Woman Freezes Boyfriend’s Card After Sister Spends Thousands

A woman is asking if she’s in the wrong after freezing her boyfriend’s card. Her boyfriend’s sister spends his money without limits and the woman is now pregnant, covering 70% of their expenses. After finding out that the sister spent over $3k in a week, the woman froze the card to avoid running out of money again. However, the boyfriend got angry and called her selfish. What do you think? Who’s the a**hole in this situation? Read on to find out.

Supporting the boyfriend’s family taking a toll on finances ❄️

Irresponsible sister causes chaos, boyfriend turns a blind eye

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Boyfriend’s sister spends 3k on his card, girlfriend freezes it

Woman freezes boyfriend’s card after sister spends thousands ❄️

Woman freezes boyfriend’s card after sister spends thousands

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OP receives backlash for freezing boyfriend’s card; asks for support ❤️

❄️ Woman freezes boyfriend’s card after sister spends thousands

When money gets tight, it can put a strain on any relationship. But what happens when your boyfriend’s sister takes advantage of his generosity by spending thousands on his dime? This woman froze her boyfriend’s card after discovering his sister had charged over 3k on his account in just one week. Despite her boyfriend’s annoyance, she stood her ground, arguing that he should focus on providing for their own child instead of sponsoring the life of his irresponsible sister. But was she wrong to freeze the card? The internet weighed in with their opinions, some calling her selfish while others praised her for taking a stand. What do you think? Read on for more details and reactions .

OP’s boyfriend prioritizes sister’s spending over their unborn child. ESH.

Freezing his card was an overreach but leaving him is necessary

Put yourself and your baby first. NTA.

Expecting someone to change for a child is crazy ‍♀️

Controlling behavior and financial irresponsibility in relationship.

Protecting your assets from a parasitic sister and spineless BF ‍♀️

ESH, but freezing his card was not the solution

Selfish parents put child’s needs last, freeze credit not feelings ‍♂️

Time to focus on your future and baby

Taking legal action against ex and sister for financial damages

Woman freezes boyfriend’s card after sister spends thousands – Commenter advises to cut off sister’s financial support

NTA for freezing the card, but the relationship is toast

Break free and prioritize yourself and your baby.

Relationship doomed: Freezing card won’t fix financial irresponsibility.

Woman should leave and file child support for her and baby

Empathetic advice for a pregnant woman dealing with a selfish partner.

Controlling boyfriend’s finances is not justified ‍♀️

Money fights in relationships can get messy

ESH, but give him a wake-up call about financial abuse

NTA for wanting him to contribute equally to bills, but freezing his personal card is not okay

Boyfriend’s sister causes chaos while girlfriend is the villain

Ultimatum time: Therapy or child support. ESH in situation.

Excel can be a great tool to visualize expenses

Protect yourself and your baby. It’s time to leave.

Boyfriend chooses sister over gf and child. #NTA

Unresolved issues and a baby on the way.

Stand up for yourself and your baby. You’re NTA

Spot on! The boyfriend’s sister is the real culprit here.

Suggesting solutions to a financial problem in a relationship

Communicate with him or break up before the baby’s born.

Controlling his money was not right. Sister is a leech.

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries

Questioning the relationship status with a hint of sarcasm

Commenter questions the decision to have a child with irresponsible partner.

When your partner is married to their sibling

Harsh question, but valid. Is he really worth it?

Secure your child’s future with court-ordered child support

Time to move on? NTA but not a healthy relationship.

Taking control of finances and parenting as a single mom

Supportive comments, baby on the way!

Filing for child support is the way to go

Partner prioritizes sister over baby, commenter recommends counseling and boundaries

Take legal action against him and his irresponsible sister. ⚖️

Freezing boyfriend’s card after sister’s spending spree

Dump him ASAP: Woman advises freezing boyfriend’s card

File for child support to get fair share of income

Boyfriend prioritizes sister over baby, OP needs to set boundaries