Being a parent is tough, especially when you’re dealing with a child’s medical condition. But what happens when your own family interferes with your child’s care? One mom (F38) shares her story of how her mother-in-law’s meddling ways led to a shocking betrayal by her son’s doctor.
Dealing with a Meddling Mother-in-Law

Grandma’s Unwanted Involvement

Controlling Appointments and Meds

No Compliance, No Peace

New Clinic, Same Problems

Family Pressure and Guilt Trips

Family Blames Mom for Resentment

Doctor’s Confidentiality Breach

Grandma’s Right to Know?

Confronting the Doctor

Reporting the Doctor and Filing a Complaint

Family Turns Against Mom

Mom’s Focus Questioned

Husband’s Stance ♂️

Mysterious Friend Doctor

Doctor’s Betrayal and Family Drama
This mom is at her wit’s end after her mother-in-law’s constant meddling in her son’s medical care led to a shocking betrayal by his doctor. Despite the family’s attempts to keep the grandma in the dark, she managed to worm her way into a conversation with the doctor, who then shared confidential information about the child’s condition. The mom, feeling betrayed and furious, filed a complaint against the doctor, only to have her own family turn against her. Let’s see what people have to say about this tangled web of family drama…
NTA reports mother’s friend doctor for HIPAA violation

NTA. Medical info sharing is NEVER OK. Consider restraining order

Doctor’s lax attitude towards medical privacy could be deadly. NTA.




Protecting your child’s privacy is crucial, even with family members.


Debate over alternative medicine use for son causes suspicion

User suspects OP is using alternative medicine for son’s condition.
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Debate on the credibility of the grandmother’s claims.

Did the doctor spill secrets or just talk to MIL?

OP reports doctor for violating regulations, but husband and MIL disagree.

Commenter doubts OP’s story and questions missing information.


Op is an anti-vaxxer and her MiL is trying to help.

Who’s the real a**hole? The naturopath or someone else?

Commenter questions use of essential oils and sanity of parties involved.

Grandma meddles with son’s medical info, poses as mom?


Curious about what the doctor said and how MIL found out?

Nurse validates NTA’s decision to report doctor’s privacy violation

Curious about doctor’s side, suspicions arise in comment section

Commenter questions validity of story and leans towards YTA.

Overbearing grandma or helpful caretaker?

Comment suggests OP may be neglecting child’s medical condition.
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Did the husband give permission?

Curious about the medical treatment for OP’s son
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What’s the missing piece? Engage with the mystery

User skeptical of reported HIPAA violation, questions validity of claim

Explaining HIPAA violation and suggesting support for stressed OP

Commenter questions missing details in story about doctor’s breach of privacy.
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Unanswered questions leave doubt about doctor’s alleged betrayal


Questioning medical consensus? Join the discussion with this comment.

Did the doctor really share info?

Reporting the doctor for breaching HIPAA? NTA, but investigate husband’s involvement.

Ouch! That’s a harsh comment with no replies.

Commenter accuses OP of hiding something, demands answers

Commenter questions OP’s credibility over lack of information provided.
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Can a doctor listen to your MIL’s accusations? HIPAA explained

Skeptical commenter questions OP’s medical treatment for child.

Curious about the details of the situation and treatment choices

Commenter calls out OP for ignoring differing opinions

Commenter questions legitimacy of doctors in a spicy tone

Nurse doubts authenticity of doctor’s HIPAA violation accusation

Alternative medicine debate sparks in comment section

Commenter accuses OP of avoiding questions about doctor and MIL.

Curious about the grandma’s motives and liability of friend doctor

Is the MIL pushing for alternative medicine against your wishes?

Parent’s alternative medicine endangers child, MIL right to intervene.

Commenter calls out holistic approach, advises vaccination and real doctor
