A woman is questioning if she is an a**hole for telling her sister that her rainbow baby is not special. The woman has twins and her sister has a rainbow baby. The sister spoils the child and uses the baby’s survival as an excuse for the child’s bad behavior. The woman planned a small party for her kids but the sister’s child threw a tantrum and ruined the party. The woman called out the sister and told her that the child is a brat and she is raising a self-centered child who will grow into a self-centered adult. The parents are now at odds and the woman is unsure if she should apologize for what she said. Read on to find out what others think of the situation.
What’s the story behind the alt account?
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Supporting sister through loss, but problems arise with niece’s behavior.
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Sister’s ‘rainbow baby’ gets a free pass for bad behavior
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Spoiled rainbow baby causing chaos at family events
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Sister complains about rainbow baby’s behavior during family vacation
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Dealing with a difficult kid at a party? We feel you
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Sister defends unruly rainbow baby at kid’s party, infuriating sibling.
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Sister defends ‘rainbow baby’ after accusations of bad behaviour.
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Mom loses it at sister’s bad parenting during kids’ party
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Sibling rivalry reaches new heights over rainbow baby’s behaviour
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Sister’s baby misbehaves at party, causing family feud. AITA?
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Clarifying misconceptions – setting the record straight
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Heartbreaking loss leads to strained relationship between sisters and kids.
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Supportive sister struggles with niece’s bad behavior at party
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Sister’s insensitivity towards dead baby triggers outburst at party
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Family feud ensues after disagreement on child’s behavior at party
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Sibling rivalry at its finest ☕️
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Clearing up misconceptions about Conner’s behavior at the party
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Four-year-old’s tantrum causes chaos at family party
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Spoiled toddler throws tantrums to get what he wants
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Tantrums galore! A demanding kid causes chaos at the party
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Unfair treat for rainbow baby at sibling’s party
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Unsupervised child ruins fair-themed party, aunt loses her mind
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Toddler’s tantrum ruins sister’s party; TV alibi proves innocence
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Parent defends strict child-rearing practices at birthday parties.
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Hopeful outlook for misbehaving nephew’s future
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Suggesting family therapy for nephew’s behavior; regretting losing temper.
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Reddit provides support for woman’s family feud ❤️
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Is it fair to let a rainbow baby get away with everything?
A woman is questioning whether her sister’s treatment of her son is acceptable after he ruined her twins’ birthday party. The woman explains that her sister’s son is incredibly spoiled and throws fits to get his way, and her sister and husband give him no discipline. They believe he is their ‘rainbow baby’ and can do whatever he wants. The woman and her family recently went on vacation with her sister and her family and her sister complained the entire time that her son wasn’t having fun. At the birthday party, the sister’s son threw a tantrum the entire time and even ripped open most of the presents. The woman lost her temper and said some nasty things to her sister. Her parents are suggesting that she apologize to her sister, but the woman feels that her sister should apologize for her son’s behavior. Is she in the wrong? Read on to find out.
Sister using rainbow baby excuse to not parent properly, NTA

NTA for setting boundaries with sister’s uncontrolled rainbow baby behavior.

Commenter and replies predict negative impact of child’s behavior on his future.

Wise words: Spoil your kids, raise your grandkids

NTA for calling out bad behaviour at kids’ party with good parenting examples

The term ‘rainbow baby’ can impact a child’s identity and worth

A reminder from Bluey to teach kids empathy ❤️

Agreeing with the commenter’s stance on parenting

Setting boundaries for a rainbow baby’s behavior.

Setting boundaries with children is necessary for good parenting

NTA. ‘Rainbow monster’ causes drama at kids’ party. Time to distance.

Learn what a rainbow baby is and its significance ❤️

Resentment builds until explosive confrontation with sister’s brat #NTA
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Harsh but necessary: NTA gives reality check on child’s behavior

Proud parent of a rainbow baby who knows how to behave #NTA
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Parent calls out sister’s parenting at child’s party, NTA

Commenter suggests therapy for sister’s lack of parenting skills.

NTA commenter defends woman’s reaction to badly behaved child at party

Rainbow baby’s bad behavior causes trouble at kid’s party

Parenting fails or discipline dilemma?

NTA for calling out sister’s bad parenting of ‘miracle baby’

Commenter defends NTA viewpoint on rainbow baby behavior.

Set boundaries and expectations for grieving sister. NTA.

Respectful NTA comment defends kids’ party etiquette

NTA but sister’s parenting style may harm Conner’s future

Setting boundaries with a misbehaving child

NTA. Parenting s***s

NTA stands up for sister’s kids against bad parenting

Debating the impact of the term ‘rainbow baby’ on children’s behavior
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Supporting parenting accountability with empathy.

Spoiling a child doesn’t excuse bad behaviour. NTA.

Setting boundaries with kids is important, but how far is too far?
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Spoiled kid’s behavior will affect his future.

Sibling rivalry at its finest

Teaching kids about boundaries and respect

NTA calls out sister’s lack of discipline for rainbow baby’s behavior

Protect your kids and start a new tradition without them

Don’t burden your rainbow baby with your trauma ❤️

Setting boundaries for badly behaved cousin at twins’ party, NTA

Losing it at a kid’s party, but who’s the real a**hole?

Don’t blame the rainbow baby for bad behaviour

Misunderstanding the meaning of ‘rainbow baby’ leads to humor.

Commenter clarifies mistaken identity in NTA post with irony

Not the a**hole for calling out entitled behavior

Psychologist warns sister about creating a narcissist with rainbow baby

Dealing with a difficult child: personal anecdote and hopeful advice ✨

Parenting disagreements causing family tension.

Learn what a rainbow baby means and how it affects families

Protecting your kids from a spoiled rainbow baby.

Setting boundaries is key to raising a polite child

Don’t let your sister’s enabling affect your event
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Don’t apologize for calling out bad behavior

When a rainbow baby turns out to be a giant a****e

Last Updated on March 20, 2023 by Azka