A man asked his wife to wear contacts to a fancy event, causing her to become angry and embarrassed. The incident led to a heated argument between the couple, with the wife feeling insecure and unattractive. The incident has sparked a debate online, with people taking sides. Some argue that the man was insensitive and controlling, while others think the wife overreacted. What do you think? Read more about this controversial issue.
Wife upset after husband makes request for company party attire.

Husband requests wife to wear contacts to event, sparks argument

Wife’s vision causes conflict for special events. vs. ️

Husband demands wife to wear contacts, sparks insecurity and argument

Wife gets angry when asked to wear contacts to event

Husband’s request for wife’s contacts sparks argument

Man’s request for wife to wear contacts causes marital tension. AITA?

To wear or not to wear glasses?
A man requested his wife to wear contact lenses to a fancy work event, leading to an argument. Despite having glasses, the man wanted his wife to look her best at the event, where several women were also wearing glasses. After some back and forth, the wife reluctantly agreed to put on contacts. However, upon reaching the restaurant, she noticed other women wearing glasses and became furious at her husband. She believes he made her feel unattractive by insisting on her wearing contacts. The husband, on the other hand, thinks his wife is being ridiculous and insecure. The situation has left the couple in a tense standoff. The wife is still angry, and the man is unsure whether he did something wrong. What do you think about this situation? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
YTA for asking your wife to wear contacts to an event

Man forces wife to change appearance and gaslights her. YTA

OP asks wife to wear contacts to event, deemed YTA for pressuring.

Man asks wife to wear contacts to event, is called out for his own insecurity

Glasses or contacts: does it really matter?

Man asks wife to wear contacts to work event, gets called out for being the a**hole

Man gets called YTA for expecting wife to wear contacts

Controlling spouse demands wife wear contacts, shames her for glasses

Glasses are beautiful accessories, and there’s nothing inappropriate about them. YTA.

Insulting your wife’s appearance? Apologize, YTA

Husband’s request for wife to wear contacts backfires. Commenter calls him out

Insulting your wife’s glasses? YTA, apologize and fix it.

Glasses aren’t a flaw, YTA.

Commenter roasts YTA, receives witty reply from community.

Controlling husbands treat wives like accessories at parties. YTA.

Wife’s glasses spark argument; commenter calls husband controlling

Why discriminate against glasses?

YTA insists wife wears contacts, gets called out by commenters

Husband asked wife to wear contacts, YTA – respect her comfort ❤️

Husband values appearance over wife’s comfort and causes argument. YTA

Man criticized for asking wife to wear contacts to event

Glasses-wearers unite! A husband’s request for contact lenses backfires.

Husband demands wife to wear contact lenses to party. YTA.

Encouraging confidence over conformity

Spouse demands contact lenses for event, called out for shallowness. YTA

Don’t be a glasses shamer! YTA comment gets called out.

Man insists wife remove glasses for event – backfires spectacularly

Glasses as an accessory? YTA sparks debate on fashion norms.

OP is the controlling a**hole in glasses vs contacts debate

Husband insults wife’s glasses, expects her to look ‘best’ for work: YTA

Commenter calls out YTA for being insecure

Don’t be a blooming AH , appreciate your wife’s beauty with glasses

Commenter slams OP, suggests divorce papers for Christmas.

Respect your partner’s comfort, not their looks

Don’t be an a**hole, let her see and wear her glasses

Let her manage her medical condition comfortably. YTA

Don’t be a beauty dictator. YTA for being petty.
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Don’t be an a**hole, let her wear what she wants

Wearing glasses doesn’t make her less attractive

Man bullies wife to wear contacts for ego boost. YTA

Don’t be a jerk, glasses can be elegant too

Man’s insensitive comments about wife’s glasses spark argument. YTA
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Commenter delivers brutal YTA verdict on wife’s request.

Commenter calls out the obvious arsehole, YTA.

Reader deems someone the a**hole, sparking debate.

Commenter calls OP a ‘huge AH’

Demanding wife to wear contacts? YTA, ableism is unacceptable

Demanding wife change appearance? YTA. Confidence > shallow preferences
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Man faces backlash for asking wife to wear contacts, YTA.

Apologize for calling her unfancy for wearing glasses, YTA
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Respect her choice! Glasses are an aid, not a burden
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Husband requests wife to wear contacts and causes argument. YTA.
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Glasses are not inappropriate for a fancy event. YTA.

Man asks wife to wear contacts to event, gets called out (YTA)

Controlling husband insists wife wears contacts to event, called out YTA

Glasses are not an accessory, they’re a medical device. YTA.

Commenter unequivocally calls out the YTA, no excuses.

YTA wants wife to ditch glasses for event, gets called out

Insensitive husband insists wife wear contacts to work event. YTA ♂️

Commenter disgusted by behavior, no replies.
