Lindsay, from Texas, was shocked when she received a strange note during her date. Handed to her by two women sitting nearby, it said “JUST NO” in big letters and added, “You can do better.” She shared the experience on TikTok, unsure what to make of it and questioning her date.
Lindsay was handed a cryptic note during her date

While on a date at a bar in Dallas Fort Worth, Lindsay was unexpectedly handed a note by two women at a nearby table. They didn’t speak, just passed the note to her, leaving her puzzled.
The note only said “JUST NO”

The note was blunt, saying “JUST NO” in huge letters, followed by “You can do better.” Lindsay had no idea what it meant and felt confused by the message.
The women who handed her the note were curious
The women who gave her the note were described as “girls’ girls.” Lindsay wondered if they noticed something she missed during the date, especially since they were in their mid-20s.
Lindsay wondered if the women knew her date
Lindsay began to wonder if these women knew her date. They had been at the bar for a while, watching a game together, and maybe they recognized him or saw something she didn’t.
She got the note after leaving the bathroom
Lindsay received the note after returning from the bathroom. As the women were leaving, one stopped to compliment her, saying, “Oh my god, your hair is so pretty!” and handed her the note.
Lindsay’s date was eager to see the note
When her date saw her holding the note, he asked to read it. Lindsay didn’t want to open it in front of him but saw “JUST NO” and quickly put it in her purse. He kept asking to see it but eventually dropped it.
The full note raised doubts about her date
After reading the full note later, Lindsay was even more confused. “Did he do something while I was gone? Did he flirt with them?” she thought. It left her questioning the situation.
The rest of the date felt uneasy for Lindsay
The note made Lindsay uneasy, and she couldn’t focus on the date. She kept wondering why the women felt the need to hand her the note and what they might have seen.
She asked her date about the note
Lindsay eventually asked her date about the note. His response? A string of drunken messages and claims he didn’t remember the women. He said it had happened before, which didn’t help her trust him.
Lindsay decided to move on from the date

By the end of the night, Lindsay decided not to pursue a relationship. She felt the note wasn’t random, and her date’s response didn’t reassure her.
On TikTok, viewers backed her up, saying the girls who gave her the note wouldn’t have done it unless something was up. “Keep your standards high!” one person wrote. “Men will always try to bring you down to their level,” another agreed.
At the end of the day, trust your gut and don’t settle for anything less than what you deserve. Sometimes, a little outside advice is exactly what you need to make the right call!
Last Updated on January 29, 2025 by Reem Haqqi