In this AITA post , a woman recounts how a guest at her get-together insulted her traditional marriage and belittled her lifestyle choices. After several r**e comments, the OP finally snaps and throws the guest’s recent divorce in her face. The aftermath leaves the OP questioning if she was in the wrong.
Read on to see what Reddit thinks about this confrontation.
Traditional marriage dynamic works for us, not for everyone else

Dealing with judgement and harsh opinions in traditional marriage.

Breaking gender norms in marriage, facing societal disapproval and backlash

Divorcee joins girls night, sparks drama with traditional marriage insult

Homemaking is a job too, but not for Nina apparently

Eye-rolling friend can’t handle traditional marriage

‘Traditional marriage is outdated,’ says woman in failed marriage.

Woman insults my marriage; I serve a dish of divorce.

Insulted by a friend at my own wedding, did I overreact?

Traditional marriage isn’t dead, it just isn’t for everyone
This woman’s traditional marriage has been judged by many, but she and her husband are happy with their consensual roles. When a new acquaintance insults her lifestyle, she serves her a cold dish of divorce. Read the full story to find out if she was in the wrong.
Guest insults OP’s marriage and parenting skills at event, NTA

Breaking gender norms in marriage: a reverse traditional dynamic works.

Setting boundaries is important, but revenge isn’t the answer. ESH.

Guest insults OP’s lifestyle in own home, both ESH. Low blow.

Commenter calls out both parties for their behavior.

ESH- Polite approach failed, OP snapped. Both should apologize.

NTA delivers savage comeback, others relate to delayed wit.

Planning for the worst doesn’t mean the worst will happen

Choosing sides is not the solution

Don’t mess with traditional marriage or you’ll get served!

Don’t judge a book by its cover. Good on you for standing up for yourself

Commenter defends OP’s ‘traditional’ marriage against criticism, but suggests using language that doesn’t imply superiority. Reply criticizes the use of the term ‘traditional’ and calls it privileged.

Choosing to be a homemaker is valid. NTA for living your life
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Sassy commenter serves cold dish of divorce to r**e woman

Don’t mess with a traditional marriage, or you’ll get served divorce

Is ‘traditional marriage’ outdated? Join the conversation!
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Agreeing with NTA but questioning seeing Nina’s perspective

When insults turn into bombs ESH in this divorce story

Divorce served cold to insulting Nina. NTA prevails.

Divorcee’s criticism shut down by not the a**hole OP
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Don’t mess with traditional marriage in someone else’s home ♀️

NTA shuts down judgment on their marriage, but gets called out

Feminism = choice. NTA for choosing traditional marriage over CEO.

Breaking down the myth of ‘traditional’ marriage

Served a dish of divorce to disrespectful commenter. NTA
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NTA! Why be so judgmental about someone else’s marriage?

Defend your happiness, divorce served cold with a great comeback

One comment, no replies. A straightforward opinion.

Defending traditional marriage, one clap back at a time

Don’t insult or you’ll get served a cold dish of divorce

Don’t insult the hosts or get served with divorce papers!

Choosing to be a homemaker doesn’t make you inferior.

Don’t let anyone judge your lifestyle choices! ♀️

Slayed the hater! #TraditionalMarriageMatters ❤️

Defending traditional marriage against judgmental comments like , NTA!
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Supporting real feminism and saying goodbye to toxic friends

Savage divorce aftermath for insulting traditional marriage

Don’t let others bring you down for being a happy homemaker!

Commenter raises valid concern about dependence in traditional marriage.

♂️ Divorce served to marriage-insulting woman, NTA is a hero

Traditional roles work for them, not everyone. #DontJudge

Breaking gender roles? No problem! NTA comments celebrate choices

Woman insults traditional marriage choice, gets served divorce – NTA.

Supporting women’s choices is part of feminism!

Nina learned her lesson. Not the a**hole

Attacking someone’s lifestyle after being a guest? Not cool

A feminist offers support for homemakers but warns of financial risks

Woman insults stay-at-home wife but gets served a divorce. NTA.

Last Updated on April 3, 2023 by Chifundo