Woman Refuses to Speak to Mother Since Thanksgiving

A 23-year-old woman has been refusing to speak to her 45-year-old mother since Thanksgiving due to an argument over her new husband. The woman and her mother both suffer from migraines, which often leave them unable to function. On Thanksgiving, after informing her mother she was unlikely to attend due to a migraine, the woman’s mother’s husband sent her threatening messages. She was met with hostility and was subsequently removed from her mother’s car insurance policy. Despite her friends and uncle supporting her, she still feels guilty for cutting ties with her mother. Was cutting ties too far or was it justified?

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A woman has cut off her mother since Thanksgiving after her new husband’s abusive behavior towards her. The woman and her mother have a migraine condition that puts them out of commission until it’s gone. On Thanksgiving, the woman had to leave work early due to a migraine and texted her mother to let her know. Her mother’s husband then sent her abusive texts and voicemail telling her to come for dinner or not be welcome in their house anymore. The woman was not even invited to dinner and only did what her mother told her to do, which led to her being left out. The woman still hasn’t received an apology from her mother and her friends and uncle tell her she’s not in the wrong. Read on for people’s reactions to the situation.

NTA for refusing to speak to mother after she backed up her husband’s behavior

Supportive comments for woman refusing to speak to controlling husband.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and calls out abusive behavior. ✨

Supportive comment and reply, standing your ground during holidays ✌

Setting boundaries is tough, but necessary for self-care ❤️

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Concerns raised about mother’s safety in abusive relationship, resources shared.

Support and understanding, but silence between mother and daughter.

Partner and commenter understand the pain of cluster migraines

Support and advice for severe migraine sufferer, NTA.

Migraine solidarity! Laughing through the pain. NTA

Protect yourself but don’t cut off your mom ❤️

Commenters suspect something sinister behind mother’s behavior

Deserving of apology!

Uncle confirms mom saw proof of husband’s affair. NTA.

Commenter supports OP’s actions and calls out father’s behavior.

Newlywed’s abusive husband causing family rift

Step dad’s lack of empathy for migraines angers commenters

Mother takes no responsibility for brother’s offensive comments. NTA.

Commenter calls someone a butt face, NTA wins

Mom’s behavior is unacceptable. Support OP’s decision. ‍♀️

Stepdad drama: NTA takes a stand, but is age a factor?

Support for migraine sufferers and their boundaries.

Stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole!

User suspects partner’s tactic to isolate mother from family. NTA.

Agreed! Cutting off family is never easy.

Supportive comment section with personal anecdotes and understanding ❤️

Establishing boundaries is important for healthy relationships.

Commenter shocked by situation, receives sarcastic reply

Communication is key! ️ Try talking to your mom first.

OP may be at fault for shutting down mother’s attempts.

Stand up for yourself, don’t let others disrespect you.

Support and validation for refusing to speak to mother since Thanksgiving

Validating the decision to avoid toxic family members.

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes the healthiest choice.

Choosing to go no contact with mom’s verbally abusive husband.

Standing up for yourself and going low/no contact

Supportive commenter encourages OP to stand their ground against family.

Setting clear boundaries after disrespectful behavior from brother and mother.

Setting boundaries with disrespectful stepfather, supportive comment section

Stand your ground and don’t let them guilt-trip you ‍♀️

Boundary-setting fort building! Not the a**hole

Setting boundaries with family during the holiday season

Commenter suggests husband may be abusive and advises caution

Support for standing up against medical discrimination. ✊

Setting boundaries with family is important. ‍♀️ (NTA)

Confront mother privately about husband’s behavior and cut contact if necessary

Standing up for yourself is never a**hole behavior. NTA

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is self-care

Stand your ground and prioritize your own well-being

Compassionate advice to check on potentially abused mother ❤️

Setting boundaries with family is important

Commenter defends OP, questions stepfather’s behavior and punishment

Mother’s fear of husband may explain her inaction. NTA.

NTA, but is cutting off your mom worth it?

Standing up against abuse, NTA

NTA, but unresolved issues with mom. Communication is key ️

Concerns raised about potential abuse in daughter’s marriage

Stand your ground and keep receipts

Deserve an apology? NTA!

Communication is key! ️

Don’t suffer in silence! Ask a doctor about migraines

Remind her that it’s not her fault and he needs to fix it

Enabling controlling husband, regretting cutting off toxic family.

Is the mother trying to apologize but being blocked?

Standing up to financial blackmail and setting boundaries.

Stand your ground and don’t give in ‍♀️