A woman’s mother is engaged to a man who often instigates fights and makes rude and discriminatory remarks towards her family. Despite voicing her disapproval at a young age, the woman’s mother disregarded her concerns and continued her relationship. Recently, the mother claimed she would never let a man come between her and her children, prompting the woman to call out her hypocrisy.
The situation escalated quickly, leaving the woman wondering if she was in the wrong. Read on to find out more about this tense family situation.
Mom’s fear of being alone causes neglect of family.

Mom’s boyfriend causes fights, daughter not a fan

Standing up against ableism, homophobia and gross sexism ✊

Dealing with a ‘nice’ guy who’s actually a jerk

Mom chooses her happiness over daughter’s, now daughter does same

Mom claims she won’t let a man come between family

Calling out hypocrisy on unequal family treatment.

Family feud over mom’s dating life causes drama and tears

Revisiting past words, AITA for calling out mom’s hypocrisy?

Hypocritical mom’s fiancé is rude and disrespectful to her kids
A woman shares her experience living with her mom’s fiancé David who is rude, disrespectful, and instigates fights between them. He also makes derogatory remarks to her and her siblings, and even to the mom herself. Despite the daughter’s objections, the mom chose to ignore David’s behavior and continue the relationship. Recently, the daughter pointed out her mom’s hypocrisy when she claimed to never let a man treat her kids badly while David was doing exactly that.
This led to a fallout between the two, with the daughter receiving mixed reactions from her family. While some supported her, others believed it was not her place to interfere in her mom’s personal life.
Read on for the comments and reactions to this scenario .
Stand up for yourself and your siblings, never let anyone abuse you. ♀️

Calling out mom’s hypocrisy, and virtue signaling.

Calling out family hypocrisy with humor

Mom can’t handle the truth, daughter’s not the a-hole
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Calling out the hypocrisy NTA handled it well.

NTA for calling out mom’s hypocrisy and aunt’s meddling

Standing up to family hypocrisy with a touch of humor

Calling out a hypocritical mom – NTA for speaking up

Woman stands up to abusive family member, siblings thank her.

Mom’s hypocrisy called out by daughter, NTA wins.

Exposing family hypocrisy with a touch of humor

Standing up to hypocrisy and toxicity in the family

When honesty is the best policy

Woman confronts mom’s denial of fiance’s behavior towards kids. ♀️

Commenter calls out mom’s hypocrisy and selfishness.

Defending mom’s honor against judgmental aunt

Commenter shares personal story, agrees that relationships affect others ❤️

Calling out hypocrisy NTA wins this round.

Calling out hypocrisy. NTA and a great point

Encouraging reply reminds us to learn from painful truths

Don’t let anyone invalidate your childhood experiences. #NTA

Emotional response to confronting a harsh truth

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in hilarious way

Standing up to shitty parenting and aunt’s interference.

Taking a stand against disrespect with no apologies. ✊

Mother’s hypocrisy called out and not tolerated.

Standing up for your children is always important.

Supportive response to NTA, suggest family intervention with mother.

Agreeing with the frustration of generational differences

Mom needs to realize prioritizing a man over her kids is wrong

Partner’s treatment of family always relevant. Aunt is wrong.

Call out toxic behavior, stand up for siblings. NTA

Mother’s hypocrisy exposed, NTA for calling her out

Mother’s misplaced priorities leave child feeling undervalued and unheard

A heartbreaking account of maternal abandonment and the importance of unlearning.

Commenter finds humor in headline of NTA post.

Speaking the truth can be painful but necessary
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Calling out family hypocrisy. Good for you, OP

Not the a**hole, but what’s the backstory?

Exposing hypocrisy in the family
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Daughter calls out mom’s hypocrisy in a hilarious way
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NTA for calling out mom’s hypocrisy on dating, kindness prevails

Defending mom against hypocrisy accusation earns NTA judgment

Truth bombs dropped. NTA wins the argument.

Standing up to mom’s hypocrisy in dating choices. NTA

Calling out parent’s hypocrisy: NTA, but still not wise

Sibling solidarity proves mother’s hypocrisy, NTA

OP calls out mom’s hypocrisy, teaches truth hurts.

Protecting siblings and mom from abusive man. #NotTheA**hole ⚔️

Acknowledging the truth hurts, but it’s necessary for growth

Stand up for your family! NTA

Never stop caring about your kids, NTA

Daughter stands up to hypocritical mom

Trust your instincts and stand up for yourself.

Daughter stands up for herself and brothers against hypocritical mom
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Facing the ugly truth can hurt, but it’s not A-hole behavior

Calling out hypocrisy: NTA for speaking up against mother’s behavior

Speaking the truth as an adult

NTA, mom’s S/O was ableist towards brother and instigated fights

Agreeing with commenter’s stance and calling out flying monkey.

Call out the hypocrisy with a simple NTA

Honesty is key , NTA calls out hypocrisy in family.

Empathetic response to parental responsibility. Not the a**hole

Daughter calls out mom’s hypocrisy for choosing a man over her

Breaking the cycle of hypocrisy and violence

Calling out hypocrisy with a clever NTA comeback

Aunt’s hypocrisy exposed by commenter in a blunt NTA response

Suggests No Test to mom, doubts honesty in finding red flags

Applauding the hypocrisy call-out with a standing ovation.

NTA but food for thought. Commenter defends the mom’s actions.

Standing up for yourself is never a**hole-ish

Standing up to family hypocrisy with humor

Commenter explains why OP is NTA for speaking up

Mom can dish it but can’t take it
