A man recently posted on the Am I The A**hole subreddit, seeking advice on whether or not he was in the wrong for asking his pregnant girlfriend to pay for or replace his meal after she ate all of it. The post has since gone viral, with many people chiming in on both sides of the argument. The man’s girlfriend is currently pregnant with her sister and brother-in-law’s child, and frequently comes over to his place to spend time with him. However, she often raids his kitchen and complains when there’s nothing to eat. When the man’s parents brought him food from his favorite restaurant, his girlfriend ate all of his leftovers and refused to pay for or replace the meal when he asked. Was the man justified in his request, or was he being unreasonable? Read on to find out.
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A man’s girlfriend, who is pregnant as a surrogate for her sister, ate all of his leftovers from his favorite restaurant. He asked her to either pay him back or get him another order. The situation escalated when his mother got involved. Read on for the comments and reactions on this contentious issue.
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Partner’s pregnancy doesn’t excuse lack of common courtesy. NTA.
Taking all the food someone offers to share is a**hole move
Pregnancy doesn’t give green light to demolish all the food
YTA for making a big deal out of a minor misunderstanding
Pregnancy isn’t an excuse to eat all someone’s food
Pregnant girlfriend eats all of man’s dinner, refuses to replace it. NTA
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Eating all the food or eating away at their relationship? ESH ️
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Resentment over shared food during pregnancy. ESH
Pregnant girlfriend eats all his meal, gets called out. NTA.
Food fight in the making Let’s just move on.
Stand up for yourself and don’t let pregnancy be an excuse
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Respectful NTA boyfriend asked for meal money, boundaries are important
Insensitive boyfriend asks pregnant girlfriend to pay for his meal. YTA
Pregnant girlfriend eats all his food, demands payment. NTA.
Girlfriend ate his meal, didn’t apologize, and triangulated his mom. ♂️
Girlfriend taking advantage of hospitality and food, NTA.
Don’t be an a**hole, pay for your own meal ️
Not the a**hole but still a bit of a jerk
Pregnancy cravings can be costly
NTA. Complicated situation with baby, but you’re not the ATM
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Keep snacks on hand! Agree, NTA
Pregnant woman agrees, eating boyfriend’s meal is disrespectful ♀️
Family members should fund pregnancy cravings, not boyfriend.
Meal dispute turns into family feud. ️ ♀️
Pregnancy cravings or not, eating someone else’s meal is wrong. NTA
Expecting mom under fire for not bringing her own food
Entitled girlfriend eats his food, doesn’t offer replacement. #NTA ️
Pregnancy doesn’t equal automatic entitlement to food.
