Woman Refuses to Apologize After Calling Mom a Pervert Over Dress

A woman has taken to Reddit’s Am I The A**hole forum to seek advice after getting into a heated argument with her mother over a dress. The woman, who has been dressing modestly her whole life, recently bought a $300 dress that she loves, but her mother hates because of its low neckline. Despite the woman’s attempts to compromise by wearing a cover when she goes out, her mother continued to pressure her to return the dress.

Things came to a head when the woman called her mother a pervert after she repeatedly commented on her body. The woman is now refusing to apologize, but worries about her mom’s feelings.

Read the full story for more details and to weigh in on whether the woman was in the wrong.

Anonymous user shares controversial story

21-year-old finally stands up to controlling mother over clothing choice

Unapologetic about wardrobe choices since high school ‍♀️

Confidence boost in a new dress despite Mom’s influence ❤️

Mom disapproves of daughter’s dress, tension ensues

Custom dress creates alteration drama with mom over neckline

Woman shamed for wearing revealing outfit in cold weather ❄️

Defying societal norms: Woman stands up for her fashion choices.

Mom shames daughter for clothing, claims neckline draws perverts

Woman defends herself after being called a pervert for dress

Woman stands up to body shaming in confrontation with mother

Communication breakdown: refusing to apologize after misunderstanding with mom.

Mom’s overcorrecting parenting concerns spark apology debate amongst commenters ❤️

When family drama goes too far…

A clarification on the dress photo and some questions answered

Fashionista shares dress photo after controversial mom altercation

Seeking clarity: Questions surrounding the dress controversy

Curiosity or suspicion? Questioning the frequency of mother-daughter communication.

Stuck living with parents due to pandemic, can relate

Why the obsession with the dress? Let’s discuss.

Woman defends discussing her dress despite mom’s disapproval ‍♀️

When mom’s fashion choices become questionable

Teen reluctantly wears controversial dress to appease mom’s wishes.

Grateful OP thanks commenters for advice and support ❤️

Handling the aftermath: Woman refuses to apologize for alleged insult

Supportive father promises to back daughter in family dispute.

Difficult conversation with mom about hurtful comments ends in frustration.

Mom shamed for dress choice, daughter refuses to apologize ‍♀️

Ignoring confrontations: effective communication or avoidance?

Dad’s clever way of shutting down mom’s dress criticism

Positive outlook for resolution despite ongoing conflict ☀

A woman refuses to apologize after calling her mom a pervert over a dress ‍♀️

A woman shares her story of how her mother controlled her wardrobe and her life. But when she bought a dress that her mother hated, things went from bad to worse. Her mother’s disapproval turned into harassment and body shaming. In response, the woman called her mother a pervert and refused to apologize.

The situation escalated until the woman’s father stepped in to support her. But will this be enough to resolve the conflict? Read on to find out how this family drama unfolds.

Empowering comment and replies, encouraging to stand up against objectification.

Move out and set boundaries. Supportive replies agree with OP.

21-year-old woman stands up to controlling mother over dress choice

NTA. Commenters empathize with OP’s controlling mother projecting insecurities.

Standing up to abusive behavior from a parent is important

Take control of your life Find a new place to live

Empathetic support for woman standing up for herself and her choices.

Standing up to controlling parents.

Body shaming from family is never okay. You’re NTA.

NTA. Commenter calls out mom’s controlling behavior and objectification.

Woman stands up against body shaming, calls out mom’s behavior

Commenter jokes about infamous movie scene, supports original commenter.

Support for mom against harassment

Support for OP in confronting abusive mother

Asserting independence from controlling mom. ‍♀️

Commenter supports woman’s decision to call out bad parenting

Supportive comment calls out abusive behavior of mom

Break free and live your own life #NTA

Living with parents during pandemic, tensions arise over boundaries.

User suggests using religious text to shut down judgmental mother.

Wear the dress with pride, get professional help if needed

Commenter asks for link to dress, gets photo instead

Find support and validation in r/raisedbynarcissists community ❤️

Mom’s control issues and body shaming exposed by NTA comment

Wear what makes you happy and beautiful

Stand up for yourself and your style!

Control freak mom gets called out by daughter. NTA.

Empowerment and owning your choices. Shutting down body-shamers

Customize your wardrobe like a pro with EShakti.com

Stand your ground! If you feel like a princess in that dress, then you are . #NTA

Supportive comment and shared experience on clothing and body image.

Support for NTA commenter, criticism for comment reply.

Empowering response to mother’s controlling behavior.

Empowering comment tells woman to own her body and boundaries

Support for standing up to unreasonable mother

Honesty is the best policy, but sometimes it’s better to lie

NTA defends OP and advises setting boundaries with crazy mom.

Love the dress, love the confidence. NTA, ignore the haters! ✨

Defending without context, NTA ‍♀️

Curiosity sparked as commenters want to see the dress

Encouraging advice for setting boundaries with controlling mother.

Embrace your sexuality without being shamed! You go girl!

Supportive comment, comparing situation to ‘Carrie’ movie

Wear what YOU want! Don’t let anyone shame your choices

A Stephen King-esque mother-daughter relationship gone wrong

Wear what you’re comfortable in, not what your mother wants. NTA

Commenter supports OP, questions mom’s beliefs & suggests societal change

Empowering response to controlling mom; time to move out ✌️

Commenter critiques language choice in a supportive way

Empathetic response! The commenter validates the dress-wearer’s feelings.

Take control of your style and confidence.

Trans ally supports woman called pervert; dress has pockets!

Defying stereotypes: A painted up trollop speaks out

Woman defends her style choices, mom called out for inappropriate behavior ‍♀️

Complimentary comment on dress with heart-eyes emoji.

Compliments and support for non-apologetic dress-wearer. ❤️

When your dad is the ultimate conflict resolution specialist

This commenter approves of the poster’s actions and likes Dad the News Anchor

Stand up for yourself and your style choices! NTA

Wardrobe shaming? Not cool. NTA has spoken

Commenter criticizes toxic femininity and narcissism in dress dispute.

Wear what you want, set boundaries, NTA

Live your life! Don’t let anyone hold you back.

Wear that dress proudly! NTA for standing up to body-shaming.

Be your own person, experiment with looks and styles

Embrace your body and show it off!

Struggling with parental approval of clothing choices. Relatable