it. Let’s dive into her story and see if she’s justified in her decision.
A Childhood of Neglect

CPS and Blackmail

Parents’ Reckless Lifestyle

Leaving Home at 18 ♀️

A New Beginning

Taking in Her Siblings ❤️

A Loving Home

No Regrets

Parents Lose Custody Permanently ⚖️

No Contact for 2 Years

Family Begs for Help

Her Response: Nah, I Pass

Family’s Outrage

Blocking Everyone

To Help or Not to Help: A Tough Decision ♀️
After enduring a childhood of neglect, this woman managed to turn her life around and even took in her siblings when her parents lost custody. Now, her homeless parents are begging for help, but she’s refusing to lend a hand. She’s been called cold-hearted and accused of turning her back on them, but is she really in the wrong? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA commenter receives support and praise for standing up to toxic parents.

NTA. OP already took care of their FIVE children.

NTA. Commenter defends OP’s decision and slams hypocritical critics.

NTA comment sparks sarcastic and symbolic replies.

Commenter defends OP’s decision not to help homeless parents.

Commenter justifies not helping homeless parents, reply suggests job opportunity

Taking care of your own family first

Aunt’s hypocrisy exposed, commenter NTA for not helping homeless parents

Former CPS worker supports OP’s decision to restrict contact with parents

NTA stands their ground against critics.

NTA prioritizes own family, refuses homeless parents. Family’s responsibility?

Sibling support enough, NTA for not helping homeless parents.

NTA. Setting boundaries and prioritizing your own family’s needs.

Redditor praised for helping siblings despite personal trauma.

NTA. Bringing them back into contact with the kids is risky

Not heartless, just practical. Resources better spent on local children.
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Breaking the cycle of financial irresponsibility. NTA
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Taking care of 5 kids already, NTA for not housing parents.

Don’t let others guilt trip you, NTA for prioritizing siblings

Commenter defends woman’s decision not to help homeless parents

NTA. Commenter defends OP’s decision and praises her strength.

Taking in siblings, NTA, and a lot of love

Helping the kids is enough. Brochures for social services suggested.

Helping homeless parents is futile, focus on children’s future.

Taking care of all their kids? Justified or not?

Praise for a selfless sibling raising her younger brothers.

Taking in siblings deserves respect, not obligation to abusive parents.

Not responsible for everyone. Set boundaries and prioritize your family.

Compassion without action: NTA for not helping homeless parents.

NTA for refusing to help homeless parents with a troubled past

Commenter supports prioritizing siblings over homeless parents. Kudos

NTA: Prioritizing the safety of siblings over homeless parents

NTA suggests others should move in with homeless parents

Don’t let guilt-tripping relatives pressure you into helping abusive parents.

Sibling support trumps abusive parents. NTA

Don’t owe your parents anything. Donate symbolically if guilty

Debate over parental responsibility and guilt-tripping in childcare.

Raising siblings at 30, NTA for refusing homeless parents.

Putting yourself first? Totally justified!

Sibling caregiver defends not housing homeless parents, NTA

Taking care of their kids? NTA wins this one!

Symbolic penny worth more than homeless parents? NTA comment.

Empathetic comment praises OP for taking care of children.
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NTA defends decision not to help homeless parents, receives family backlash.

Praise for a selfless 30-year-old sibling caretaker.

Commenter praised for being a saint, no backlash in replies
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Woman questioned for refusing to help homeless parents with minors.
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Sibling support enough. No obligation to homeless parents. #NTA

Family support should not solely rely on one person

Sibling defends decision not to help homeless parents. NTA

Taking in siblings is enough, NTA.

Commenter defends woman’s decision not to help homeless parents.

Don’t give in to manipulative guilt trips. NTA

NTA. Stand your ground and don’t let them guilt trip you.

Commenter praised for not helping homeless parents.

Taking in five kids and refusing to enable bad habits.

Standing up to guilt-trippers.

Sleep tight and don’t let the haters bite

Volunteer your own home before judging her.

Sibling caregiver not obligated to help homeless parents.

Commenter believes person was not the a**hole.

Financially supporting 4 siblings, NTA for not helping homeless parents.
