Woman Exposes Fiancé’s Lewd Messages, But Did She Go Too Far?

Remember those wild college days? Well, one woman (37F) certainly does, and she’s not ashamed of it. She’s now happily married with two kids and has no regrets about her fun times in college. But when a guy from her past sent her lewd and insulting messages, she couldn’t just let it slide. Seeing his fiancée gushing about him on social media, she decided to forward those messages to her. Now, she’s left wondering if she overstepped her boundaries. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story.

Wild College Days

The Unexpected Message

Blocking and Ignoring

The Fiancée’s Post

Exposing the Truth

His Reaction

Mutual Friends’ Opinions ️

Questioning Her Actions

Clarification on Friends and Phone Number

Assumptions and Phone Number

No Nefarious Backstory ️‍♀️

Unwanted Accusations

The Dilemma: Did She Cross the Line? ‍♀️

So, our protagonist exposed her past acquaintance’s lewd messages to his fiancée, but now she’s left questioning her actions. Did she overstep her boundaries, or was she justified in revealing the truth? With mutual friends siding with the guy and accusing her of being jealous, it’s a tough call. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for exposing fiancé’s misogynistic abuse and double standards. Mutual friends revealed their true colors.

Ex-friend’s recent harassment and misogynistic views exposed, fiancé warned.

Woman exposes fiancé’s sexual harassment, friends side with perpetrator. Lose them.

Standing up against harassment, even from friends. NTA

Woman exposes fiancé’s lewd messages, receives support from commenters.

Exposing sexual harassment is never too far

Name-and-shame is fair game. NTA for exposing lewd messages.

Ex-friend defends fiancé, but OP did the right thing.

Commenter defends OP against toxic friends and justifies exposing fiancé’s behavior.

Being drunk does not excuse lewd messages. NTA for exposing.

Fiancé claims he doesn’t remember sending lewd messages while drunk. Commenters say he has no excuse. NTA.

Curious about the fiancée’s reaction? NTA, according to commenter.

Truth hurts but honesty is the best policy

Commenter supports exposing fiancé’s lewd messages with fiery response.

Exposing lewd messages from fiancé, justified or too far? NTA

NTA commenter supports exposing fiancé’s lewd messages.

Exposing a fiancé’s lewd messages to his partner. NTA.

Exposing lewd messages from ex-fiancé: justified or too far?

NTA for exposing fiancé’s lewd messages, he should face consequences.

Fiancé’s lewd messages exposed, commenter supports the move.

Ex-lover exposes fiancé’s slut-shaming, NTA for telling his fiancée.

Exposing a scuzz ball fiancé’s true nature. NTA.

Drop the fake friends and move on!

Exposing a cheater: NTA, you did the right thing!

Exposing a fiancé’s true nature: NTA or going too far?

Ex-fiancé exposed for lewd messages. NTA for speaking out.

Standing up against slut-shaming at 18

Fiancé’s lewd messages exposed, commenter calls out unacceptable behavior.

Supportive comment encourages accountability for lewd messages.

Exposing a harasser: NTA or too far?

Woman exposes sleazy fiancé’s messages, gets justified support.

Sexual harassment is never okay. NTA for exposing him

Supportive comment encourages standing up against sexual harassment.

Uncovering a fiancé’s true colors through drunk messages

Supportive comment with a touch of humor.

Exposing a lewd fiancé: justified or taking it too far?

Don’t mess with her or she’ll go social media nuclear

Stand up for yourself and don’t tolerate bad behavior

Commenter supports exposing fiancé’s lewd messages to everyone.

Clear judgement! But what led to this?

Drunk and still NTA, commenter slams misogynistic behavior

Friends support fiancé after lewd messages? Not cool!

Woman in the clear for exposing fiancé’s lewd messages

Standing up against harassment and slut-shaming. NTA!

NTA for exposing fiancé’s lewd messages. Consequences are important.

Exposing lewd messages: justified or going too far?

Empathetic response to harassment victim.

Commenter suggests consequences for fiancé’s actions with humor

Not the a**hole! Exposing creeps is always justified.

Standing up against harassment and toxic friends.

Exposing lewd messages: a favor or going too far?

Standing up against predators deserves solidarity, not backlash.

Exposing sexual harassment to fiancé is justified. NTA

Standing up against sexual harassment is not crazy

Expose the truth before it’s too late!

Commenter supports exposing fiancé’s lewd messages.

A decade later, a shocking revelation exposes a double standard.

Exposing a cheater before marriage: NTA

Commenter questions why fiancé’s friends are protecting him

Empowering response to fiancé’s lewd messages. NTA

Standing up against misogyny, but safety should be a priority.

Calling out sexual harassment is always justified. NTA

Choosing a partner with no control over alcohol or infidelity?

Exposing lewd messages: justified or too far?

Exposing fiancé’s harassment: justified or too far?