Nurse Dad’s Dilemma: Fiancée Drops Baby at Work

Picture this: you’re a nurse in the middle of a hectic shift, and suddenly, your fiancée shows up with your one-year-old son, expecting you to watch him while she goes to the salon. That’s precisely the situation one dad found himself in, and he’s not happy about it. He and his fiancée had agreed on their responsibilities, but when she dropped their baby off at his workplace, all bets were off. Now, the couple is at odds, and even their families are getting involved. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story.

Dividing Responsibilities ‍⚕️

Shared Childcare Duties

Unpredictable Work Hours ⏰

The Wedding Day Arrives

Can’t Skip Work ‍⚕️

Fiancée Throws a Fit

Surprise at the Hospital

Fiancée’s Demand ‍♂️

Dad Lashes Out ️

No Other Options? ‍♀️

Angry Homecoming

Mother-in-Law Weighs In ‍

Past Arrangements ‍ ‍

Stubborn Fiancée ‍♀️

Mother’s Influence? ‍

Drama Unfolds: Who’s Right, Who’s Wrong? ‍♂️

So, our nurse dad is caught in a whirlwind of drama after his fiancée drops their baby off at his workplace during his shift. He’s furious, but his fiancée and her mom think he’s overreacting. They accuse him of caring more about work than his own son, even though he had made it clear he was busy. The couple had previously made arrangements for events, but this time, the fiancée was being stubborn. Now, with both sides refusing to back down, the situation has escalated, and even the internet has opinions on who’s right and who’s wrong. Let’s see what people have to say about this intense family drama…

Father chooses work over fiancee’s hair appointment, NTA wins

Fiancée and her mother are idiots. NTA.

Red flags: NTA, reconsider tying yourself to selfish fiancee

Fiancée drops baby at work for hair appointment. NTA.

NTA. Reconsider marriage. She endangered your son and patients.

Humorous comment receives multiple awards and compliments.

Parenting requires sacrifices. NTA for not bringing child to work.

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter advises rethinking relationship. NTA.

Missing info, but fiancée TA for dropping baby at work

Nurse dad’s fiancée drops baby at work, commenter supports dad’s reaction

Father struggles with fiancée’s negligence as a mother

Fiancée drops baby at work. Commenter advises not to marry.

Nurse dad not at fault for fiancée’s irresponsible actions

Nurse’s insane work hours pushing fiancée to breaking point

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter advises to reconsider relationship.

Red flag alert! NTA should run, not walk away.

Fiancée drops baby at nurse partner’s hospital work. NTA.

Fiancée’s ‘dick move’ triggers deeper issues; daycare or talk needed

Balancing work and personal life can avoid such situations

Both parties should have communicated and compromised. ESH

Fiancée wants nurse dad to skip work and watch baby. Outrageous!

Supportive comment defends nurse dad’s job and childcare decisions.

User questions dad’s last-minute childcare decision for dropped baby.

Fiancée drops baby at work, NTA for not watching.

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter calls out parenting priorities

NTA. Fiancée and her mother are the a**holes. Priorities first.

Fiancée drops baby at nurse’s work, calls during pandemic. NTA.

Parent suggests reconsidering marriage after fiancée drops baby at work

NTA. Don’t marry her or have more kids with her.

Nurse dad struggles with fiancée who puts child and job in danger. NTA.

Confusion over fiancée’s actions and timeline

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter confused why not mother’s. NTA

Fiancée drops baby at nurse dad’s work. NTA. Possible PPD?

Parent drops baby at work, commenter supports NTA dad

Concerned commenter advises getting help for fiancée’s behavior

Stand your ground, but communicate with your fiancée

Nurse dad’s fiancée drops baby at work, causing a scene NTA, but could have asked for help earlier

NTA suggests divorce after fiancée drops baby at work

Red flag alert! Lawyer up and dump the fiancée

Run away while you can! Lazy, entitled fiancée.

Fiancée drops baby at work NTA calls out bad parenting

Red flags in the relationship. Proceed with caution.

Fiancée not pulling her weight, family enabling her. NTA.

Fiancée drops baby at nurse dad’s work, commenters suggest break-up

NTA for not watching baby at work, but reevaluate division of labor

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter says she needs therapy and a job

Encouraging comment about being a single dad.

NTA for being concerned about baby, MIL needs to butt out

Red flags: NTA commenter advises nurse dad to reconsider fiancee and finances.

Fellow nurse empathizes with NTA nurse dad’s dilemma

Nurse dad’s fiancée drops baby at work, gets harsh reality check

Nurse expresses frustration with fiancée’s irresponsible behavior

Nurse’s coworkers handle grieving and dying people, not a baby

NTA, but possible hostility from both sides. Work obligations vs. wedding.

NTA sole breadwinner fiancée drops baby at work

Nurse dad criticized for not compromising on wedding arrangements

Concerned commenter suggests fiancée may be experiencing breakdown/crisis

Fiancée drops baby at nurse’s work during pandemic. NTA reevaluates.

NTA commenter warns about potential job loss due to fiancée’s actions

Fiancée wants nurse dad to take time off for her haircut ‍♂️, but is there more to it?

Fiancée drops baby at nurse dad’s work; commenters call her selfish

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter says NTA and suggests reality check

Being a nurse and a mom means making sacrifices. NTA.

Setting priorities and boundaries with family. NTA.

User empathizes with overworked fiancée but calls her TA. NTA.

Fiancée dropped baby at nurse’s work during pandemic NTA, but could there be more to the story?

SAHM fiancée drops baby at work. NTA, but overhaul needed.

Parenting is 24/7 work, but dropping off baby at work is not the solution

Fiancée misses pre-wedding event, nurse dad left with baby. ESH.

NTA. Fiancée’s behavior was outrageous. Set boundaries and discuss childcare arrangements.

When work calls, SO should take care of the kiddo

Fiancée demands dad to skip work and watch baby at workplace

Fiancée drops baby at work during pandemic for salon appointment

Parenting and chores can be two full-time jobs. Communication is key.

Nurse dad gets support for not watching baby during shifts

Fiancée puts nurse’s license at risk by dropping baby at work

Fiancée drops baby at work , comment suggests daycare and MIL timeout.

Fiancée drops baby at nurse dad’s work during pandemic spa day

Engaging with the commenter’s concern about COVID spread and advising against marrying the fiancee

NTA dad deals with entitled fiancée and mother-in-law.