Couple Refuses Family Disney Vacation: Babysitting or Just Being Selfish?

Imagine living a peaceful life with your partner in the mountains, enjoying the quiet and the great outdoors. Now, picture being invited on a family vacation to Disney with your in-laws and their kids. Sounds like a nightmare, right? That’s exactly how one couple felt when they were invited to join their family on a trip to the Happiest Place on Earth. But their decision to skip the trip has caused a major rift in the family, with accusations of selfishness and ruined plans flying around.

The Peaceful Life ️

Disney Vacation Plans

Not Our Idea of Fun

Politely Declining

Explaining Our Perspective ️

MIL’s Shock

Disappointment and Excuses

Brother’s Angry Call

Babysitting Accusations

The Rift Grows ️

Clarifying the Kids Situation

Limits and Boundaries ⛔

Thanks and Future Plans

Apologies and Compromises

Disney Drama: Are They the Bad Guys?

In a whirlwind of family drama, this couple’s decision to skip a Disney vacation has caused quite the stir. Accused of ruining plans and being selfish, they’ve found themselves at the center of a family rift. With accusations of using them as babysitters and not caring about the family, they’re left wondering if they should’ve just sucked it up and endured a week of theme park chaos. But they’re standing firm on their decision, hoping to find a compromise that works for everyone. What do you think? Are they in the wrong, or should the family respect their preferences?

Disney vacation as a babysitter? NTA for refusing.

NTA for refusing to babysit and subsidize family vacation costs

Declining to subsidize and babysit on a family trip: NTA

Commenter calls out family for planning Disney vacation during pandemic.

NTA – Commenter suggests family wanted OP as babysitter and cash cow , recommends taking a break from them . Replies question room sharing and cost division ‍ ‍

Compromise and communication are key in family vacations.

Disney vacations aren’t for everyone, especially if you’re expected to babysit.

Passing on a family vacation is fine, but don’t insult them!

BIL’s true intentions revealed, NTA saves the day

Declining Disney trip with MIL, ESH for poor communication skills

Choosing to skip a family vacation to Disney – NTA

Setting boundaries with family over vacations.

Commenter refuses to babysit on family vacation, calls out entitlement.

Disney with kids? No thanks! NTA suggests camping instead.

Adults deserve fun too , not just the kids

Choosing to selectively engage with family has consequences. NAH/ESH.

Declining a family Disney vacation honestly may have been too much. ESH.

Stand your ground! Your family is being selfish

Couple refuses family Disney vacation and free babysitting. NTA

Family dynamics and boundaries can make or break a vacation

Skipping Disney: Wise or Wasteful?

Couple refuses family vacation, faces backlash for setting boundaries.

Skipping Disney World’s 50th anniversary? NTA, we get it.

Standing up for yourself and your vacation plans

In-laws assumed Disney trip and babysitting. NTA for refusing.

Suggesting boundaries for family vacations to maintain independence.

Couple refuses family Disney vacation, calling it work. Is it selfish?

Vacation bullies? NTA stands up for themselves and family.

Family tries to guilt couple into babysitting, NTA stands firm

Skipping Disney during pandemic: NTA, good call

Declining a family vacation request doesn’t make you selfish

Don’t be taken advantage of, stand your ground!

Disney theme parks are horrible, but Disney World has an excellent zoo

NTA for not wanting to be guilted into babysitting.

Consulting all adults before deciding on a destination is important

Disney fans are like cultists, but is it fair?

Step-sister plans Disney vacation, but NTA refuses to go.

No payment, no Disney vacation with extended family

Couple not obligated to babysit in-laws’ kids during Disney vacation

Suggesting alternatives for a family vacation

Family vacation without input or consideration for babysitters? NTA

Being childfree doesn’t mean free babysitting.

Declining family Disney vacation: NTA, a little ESH. ‍♂️

Commenter refuses Disney vacation during pandemic, calls out Americans. NTA

Don’t be guilt-tripped into being a free babysitter.

NTA refuses family Disney vacation, surrounded by screaming kids – valid.

Disney vacation not enjoyable currently, according to commenter.