Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, chores, and surveillance that’s sure to make you question everything! Meet our protagonist, a 25-year-old guy who thought he had it all figured out with his girlfriend of 5 years. They moved in together, got some security cams to keep an eye on things, and seemed to be the perfect chore-tackling duo. But oh, how quickly things can change! Grab your popcorn and get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this messy saga of accusations, investigations, and relationship drama!
Moving In Together… What Could Go Wrong?

Break-Ins Galore! Time for Some Cameras

The Chore Wars Begin!

Wait, What? I Thought We Were a Chore Dream Team!

The Passive-Aggressive Jabs Intensify ️

Am I Losing My Mind?

The Ultimate Chore Showdown

️ The Great Chore Investigation

The Chore Tally Reveals the Truth!

Confrontation Time: The Tables Have Turned!

Love Lost Over Chores and Cameras

Am I the Bad Guy Here?

Edit: Clarifying the Chore Tally

Chore Wars: Surveillance Edition!
Well, well, well… looks like our protagonist thought he had the perfect relationship, but his girlfriend had other ideas! She started accusing him of slacking on chores, making him question his own sanity. But wait, there’s more! Our clever hero decided to put those security cameras to good use and tally up their chore contributions. ️ Turns out, they were pretty darn equal! But when he confronted his girlfriend with the evidence, she flipped the script and accused *him* of being a creepy, abusive stalker! Now she’s trying to move out, their friends are taking her side, and our poor protagonist is left wondering if he’s the a-hole in this mess. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild ride!
Hidden cameras expose lying partner, commenter supports NTA decision.

Breaking up with lies? NTA and walk away
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Counting chores = NTA, Exposing lies = Justified

Partner had every right to review the hidden camera footage.

YTA for calling lack of self-awareness “gaslighting”

NTA for not helping around the house, she was looking for excuses ♂️

Is reviewing years of video to prove anything creepy?

Could Anne’s resentment towards chores be fueling the hyperbole?

Avoid the gaslighter, dodge a bullet

Sharing the mental load in a relationship is important.

A dissenting opinion on invasion of privacy with thoughtful insights.

Keeping score doesn’t do much good when building a life

Ending a toxic relationship with evidence is justified. NTA

A comment calling out OP for invasive behavior

Hidden cameras expose lying girlfriend, commenter says OP dodged bullet.

Relationship advice: Is vindication worth breaking trust with creepy behavior?

The use of hidden cameras broke her trust and privacy

Woman caught gaslighting partner on camera, can’t handle being exposed.

Relationship issues masked as a chore argument Good luck.
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ESH in a chore-splitting dispute, both need better communication.

Caught in 4K: Hidden cameras expose woman’s lies

Cameras were known to Anne, NTA for using footage

The toll of gaslighting on one’s sanity

Partner’s emotional manipulation exposed by commenters.
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User calls out OP for bizarre behavior. Yikes.

The love of his life left after picking a fight

Gaslighting ex got exposed by security cams, you’re NTA.

Suggestion for better handling of the situation

ESH for ridiculous battle over cleaning, caught on camera

Quarantine getting to you too? Commiserate with this commenter ♀️

Controlling behavior or justified concern? ESH with a side of YTA

Discussion on confirmation bias and gaslighting in a toxic relationship. ESH.

ESH. Commenter suggests possible reasons for Anne’s behavior and advises OP to move on eventually.

Relationship already doomed, hidden camera just hastened the end.

Debate over hidden camera use leads to ESH judgment.

Unveiling the truth behind a narcissistic ex-girlfriend ♀️

Supportive reply suggests ex-girlfriend was looking for a way out ✌️

Gaslighting ex chooses the hill she dies on. NTA, move on.
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Installing cameras can be helpful for objective information, NTA

ESH, but OP’s ex was passive-aggressive and wanted to break up.

Using hidden cameras to prove your point is *nuts*. YTA.
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NTA, but communication about chores and feelings is important

YTA for tallying chores on camera, relationship should end

Perceptions of housework can be warped and lead to fights. ESH.

Partner caught lying on camera, NTA for recording

Relationship advice: Use words, not cameras, to solve problems

Fair division of household chores is crucial for relationships ✌️

Fair consideration of chore frequency and mutual discussion avoids conflict. ✅

Relationship goals: meticulously tallying up chores on camera

Relationship advice – let her go and move on. NTA ❤

Curious Redditor seeks more context on crazy woman’s lies.

Breaking up might have been on her mind already

Insightful comment on a breakup revealed by hidden cameras

NTA: Sometimes people look for excuses to end relationships.

A cautionary tale about the limits of surveillance and validation.
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Encouraging comment, keep swimming

When being wrong hurts your ego more than your actions

Hidden camera uncovers woman’s lies, but was it justified?

Exposing lies with hidden cameras. NTA dodges a bullet.

Partner nit-picks, but hidden camera proof foils breakup plan. NTA

Dodged a bullet, block her on every platform

Partner caught on camera not splitting chores evenly. NTA?

Trust your gut, NTA suggests she’s hiding something awful

NTA. Unwillingness to apologize is a red flag. Separate finances and belongings.

Gaslighting spouse caught on camera, NTA for leaving.

Ego blinds her to the truth, plays victim to avoid responsibility

Nagging partner exposed by hidden cameras. NTA wins!

Dodged a bullet and confident about Anne’s future

NTA’s healthy use of home security cameras saves relationship

Accusation of victimhood and manipulation with no defense.

Letting her go may save you heartache NTA

Moving on from a toxic relationship is liberating

ESH/NAH limbo due to communication issues over chores. Better ways exist.
