Imagine being responsible for your siblings at the tender age of 8, all because your parents couldn’t step up to the plate. That’s the reality for our heroine, who’s been taking care of her younger siblings for years, dealing with an abusive narcissist mom and a passive-aggressive drunk dad. But when her brother begs her to let their homeless mom stay with them, she reluctantly agrees, hoping to maintain the love her siblings have for their parents. Little did she know, this decision would lead to an explosive confrontation over dinner. ️
Siblings Unite!

Meet the Parents

Sibling Love ❤️

Reluctant Decision

Unbearable Living

Dinner Drama ️

Confronting Mom

Sacrifices Made

Moral Struggle

Sibling Reactions

Ultimatum Issued: 3 Days to Move Out! ⏰
After years of sacrifice and putting her siblings first, our heroine finally reaches her breaking point when her mom gets in her face during dinner, accusing her of being a ‘sh*tty child.’ She doesn’t hold back, reminding her mom of the times she and her brother had to steal food to feed their sister because their mom chose a man over them. The confrontation ends with her giving her mom a 3-day notice to move out. Now, she’s struggling with the morality of her decision, especially since her brother still has a soft spot for their mom. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotionally charged situation…
Setting boundaries with abusive parents is important for your wellbeing
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Cheering for OP standing up against abusive mom!

Sibling becomes a parent, stands up to abusive mother!

NTA – You tried to do the right thing , but sometimes tough decisions need to be made .
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Setting boundaries with abusive parents is necessary for safety.

Setting boundaries with abusive parents is important.

NTA stands up to abusive mom, gets support and validation.

Defending against abusive parents is necessary for children’s well-being

Cutting ties with abusive parents: NTA, they deserve it.

Supportive comment, reminds of narcissist behavior, and affirms decision.

Protect yourself from toxic family. NTA

Protecting younger siblings from abuse. NTA.

Removing toxic people from your life is necessary for growth.

NTA. OP stands up to abusive mom and sets boundaries

Redditor advises OP to get a lawyer immediately.

Kicking out abusive mom: tough love or necessary action?

Breaking free from narcissistic abuse: a journey to healing

Standing up to an abusive parent takes courage. NTA.

Standing up to abusive parents: empowering and liberating.

Standing up to abusive parents and taking care of siblings.

Don’t feel guilty, cut her out. Like all snakes

Protect your family, don’t let her back. NTA

NTA commenter suggests brother take in abusive mother and sibling

Be your own parent. NTA

Setting boundaries with toxic family members. #NTA
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Stand up for yourself and protect your home from toxicity

Setting boundaries with abusive parent saves emotional wellbeing.

Standing up to abusive parents is never easy, but necessary.
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Protecting yourself from abusive parents is not being selfish

Brother asked for a favor, tried it, didn’t work. NTA

NTA. Good advice on kicking her out to avoid legal trouble.

Generous daughter stands up to abusive mother, chooses self-care. NTA

Taking charge and setting boundaries. It’s time to move on.

Standing up to abusers, even family, is important.

NTA! You don’t owe your mother anything.

Don’t give in to emotional manipulation. Protect yourself and siblings.

Standing up to abusive parents is never easy. NTA wins

Patience in the face of adversity. Admirable. NTA

NTA but act fast to evict abusive mom

Comparing the commenter to a character in ‘Shameless’

Consult a lawyer to take custody of sisters and get receipts . Use text/email for communication and evidence.

Protect yourself and your siblings! Cut ties with abusive mom!

Confusing comment section, better skip this one. ♀️
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Compassionate response offers practical help for victim of abuse

Sibling conflict over abusive mom staying at home. NTA.

Brotherly love, but safety first. NTA wins this round!

NTA, but should have kicked her out immediately

Standing up to abusive family is never easy. You’re NTA

Confronting an abusive parent is tough, but OP did it!

Standing up to an abusive parent takes courage. NTA.
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Setting boundaries with entitled family. NTA

Standing up to abusive family – NTA, kick her out!

Sibling rivalry at its finest

Cutting off abusive parents: a tough but necessary decision

Kicking out abusive mom – NTA. Karma will catch up.

NTA, kick her out and let her face her issues

Cutting toxic family members out of your life is self-care

NTA stands up to abusive mom, comment agrees with consequences.
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Setting boundaries with abusive family member. Good for you!
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Standing up to abusive parents: NTA. More power to you!

Sibling dynamics and moving out
