Ah, the joys of family gatherings – especially when it’s time for the annual family photo. One man in his 30s decided to continue the tradition of taking a big family Thanksgiving picture for Christmas cards. With 20+ people attending, he politely asked everyone to dress nicely for the photo. Little did he know, his wife’s cousin Sarah’s family would bring some unexpected drama to the table.
The Tradition Continues

A Dress Code Request

The Goth Outfit Arrives

The Outfit Confrontation

Picture Time

A Few Pictures Without Sam

The Argument Begins

Sam Steps Aside ♂️

Facebook Posts Stir the Pot

The Final Update

Sam’s Prank Revealed

The Game of Chicken

The Joke Continues

The Awkward Realization

The Apology and Resolution

The Great Goth Outfit Debate: Resolved?
In the end, it turns out Sam’s goth outfit was just a prank for TikTok, but things didn’t go as planned. After some awkwardness and a few choice words, Sam apologized for putting the family in a weird spot. The man accepted the apology and decided to post both photos on Facebook. Now, the family can look back on this Thanksgiving drama and laugh (or cringe) at the memories.
Rebellious or not, excluding a 14yo for expressing themselves? YTA

NTA for requesting nice outfits, but was the goth outfit rude?

Embrace imperfection in family photos! YTA vs NTA/NAH debate.

Let the child be. YTA for excluding them from pictures.

Clear dress codes exist in many places, including family events. NTA

Inclusive photo request met, but still not good enough?

Don’t let Sam’s attention-seeking behavior ruin a family photo
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NTA prevails in goth outfit battle. Sam should’ve known better

NTA comment defends dress code, replies mock overreactions with humor

Commenter defends OP’s rules and calls out Sam’s behavior.

Respectful commenter receives validation for their actions.

Commenter defends OP’s goth outfit, calls out intentional provocation

Teenage rebellion causes family photo fiasco. NTA for excluding.

Embracing the goth phase with humor and fashion goals

NTA for requesting casual outfits for family photo, accommodating Sam’s goth style, but still expecting respect for request.

Respect the dress code or don’t participate. NTA

Childhood antics or attention-seeking behavior? NTA comment section weighs in.

Teenager’s prank backfires, justice served with awkward silence

Clear judgement!

NTA defends OP’s request for coordinated family photo attire.

Taking both goth and non-goth photos, NTA for wanting unity

Compromise accepted! NTA for respecting pronouns

Excluding stepchild from family photos over outfit choice? YTA ♀️

Inclusive photoshoot wins praise for being fair and considerate

Expressing through clothing is fine, but they went too far

NTA, explicit warning given, effort made to ‘meet in the middle’

14-year-old dresses provocatively for reaction, YTA or NAH?

Halloween prank leads to family photo fiasco

Clear cut judgement, no drama here.

Kid wears goth outfit for family photo, NTA wants do-over

Modern Family vibes: YTA for excluding family over outfits ♀️

Respect is a two-way street . NTA asked respectfully, but Sam was disrespectful.

Teen learns social media prank not worth the embarrassment

Rebellious teens don’t run the world. NTA

User defends OP’s request for semi-formal family photo.

Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing aesthetics over family.

Rebellious but responsible: Looking right for the pictures

User defends OP’s decision to exclude goth family members from photo.

Alternative outfit prank gone wrong, but still NTA

Commenter defends host’s dress code request for family photo

Standing up to family pressure for a non-goth family photo

Not the a-hole! Keep on rockin’ that goth outfit!

Handling TikTok prank like a boss. NTA

Defending dress code for family photo, NTA according to commenter.

Parent sets expectations, kid rebels with goth outfit. NTA.

Comment defends boomers and criticizes younger generation.

Don’t miss out on the goth gold

Teen’s goth outfit isn’t about you, let them be

Don’t stifle your child’s sense of style, YTA

The commenter is not the a**hole.
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