Buckle up, folks! We’ve got some juicy family drama brewing! A dad is planning a holiday getaway with his extended fam, but his adult daughter is throwing a fit because she can’t share a room with her boyfriend of 3 years! The dad’s putting his foot down, saying as long as he’s paying, it’s his rules. ♂️ But the daughter thinks it’s about time they’re treated like adults. Who’s in the right here? Let’s dive into this spicy tale! ️
Family Vacay Drama: Daughter Demands to Share Room with BF!

Daughter’s BF is Practically Family… But Still No Room Sharing! ♂️

Daughter & BF Live Separately, But Probably ‘Play House’ Often

Awkward Phone Call: Daughter Expects to Room with BF!

Daughter Taken Aback: ‘About Time You Realize We’re Adults!’

♂️ Dad Puts Foot Down: ‘Not Gonna Happen!’

Dad’s Rules: You Want Your Own Room, You Pay For It!

Dad Thinks It’s Inappropriate with Traditional Parents & Young Kids Around

Dad’s Paying, Dad’s Rules: No Shacking Up in Hotel!

Dad Reminds: ‘You ARE Our Child, Our Rules Apply!’

️ Room Situation Breakdown: 5 Rooms, 2 Queen Beds Each

If Daughter & BF Shared, Others Would Be Crammed!

️ It’s Only a 4-Night Trip, ‘Sex Time’ Isn’t a Priority!

Dad Thinks Daughter & BF Will Survive Without Sharing a Room

Internet Weighs In: Should Dad Let Adult Daughter & BF Share Room on Family Trip?
Well, well, well! Looks like this family vacay is turning into quite the dramatic affair! The internet has some thoughts on whether this dad should let his grown daughter shack up with her boyfriend on the trip. Some are saying the dad needs to realize his little girl is all grown up now and treat her like an adult. ♀️ Others are backing the dad, saying his house (or hotel), his rules! It’s a tricky situation for sure. Let’s see what the top minds of the internet have to say about this juicy dilemma!
Let her live her life, Dad. It’s not your business.

Daughter’s boyfriend alienated by controlling dad, causing unnecessary conflict. YTA

23-year-old daughter wants to room with boyfriend on trip. Commenter thinks dad is the a**hole for saying no and needs to grow up.

Daughter wants boyfriend on trip, dad says no. Commenter calls out.

Frustrated commenter calls out parents’ double standards, accuses father of pushing daughter away.

Awkward comment with zero replies

Daughter’s supporter calls out dad as controlling.

Should the dad treat the boyfriend as a partner?

Dad’s paying but forbidding daughter and bf from sharing room? YTA

Engaging comment challenges father’s traditional values on family trip.

Dad called out for immaturity in denying 23-year-old daughter’s request

Dad faces backlash for not letting daughter room with boyfriend

Let her room with her boyfriend, she’s 23

Dad gets called out for not taking his daughter’s relationship seriously
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Redditors call out parent for being ‘insane’ and controlling

A blunt and gross warning about rooming with significant others.

YTA for putting your daughter’s safety at risk. NTA for not wanting her boyfriend to share a room.

Respectful comment supports dad’s decision; suggests separate rooms to avoid drama.

Sharing a room will be uncomfortable for the other kids

Redditor calls out dad for being rude to daughter and boyfriend

User thinks Dad’s rules are archaic and unfair.

Daughter wants to room with boyfriend on family trip. Dad refuses. Commenter thinks dad is TA and disrespectful towards daughter’s adulthood.

Let adults be adults. Dad, don’t ruin family vacations. YTA

Let her room with her boyfriend, YTA! Don’t be controlling!

Curious about dad’s reasoning for not allowing daughter’s boyfriend.
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User shares personal experience to argue against OP’s stance.

Dad’s controlling behavior sparks backlash in the comments.

Logistical concerns raised about daughter and bf sharing a room.
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Let them decompress together. Don’t trivialize their relationship.
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Sharing a room with girlfriend’s family would be uncomfortable

Daughter wants privacy, dad won’t give. Commenter calls dad controlling.

Redditors call out dad for being controlling
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Debating whether an unmarried couple deserves a private room.

YTA comment suggests dad is too controlling.

Engaging comment defending daughter’s request with humorous tone.
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Let her be an ADULT and share a room. YTA.

Daughter wants room with boyfriend on trip, dad says no. Commenter calls dad pathetic for equating committed relationship with marriage. YTA.

Father accused of being controlling and disrespectful to daughter.

Sleeping in same bed doesn’t always equal sex, YTA dad!

Sharing a room isn’t always about sex. Privacy matters

Daughter is an adult, let her room with her boyfriend. ❤️

A comment questions the point of a ‘family trip’ if all members can’t sleep together.

Daughter argues against dad’s no boyfriend rooming rule on vacation.

Engaging with a sarcastic tone, commenter calls out father’s overreaction.

NTA. The daughter is an adult and should act like one. The father is paying for the vacation so he has the right to set the rules.
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NTA. Couples have shared rooms on family trips before.

User calls out dad for being controlling over daughter’s relationship

“Swinging your balls around like you still own her”
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Parent’s double standards and lack of open-mindedness causes tension.

Redditor calls out OP as TA for not letting daughter room with bf on vacation.

User suggests alternative room arrangements and calls out OP’s controlling behavior

Implying ulterior motives, commenter questions dad’s babysitting concerns.

Respectful inclusion of boyfriend on family trip, NTA.

Overbearing dad could ruin future family vacations with rule-making.
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Daughter’s adult relationship questioned, Dad accused of control. YTA.

Daughter wants to share room with BF on trip, dad says no. Commenter argues it’s controlling and inappropriate to expect grown siblings to share a room.

Parents of younger kids not taking responsibility for babysitting?

Overprotective dad gets called out by commenter for being YTA.

Including the boyfriend in family plans is important

User accuses father of not seeing daughter as adult. YTA.

Daughter wants boyfriend, dad says no. Commenter suggests alternatives.

21F argues for couple’s separate room on family trip, calls OP controlling

User suggests a solution to the rooming issue on the family trip.

Frustrated commenter calls out ‘creepy’ dad for controlling behavior

Daughter wants to room with boyfriend on family trip, dad refuses. Commenter calls dad an a**hole for controlling his adult daughter’s relationship and being a hypocrite.

YTA for using finances to force personal beliefs on daughter.

Angry commenter calls OP an a**hole for denying daughter’s request.

When it comes to sex, marriage is no barrier

Daughter wants to room with boyfriend, Dad says no. YTA

Sassy commenter predicts trouble if dad doesn’t lighten up.

OP is NTA for not letting daughter room with boyfriend. ♂️

Rebellious commenter defends daughter’s right to autonomy and criticizes father’s controlling behavior.

Let them share a damn room.

NTA!!! Dad is paying, daughter can pay for her own room
