Picture this: You’ve been best friends with someone for five years, even living together. They set you up with a guy, and you date for three years before breaking up on good terms. You think you’ve moved on, but then your bestie drops a bombshell on you during a wine night. Turns out, your ex cheated on you for most of your relationship, and your best friend knew the whole time! Now you’re left wondering if you should forgive or forget.
Besties for 5 Years
Playing Cupid
Love Connection
J’s Seal of Approval
Mutual Breakup
Still Friends
Moving On
Wine Night Confession
J’s Shocking Secret
A Cheater Revealed
Two Years of Lies
J’s Betrayal
Covering for D
Escape to Mom’s House
Blocking D and J
Leaving the Apartment
J’s Desperate Plea
Should I Forgive?
Best Friend’s Betrayal: Should She Forgive?
Our protagonist found herself in a whirlwind of emotions after her best friend of five years, J, confessed a shocking secret. J revealed that the protagonist’s ex, D, had cheated on her for two out of the three years they were together, with three different women. The worst part? J knew the entire time and even covered for D, making excuses for his whereabouts. Feeling betrayed and heartbroken, our protagonist left the apartment she shared with J and moved in with her mom. Now, she’s left wondering if she should forgive J for her past actions, or if this betrayal is too much to handle. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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Ex-BFF knew about cheating, NTA for cutting them off
Lesson learned: trust is earned, not given,
Best friend betrayed her and helped ex cheat, NTA for cutting ties
Don’t listen to their excuses, NTA. Betrayal is betrayal
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Friend knew about cheating spouse, but didn’t tell for years. NTA.
Betrayal by trusted friends is worse than physical pain
Friend’s failure to tell about cheating wasted 2 years
Roommate covering up ex’s infidelity is insanely wrong. NTA.
Don’t feel guilty for cutting off toxic friends
Standing up for yourself and saying f**k them
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Friendship over: commenter calls out friend’s betrayal
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Cutting out toxic friends for protecting cheaters
No sympathy for the backstabber, zero time for their BS
Friend’s betrayal worse for covering up cheating. NTA
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Betrayed by best friend who lied for cheating boyfriend. NTA.
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Cutting toxic people out of your life is always justified
Cutting ties with shady friends – NTA
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NTA’s friend knew about cheating, should’ve kept quiet. Agreed?
Friendship breakups can be just as painful as romantic breakups
Betrayed by friends who knew of cheating, cut them off forever
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Friend hid cheating and enabled it. Cut them both off.
NTA! Supportive comment, encourages moving on.
NTA, friend knowingly covered up cheating, good on you for blocking.
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Standing up for yourself and cutting toxic people off
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Friend’s complicity in cheating earns commenter’s disapproval
NTA OP! Cutting toxic people out takes courage.
Accusation of infidelity leads to shocking reveal. NTA stands strong
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Betrayed by both best friend and boyfriend . NTA.
Unpopular NTA opinion: J didn’t tell to help you, but clear her conscience
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