Cousin’s SHOCKING Letter: ‘You Should’ve Warned Me About the Gay Couples at Your Wedding!’

Picture this: a beautiful wedding with 350 guests, love in the air, and everyone having a great time. But wait! There’s a twist. Our bride here had about 15 same-sex couples at her wedding, and her cousin A, who has become increasingly fundamentalist over the years, was also in attendance. Little did our bride know, she was about to receive a 5-page handwritten letter from cousin A, demanding a heads up about the same-sex couples and their slow dancing ways. Is our bride in the wrong for not warning her cousin, or is cousin A being absurd? Let’s find out! ️‍♀️

A Wedding to Remember

The Same-Sex Couples

Cousin A’s Fundamentalist Views

Family Matters ‍ ‍ ‍

A Shocking Letter

Cousin A’s Demands

Is It Ridiculous?

Who’s in the Wrong?

Update: Grandma to the Rescue!

Grandma’s Wisdom

Let TeTe Handle It!

Grandma’s Culture

Apology Received

A Wedding Drama Unfolds

Our bride, thrilled with her big day, never expected to receive a 5-page letter from cousin A, who was upset about the presence of same-sex couples at the wedding. Cousin A demanded that our bride discuss any guests she invites to future gatherings for “pre-approval.” Our bride’s SIL thinks she should have given cousin A a heads up, but our bride thinks it’s ridiculous. So, she calls in the big guns: her 94-year-old Arab grandmother, who does NOT suffer fools! Grandma steps in, and cousin A sends an apology text. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Donate gift money to Trevor Project, send receipt with thanks.

Just uninvite her and avoid the drama. #NTA

Cutting contact with a bigot: NTA.

NTA. Your beliefs are yours alone, you will be exposed to differences.

Stand your ground and don’t share pre-approval lists. #NTA

Homophobic cousin called out for intolerance at wedding. NTA.

Sarcastic response to a ridiculous request. Invitation revoked.

NTA defends gay couples at wedding, shuts down homophobia

Inform her or stop inviting her. It’s not that hard

Kids are accepting, cousin is hateful. NTA for having relatives.

Cut her off and send an invoice. NTA

Uninvited homophobic cousin learns her lesson.

Cutting ties with a homophobic cousin. NTA.

A witty response to a homophobic relative’s complaint.

350 guests and still not enough love to go around ❤️

NTA, you did those kids a favor by opening their eyes

Gracious clapback to homophobic cousin, promoting love and inclusivity.

Supportive comment advocating for pre-approval of guests to avoid bigotry

NTA shuts down homophobic cousin in epic clapback!

No veto power over wedding guests, even for homophobic cousin

NTA for calling out bigotry, but seeking validation online?

Congrats on the wedding! NTA for not catering to homophobia

Petty, but satisfying revenge fantasies.

Cousin’s bigotry gets shut down with a fiery NTA comment

Homophobia not welcome at weddings. NTA shuts it down

Entitled fundies not welcome at weddings, NTA shuts them down

Don’t let her have control over your life. NTA ✊

Bigoted cousin gets shut down for her exhausting behavior

NTA. Cousin’s bigotry, not OP’s responsibility to cater to it.

LGBTQ+ is not a warning-worthy offense. NTA

Offer to help explain LGBTQIA+ to her confused children. NTA

Uninviting themselves from reality

Teaching children about love is important. NTA ❤️ ‍❤️‍ ‍❤️‍

Guest’s entitlement over guest list is not acceptable.

Love is love, even if cousin A can’t handle it. ❤️

Homophobia and bigotry won’t be tolerated in this family

Sassy response to judgmental cousin’s homophobic letter. ️‍

Cut the toxic cousin out of future events.

Embrace diversity or don’t come to my wedding!

Supportive reply to OP’s decision to cut off toxic cousin.

Savage response to homophobic cousin’s shocking letter!

Straight ally agrees, shocked at 5-page letter!

Standing up against bigotry and promoting love wins.

Uninviting homophobic relatives: NTA’s perfect response

Uninvited homophobe gets the boot. Bye, Felicia!

Not the a**hole for standing up to bigotry

Sassy response to family member’s homophobic RSVP

Set boundaries and uninvite the homophobic cousin

Cousin needs to learn tolerance, NTA for having diverse guests

Love is love Homophobia is not ok

NTA! Respond with a disinvitation and congrats on your wedding!

Grandmothers against bigotry unite! NTA

NTA shuts down entitled parent’s homophobic comment.

Laughing face NTA shuts down homophobic cousin’s absurd comment.

No homophobe veto rights to wedding guest list! NTA ✌️

NTA mom calmly discusses same-sex relationships with kids.

Same-sex couples at a wedding? Cousin should have expected it ️‍

Cousin’s outdated views called out with a NTA response

No heads up needed for same-sex couples at wedding. NTA

Not required to accommodate bigots. Bye Felicia! ‍♀️

Be the bigger person and ignore her ignorance

Set boundaries, NTA. You don’t have to warn about guests

Reply to homophobic cousin is a satisfying NTA clapback!

NTA calls out cousin’s homophobia with a logical analogy

Bigoted cousin can’t dictate censoring of others’ lives

NTA shuts down homophobic cousin’s absurd demand with sass

NTA. It’s not your fault your cousin can’t handle diversity.