When a mother needed help with childcare for her daughter and stepdaughter, her own mother volunteered to babysit for free. However, things took a turn for the worse when the grandmother started showing blatant favoritism towards her biological granddaughter. Despite attempts to address the issue, the grandmother refused to change her ways, leading to a difficult decision for the mother.
A Blended Family in Need

Bonding Takes Time ⏳

Grandma to the Rescue?

Favoritism Emerges

A Bad Example

Confronting the Issue ️

Real Daughter vs. Stepdaughter

Attempts to Change Fail

Taking Action

Grandma’s Response

Demands and Denial ♀️

Sam Misses Grandma

A Crucial Time ️

No Pushing, Just Patience

A Mother’s Dilemma: Family or Fairness?
In a blended family, a mother faces a tough decision when her own mother’s favoritism towards her biological granddaughter threatens the bond between her daughter and stepdaughter. Despite confronting her mother multiple times, the grandmother refuses to change her ways. The mother ultimately hires a babysitter and asks her mother not to come anymore, causing tension and heartache within the family. Will the grandmother’s attitude change, or will the family continue to struggle with this difficult situation? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Grandmother’s unequal treatment of grandchildren causes family drama

Childhood favoritism can cause emotional abuse and mental health issues

Teaching empathy and equality to kids

Grandma plays favorites with grandkids, causing family drama

Favoritism hurts relationships, blood doesn’t define real family

Heartwarming story of adoption and love

Choosing to show love and support can make a difference ❤

Standing up to unfair treatment of grandchildren. You go, mom!

Equal treatment is important to avoid resentment and aggression later
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Standing up to a toxic grandparent and prioritizing fairness

Grandma’s favoritism could cause resentment between siblings

Stepdaughter mistreated by grandmother, NTA for being protective.

Grandma’s unequal treatment requires supervised visits for fairness

Being a supportive bonus mom and standing up for fairness
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Grandma’s unequal treatment causes family drama. NTA suggests compensation.

Grandma’s favoritism causing family drama and inequality. ESH.

Forcing a relationship between step-siblings? Slight YTA

Encouraging response to unequal treatment of stepdaughter by grandmother.

Don’t force relationships, but don’t hurt your own child and mother.

All daughters are real daughters, NTA comment shuts down favoritism

Grandma’s influence on granddaughter needs to be monitored
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Don’t punish your daughter’s relationship with her grandmother, but grandma’s behavior needs to change.
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Family drama ensues over unequal treatment of grandchildren. ♂️

Grandma’s unequal treatment sparks family drama, commenter supports OP’s decision.
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Family drama ensues over unequal treatment of grandchildren

Suggesting to drop off only one child is not a good idea

Parenting done right , avoiding sibling rivalry and resentment.

Stepmother praised for fair treatment of grandchildren.

Commenter believes OP is not the a**hole
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Setting boundaries with family for the sake of your kids

Consider the family dynamics before taking sides in this drama

Step-grandpa’s equal treatment shows importance of impartial caretaker
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Stepmom demands equality for grandkids, earns NTA judgement

Step-mom receives praise for treating step-daughter equally ❤

Blended family goals

Fair treatment for all grandkids is crucial

Navigating family dynamics when introducing a new grandchild

Pay for a sitter now or therapy later

Grandma plays favorites with grandkids, causing family tension

Grandmother’s unequal treatment still affecting commenter at 26

Grandma’s favoritism towards biological grandchild causes family rift

Step daughter deserves equal treatment. Good for you for standing up.
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Grandma’s unequal treatment causes family drama. One commenter shares positive experience.

Supportive comment defends girl’s basic needs. NTA

Equal treatment for all grandkids, grandma loses babysitting rights
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Babysitting is more than just feeding and looking after kids
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Aunt’s equal treatment of step-nephew shows love knows no bounds

Grandma’s unequal treatment of grandkids sparks outrage and bullying

A heartwarming comment about a great mum

Mother’s unequal treatment of grandchildren sparks family drama . Commenter calls out bullying behavior and suggests consequences.

Setting boundaries with family

Grandma’s unequal treatment of grandchildren causes family tension

Grandparents treated all grandchildren equally, mom should too.

Grandma’s favoritism causes family drama

Loving stepmom defends stepdaughter, calls out unequal treatment.

Suggests a fair solution for grandmother’s unequal treatment of grandkids

Grandmother’s unequal treatment of grandchildren causes family tension
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Suggest setting boundaries with grandma to avoid family drama

Grandma’s entitled behavior causes family drama

Step-mom praised for fair treatment of grandchildren

Standing up for what’s right

Stepson gets equal treatment from grandpa, OP grateful
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Grandma’s favoritism sparks family drama
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