Imagine finding out that your twin brother and long-term boyfriend had been using you as a cover for their relationship. That’s exactly what happened to one woman, and she’s still not over it. Five years later, her brother and ex-boyfriend have returned to their hometown and are trying to make amends, but she refuses to forgive them.
When they showed up uninvited and tried to apologize, she ripped up her brother’s letter and screamed at them to leave her alone. Her family is pressuring her to reconcile, but she’s not ready. In this emotional post , the woman shares her story and answers questions from users.
Find out why she’s angrier at her brother than her ex, what her plans are for her parents, and how therapy has helped her. Read on to hear her side of the story.
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Betrayed twin sister refuses to forgive ex-boyfriend and brother
A woman shares her traumatic experience of being used as a cover for her twin brother’s relationship with his best friend. After eight years, the truth was revealed, and the woman was left feeling dismissed and betrayed. Her brother and ex-boyfriend are now trying to reconcile, but she refuses to forgive them.
The woman is currently pregnant with twins and is in a better place mentally thanks to therapy. However, her family is pushing for her to forgive and forget, causing tension and stress. Read on to see how this woman is coping with the aftermath of this traumatic event and her plans for the future.
We will also dive into the comments and reactions from people on Reddit .
NTA. Brother and ex-bf’s betrayal is unforgivable. Don’t let them back.

Commenter advises cutting off toxic family members, warns against future manipulation.

Setting boundaries with family – NTA.

Don’t forgive and forget, you’re not the a**hole here

Ex and brother exploited OP for 8 years, NTA, seek therapy

Heartbreaking betrayal by twin brother and ex-boyfriend. Family’s judgment unacceptable.

Block all of them and focus on your baby’s health
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Heartbreaking betrayal by twin brother and ex-boyfriend. Take time to heal

Twin brother and ex-boyfriend used her as a cover. NTA

Survivor of 8 years of abuse and betrayal gets support.

NTA. They stole 8 years of your life by making you live a lie

Heartless twin brother uses sister as cover for relationship

Shocking betrayal: Woman’s twin brother and boyfriend had a secret relationship

Cutting out toxic people for the sake of family. NTA

Betrayed by twin brother, NTA for not forgiving him.

Gay commenter supports OP’s decision to cut off manipulative family.

Self-care first! You’re NTA for cutting toxic people off.

Being a ‘beard’ needs to be consensual. NTA for feeling used

Betrayal is unforgivable. Cut them out and move on.

Commenter advises cutting off family after dangerous ambush, NTA

NTA for refusing to forgive twin brother and ex-boyfriend ♀️

Standing up for oneself: NTA for refusing to forgive!
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Cut ties with those who don’t respect you. ♀️

Cutting off toxic family: the only way to heal

Block them all and give yourself permission to go No Contact
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Gay commenter empathizes with OP, calls out ex and twin’s actions

User compares OP to a toaster in a witty NTA response

Twin brother and ex-boyfriend’s cruel actions warrant no forgiveness

Betrayed for 8 years, no forgiveness for deceitful ex and twin.

Commenter questions motives of involved parties in taboo situation.

Stand your ground and protect your family ️

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests going no contact with family

Betrayed and manipulated, cut all ties with no regrets

Heartbreaking betrayal by twin and ex-boyfriend for five years

NTA. Twin brother and ex are users and losers

Validating the commenter’s feelings of betrayal and offering support.
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Betrayal hurts, you’re NTA for not forgiving them
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Betrayed and used for years, NTA for not forgiving them

NTA for feeling hurt, but seeking therapy can help you move on ⚕️

Betrayal during pregnancy, NTA for not forgiving twin and ex.

NTA and congratulations on your babies and fiance! Draw a clear line and don’t tolerate any threat to your new family’s well-being. Write a letter for therapeutic reasons. You can forgive for your own health, but never forget.

Standing up for yourself is never selfish. #NotTheA**hole

Woman rightfully angry after being used as a cover-up.

Twin brother and ex-boyfriend use sister as cover for 8 years!

Using someone for years isn’t justified by sexuality. NTA

Betrayal at its worst, NTA takes a stand

Supportive commenter empathizes with OP’s struggle and offers helpful advice.

Protect your babies from toxic people

Betrayed for 8 years, NTA for not forgiving twin & ex.

Brother and ex-boyfriend used her for 8 years, NTA ❤️

Betrayed for 8 years, justified bitterness towards ex-boyfriend and twin.

Don’t let your family tarnish this wonderful time in your life

Betrayal hurts, trust your feelings and don’t doubt yourself

Cutting off toxic family members brings peace and happiness

Betrayed by her twin brother and ex-boyfriend for years. #NTA

NTA and I am RAGING on your behalf! Don’t let them force a relationship on you, you have the power.

Last Updated on March 18, 2023 by Chifundo