A woman’s sister is going through a divorce and she’s not taking it well. However, the woman is blaming her sister for the entire ordeal. Apparently, the sister was not ready to have kids but went ahead and got married anyway. This caused problems with her husband, who wanted biological children. The sister eventually told her husband that she didn’t want kids, and he filed for divorce. The woman who posted the story thinks that it’s her sister’s fault for lying to her husband and not being upfront about her feelings. But is she right? Did the sister have a duty to tell her husband the truth, even if it meant ending the relationship? Or should the husband have been more understanding of his wife’s wishes? It’s a tough situation, and there’s no easy answer. But one thing’s for sure – this family is going to have a lot of drama to deal with in the coming weeks and months.
Sibling conflict over having kids leads to divorce

Sister blames no-kids stance for sibling’s divorce

Woman refuses to have kids, citing unsexy post-pregnancy body

Sister’s refusal to have kids causes strain on family dynamics

Sister’s childfree choice causes family drama and upheaval.

Man wants biological kids after discovering his previous children aren’t his.

Sister’s refusal to have kids blamed for divorce

Woman refuses to have kids, blames sister’s divorce on her

Sister blames divorce on refusing to have kids, AITA?
Deciding whether or not to have children can be a difficult choice for some. But when one partner wants biological children and the other does not, it can lead to a heartbreaking situation, as it did for one woman’s sister. After two years of marriage, her sister’s husband asked her to be upfront about not wanting children, and now the divorce proceedings have begun. The woman is left wondering if she is the a**hole for telling her sister that it was her fault for lying and not being ready for motherhood. Is she right? Or should she have been more understanding? Let’s take a look at what Reddit users had to say about this complicated family situation.
NTA commenter calls out sister for shady relationship behavior.

ESH, except BIL. OP should apologize for being cruel.

Sister’s reluctance to give birth may have contributed to divorce. ❌

Woman’s decision not to have kids leads to divorce blame game

Commenter defends sister’s right to change her mind about having kids.

Negative relationships can hinder decision-making process. ESH.

Man’s worst fear: cheated on and lied to about having kids.
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YTA blames sister for divorce, but commenters disagree

Commenters call out OP for downplaying the dangers of childbirth.

Commenter calls out OP for not minding her own business
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Sister’s divorce blamed on childless sibling. YTA called out.

User questions assumptions and offers perspective on sister’s divorce.

OP meddles in sister’s marriage and blames her for divorce. YTA ♀️

Blaming your sister for her divorce? ESH in this situation.

NTA for stating the obvious but should have stayed out.

ESH except BIL. Sister’s divorce not solely BIL’s fault. Parents TA.

Sibling conflict over having kids leads to YTA accusation

NTA calls out enabling behavior, sparks debate on pregnancy expectations.

BIL should have found someone who wanted kids, sis should have stuck to her convictions, ESH.
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No one is at fault. Society’s expectations on women are unfair.

Commenter defends sister’s choice not to have kids, calls out BIL’s behavior
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Adoption vs. biological children: A disservice to adopted kids?

Don’t kick someone when they’re down

Debate over NTA’s honesty and marriage viability.

Woman blames sister’s divorce on her, called out for lack of compassion ❤️

Being honest doesn’t excuse being unkind. YTA.
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Sibling feud over kids and divorce, age matters for fertility

Did they handle the situation well? Let’s find out.

Woman refuses kids, husband divorces her – YTA verdict.

Commenter calls out OP for kicking sister while she’s down.

Supporting a decision not to have kids, encouraging adoption.

Debate over sister’s decision to not have kids and blame for divorce.
