A woman’s sister was arrested for drug possession and theft, leading the mother to ask for bail money. However, during a visit to her mother’s house, the daughter confronts her about her poor parenting skills and how it’s her fault that her sister ended up in trouble. The mother becomes furious and blames the daughter for not staying home to look after her sister. Was the daughter being too harsh or was the mother at fault? Read more to find out.
Confronting a toxic mother who put her daughter through hell.
Confrontation with mother after sister’s arrest for bad behavior.
Woman lends money to bail sister out, hears mother trash her.
Woman blames mother for sister’s arrest in heated confrontation
Confronting mom about sister’s arrest leads to family fallout
Confronting mom about sister’s arrest leads to fallout.
A woman shares her troubled childhood under her mother’s care, and how her sister’s recent arrest for drug possession and theft became a breaking point for her. After lending her sister bail money and visiting her at her mother’s house, she confronts her mom about her poor parenting, leading to a heated argument and ultimately being banned from her mother’s house. Read on for the reactions to this family drama and share your thoughts in the comments below.
Cutting ties with toxic family member? NTA wins.
Commenters sympathize with OP and criticize her mother’s behavior
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NTA. Engaging advice on getting help for sister and dealing with mother.
Don’t blame others for your parenting failures. Wake up call!
Confronting a failed mother and a sister needing to wake-up
Don’t give that *sshat of a mother another penny
Mother learns hard truth after daughter’s arrest. NTA wins.
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Support for confronting negligent mother and taking control
Don’t enable toxic behavior, even if it’s family
Support for confronting toxic mother in difficult situation.
Setting boundaries with family and offering support for sister’s success
Find your happy elsewhere #NTA
Commenter sympathizes with poster’s frustration towards negligent mother.
Stand up to toxic family members. You’re NTA. ✊
Commenter supports confronting mother for sister’s arrest, calls out neglect.
Commenter sympathizes with woman confronting failed mother. NTA
Don’t enable their behavior. Tough love. NTA.
Sibling bailing out sibling? Mother needs to step up.
Stand your ground and don’t enable bad behavior.
Don’t enable bad behavior, even if it’s family. ♀️
Stand your ground and stop enabling their financial irresponsibility
Compassionate response to sister’s arrest.
Sibling arrested, but commenter escapes trashy mother; best wishes
No more toxic family visits ♀️ #NTA
Brutal honesty wins, no a-hole here.
Consequences of bad parenting: a sister’s arrest and family divide.
User advises against enabling family’s addiction, praises OP’s maturity
Confronting a failing mother and saving a troubled sister.
Not the a**hole, but what led to this confrontation?
Mom not Mom of the Year, sister made bad decisions
Support for NTA commenter’s blamelessness stance
Confronting mother after sister’s arrest – user advises not to come back
Commenter supports OP’s decision to move out and confront mother.
Standing up to toxic family.
Supporting a sister in need, escaping an abusive mother. ❤️
Taking a stand for your principles. ✊ NTA
Daughter calls out bad parenting, internet agrees #NTA
Commenter supports sister and criticizes mother’s parenting choices.
Suggesting CPS intervention, not the a**hole
Cut toxic ties, keep your money NTA
Honesty always wins.
Protect your money: always get a written loan agreement ✍️
Stand up for yourself and focus on your own success
Responsibility as a parent
Standing up to family can be tough #NotTheAsshole
Sister’s arrest leads to family feud – commenter supports OP
Enjoy the freedom! Not the a-hole for confronting mom.
Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior, NTA verdict
Commenter not at fault, context unknown
Neglected sister’s behavior leads to NTA judgment for OP.
Tough love or too harsh? Confronting family after sister’s arrest.
Stand up for yourself and your finances
Bravely walking away from toxic people is the right choice.
Not the a**hole? Let’s see why
Not the a**hole? We need to know more
Confronting a bad mother: NTA but expect backlash
Sister claps back at mom’s blaming with no filter
Supporting a mother’s struggle with a touch of sarcasm
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Don’t expect to get the money back – cost of business
Sibling rivalry gets real. NTA dishes out some truth.
Take control of the situation and don’t let guilt consume you. ✌️
Navigating a difficult relationship with a narcissistic mother.
Going low contact with mom after sister’s arrest.
Not the a**hole: A refreshing take on family conflicts
Sister confronts mother’s failure and irresponsibility with receipts!
Offering a safe haven
Commenter suggests leaving people in prison with sarcastic tone
Take back control of your life!
Confrontation with enabling mother leads to sister’s arrest. NTA.
Cutting toxic ties for a brighter future ✂️
Confronting a parent about sibling’s behavior. NTA wins.
Not the a**hole? Tell us more
Mother’s greed exposed in heartbreaking post, NTA stands up
Sister’s arrest blamed on mother, commenter hopes for sister’s recovery
