Teen’s Wild Party DESTROYS Sister’s £300 Dance Pole! Should She Pay Up?

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a wild one today. Picture this: a 23-year-old gal, let’s call her Pole Princess , takes in her 17-year-old sister, the Mischievous Minx , while their parents are going through a messy divorce. What could possibly go wrong? Well, apparently, a lot! The Minx invites her squad over for a little shindig, and before you know it, Pole Princess’s prized dance pole is destroyed! Now, the question on everyone’s mind: who’s gonna pay for this pole catastrophe?

Sister Staying with Me During Parents’ Divorce

Sister’s Friends Come Over, Chaos Ensues!

My Precious Dance Pole, Destroyed!

Pole Tackled by Overzealous Friend

Pole Was Top Quality, Damage Must’ve Been Intense

£300 Down the Drain, Sister Must Pay!

Sister’s Options: Get a Job, Use Allowance, or Do Chores ️

Sister Cries Unfair, I Say Take Responsibility!

I Stand My Ground: Pay Up or Work It Off

I Refuse Mom’s Bailout, Sister Must Learn!

I Can’t Send Sis Away, So She Must Learn

The Great Pole Debate: Sister’s Responsibility or Mom’s Bailout?

So, here’s the tea ☕: Pole Princess wants the Mischievous Minx to take responsibility for the destroyed dance pole, either by paying up or working it off with some good old-fashioned manual labor . But the Minx is crying foul, saying it’s not her fault and she can’t afford it. Mom tries to swoop in with a £350 bailout ‍♀️ , but Pole Princess ain’t having it. She wants the Minx to learn a lesson and prevent future pole-related disasters. ‍♀️ The internet is divided on this one. Some say Pole Princess is being too harsh, while others think the Minx needs to face the consequences. Let’s see what the masses have to say about this pole-arizing situation! ️

Taking the money and banning her sounds like a fair solution

Sister not entirely responsible, compromise with chores or payment?

NTA stands her ground and gives solid parenting advice.

Suggests practical options for sister’s irresponsibility and damages. #NTA

Accepting parents’ money for sister’s damaged dance pole: NTA.

Taking responsibility for allowing the party to happen

Fair point, split the costs with the friend who broke it

NTA suggests grounding sister and taking money to teach a lesson.

Sibling conflict over destroyed dance pole, ESH, suggests bigger talk.

Compromise reached for replacing destroyed dance pole, sister repainting wall.

NTA, sister should take accountability. Summer job payment suggestion given.

Sister’s friend broke dance pole at party. ESH for negligence.

Half-and-half deal suggested for sister’s damaged property, emphasizing responsibility.

OP could give ultimatum to mom about sister’s behavior. NTA

Set rules for sister’s behavior, NTA for not paying.

Accept the money and ban her from having parties

Sibling drama: ESH for refusing reasonable payment and teaching a lesson. ‍♀️

Responsible advice on COVID protocols

NTA, but sister needs to pay for damages and leave ‍♀️

Sister’s friend broke dance pole at party. Who pays?

Sibling party drama: ESH, but sister should pay for damages

Set boundaries and take the money offered. NTA.

Sister’s not legally an adult, YTA for being petty.

Don’t parent your sister, but make her pay for damages

Sibling drama and underhanded tactics over a broken dance pole

Sister breaks dance pole, refuses to pay. NTA claps back

Sibling conflict over damaged dance pole and responsibility (ESH)

NTA for not wanting to pay, but why not find culprit?

Sister damages dance pole at wild party. ESH for not settling.

Sister threw a pandemic party, broke dance pole. NTA for demanding payment.

Suggests accepting mother’s offer to pay for damaged dance pole.

Taking responsibility as an adult.

Sibling advice: give a personal warning to sister and take money from mom

NTA’s free standing Xpole got destroyed at teen’s party

Compassionate NTA suggests consequences and uses empathy for sister’s situation.

Suggests a compromise between sister and parents for pole damage.

Taking legal action over dance pole is not worth it. YTA.

User argues sister shouldn’t make minor pay for broken pole. YTA.

Suggests using nanny cam and fine to avoid future damage

Teen refuses to pay for broken dance pole; YTA or not?

NTA turned ESH due to overreaction and refusal to pay.

Sister’s £300 dance pole destroyed at party, who pays up?

Don’t parent your younger sister. You have growing up to do.

Set boundaries with your sister, not your responsibility to pay.

Landlord sister refuses to pay for sister’s damaged dance pole

Sister’s irresponsibility causes damage, but can she be held accountable?

Suggests a fair solution without demanding money

No blame, but fix it yourself to avoid teaching responsibility.

NTA suggests taking money from mom and establishing new rules

Sibling drama and tough love: NTA suggests banning sister.

Pole dancing and retail therapy, a match made in heaven?

Teaching responsibility to a 16-year-old sister.

Hold her accountable! NTA is reasonable to expect amends.

Protect your property: Install cameras and set boundaries!

NTA. Making sister work off the debt seems fair.

Accept money, get a Ring doorbell, and enforce no visitors

Setting boundaries with family members can be tough!

Sibling solidarity! Older sibling teaches responsibility while parents are absent.

Protect your home with a camera, not your sister’s money

Sister living in your apartment? Different rules apply. NTA.

Sis needs to learn responsibility, NTA comment explains why.

Fair point! Payment should be expected regardless of relation.

Install cameras & ban her friends; don’t spoil her. NTA

Sister’s wild party damages dance pole. NTA suggests consequences.

NTA. Importance of source of money explained. Consider emotional cost.

Sister’s friend broke dance pole at teen’s party. NTA holding sister responsible.

Suggests taking money from mom, installing cameras, and threatening sister.

Sibling drama over a broken dance pole. ESH, but who pays?

Sister breaks dance pole, but won’t fix it? NTA, install camera

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA for enforcing them.

17-year-old should take responsibility for damaging dance pole. NTA.

Sister won’t pay for damaged dance pole, time for tough love.

Taking responsibility for actions and standing up for personal space. NTA.

User suggests disciplining sister without demanding punishment from her.

Sister breaks dance pole, but is punishment justified?

Don’t be too hard on yourself, but set boundaries.

Communication is key to resolving this pole-emma

Teen’s sister demands reimbursement for destroyed dance pole, sister hesitant.

Sister refuses to take responsibility for £300 damage. YTA for not accepting mom’s offer to fix it.

Sister’s friend broke dance pole at party, no clear solution