Mother prioritizes kitchen renovation over gay son’s tuition

A wealthy grandmother stopped paying her grandson’s college tuition after he came out to her family. His mother won’t pay either, preferring to prioritise a kitchen renovation. Her son is devastated and has called her an a**hole. Who’s in the wrong?

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A mother prioritizes kitchen renovations over her gay son’s tuition causing a family feud. Her mother-in-law refused to pay for her children’s education if they didn’t attend private Christian or Catholic schools. Her son chose a Christian college, but after coming out to his cousin, he was outed to his intolerant grandmother who cut off financial support. The mother and her husband cannot afford to pay for their son’s final year and plan to use their savings on much-needed kitchen renovations. The son is devastated and feels betrayed, but the mother argues that he is an adult and must deal with the consequences. The situation has caused a rift in the family, and the mother plans to go no contact with her intolerant mother-in-law once her other two children’s tuition is paid for. What do you think? Is the mother in the wrong for choosing kitchen renovations over her son’s education or is the son responsible for his own tuition?

NTA OP, but ESH overall. Son faced consequences for being gay.

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NAH – Son outed by trusted person, but understandable financial situation.

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Commenter defends the grandmother and criticizes the expectation of funding post-secondary education.

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