A 24-year-old vegetarian is questioning whether he’s in the wrong after his family ate his pies before he returned from the store. The man is known for making his grandmother’s Christmas bread every year and was planning to do so this year too. However, after the dessert incident, the man refused to make the bread and was accused of ruining Christmas. The family believes they were entitled to eat the pies as payment for the man staying with them and eating their food. The man is now seeking advice on whether he’s the a**hole or not for refusing to make breakfast for his family.
Baking tradition stolen, refusing breakfast? AITA or justified?
Family eats dessert pies meant for Christmas dinner, AITA?
Family eats all of OP’s pies before dinner, AITA for refusing breakfast?
Beware of pie thieves! OP stands up for herself
Pie payment leads to breakfast boycott, AITA verdict?
Baking drama: Family eats pies, accuses me of ruining Christmas
Pie thief family ruins Christmas breakfast, AITA for refusing?
Baking revenge: OP leaves family without Christmas Bread, drinks instead
Struggling to keep my Christmas pies safe from my family
Holiday pie disaster! Family eats all pies before dinner
Family eats my pies before Christmas dinner, AITA for refusing to make breakfast?
A man shares his frustration after his family eats the pies he made for dessert before he even had a chance to taste them. This isn’t the first time his family has done something like this to him, and he just wanted an acknowledgement that they should have waited for him to start eating his pies. But his family refused and said they were perfectly in their rights to do so as the pies were his ‘payment’ for staying with them and ‘eating their food’. The argument escalated quickly, and the man ended up leaving to make the Christmas bread with a friend instead. Now he’s wondering if he was in the wrong and should have just made the bread himself. Was he the asshole in this situation? Read on to find out what people are saying.
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Commenter gets support and requests recipe for Christmas bread.
Family eats OP’s pies, doesn’t accommodate their diet. NTA.
Family eats OP’s pies and demands labor, NTA for refusing breakfast
Refusing to make breakfast after family eats pies, NTA
Family using you for pies? NTA for refusing breakfast payment
Commenter calls out entitled family, suggests leaving.
Stand your ground . Don’t let them disrespect you.
Cooking is like giving a gift, but if they don’t appreciate it, screw their entitled expectations
Savage revenge or being the bigger person?
Dessert before dinner? Discussion on serving order ensues.
Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself,
Family eats OP’s pies and won’t make vegetarian dish, NTA
Refusing to be their personal chef, NTA wins this pie fight.
Bake yourself the best Christmas bread ever and enjoy!
Baker’s Christmas ruined by pie thieves
NTA for refusing to make breakfast for entitled family
You’re definitely NTA! It’s not your responsibility to feed them ♀️
Bake your own bread and share the love online
Family ate OP’s pies, now guilt tripping, NTA for refusing breakfast.
Spoiled family eats all pies, OP refuses breakfast. NTA.
Deserving better: Commenter receives support after family disrespects their efforts
Family eats OP’s pies before dinner, NTA for refusing breakfast
Protect your pies at all costs! ❌ Your family’s behavior was unacceptable.
Family requires payment for holidays and ignores dietary restrictions, NTA
Learn how to make a delicious Finnish braided loaf
NTA. No breakfast for pie thieves
No meat, no pie, no breakfast. NTA, they’re ungrateful.
Family claims my pies were payment for staying with them. NTA
Entitled family eats pies, no breakfast for them. NTA
Take the high road
Respect goes both ways, NTA. Get them involved in breakfast
Standing up for boundaries, NTA refuses to make breakfast ♂️
Family eats OP’s pies and gaslights them, NTA
Enjoy the peace of your own house and avoid making bread
Don’t reward their assholery, fill their stockings with coal
Family tries to guilt-trip OP into making breakfast, NTA
Commenter questions family’s behavior, demands, and twisted logic
Don’t let them eat your pies! Spend holidays with friends
Join this NTA’s inclusive and vegetarian-friendly family brunch
Heartbreaking! Family ruins OP’s birthday and Christmas, eats pies.
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Grandma’s pies are sacred, NTA for being upset
Family devoured pies like wolves while OP was gone, NTA.
Vegetarian guest’s pies eaten before dinner, NTA for refusing breakfast
Protect your baked goods and enjoy them alone
Suggesting to celebrate Christmas alone, NTA comment section ♀️
Family demands payment for visit, AITA for refusing breakfast?
Enjoy some wholesome revenge with bread #NTA
Cherish those who appreciate you, not selfish jerks.
Family ate OP’s food but refused to make him anything, NTA ♂️
Family eats OP’s pies, NTA for refusing breakfast.
Guests disrespect dietary restrictions, finish pies, and demand breakfast?
Family eats all the pies before dinner, commenter supports OP.
Stand up for yourself You’re NTA
Refusing to bake breakfast after pie was eaten, justified?
Don’t let them eat cake… or breakfast ☕
New Christmas tradition with people who appreciate you ❤️
Family ate both of OP’s pies, refused to cook vegetarian, NTA
Petty revenge in the kitchen,
Family’s entitled behavior gets called out, NTA wins
Stand your ground Don’t let them eat your hard work.
Commenter sympathizes with OP over family’s selfishness
Commiserating with a sad face emoji: NTA, sorry about your family
Baking sweet revenge Merry Christmas, OP!
Standing up for yourself in the face of unfairness, NTA
Being petty never tasted so sweet
Are they really worth your homemade pies?
Baking revenge with a side of sass
