When a woman’s sister-in-law made racist remarks about her fiancé’s children, she called her out. But when her husband refused to support her, she turned to the internet for advice. Was she right to confront her sister-in-law in this situation ? Or should she have kept quiet? Read on to find out.
Introducing a mixed-race couple and their encounter with family bigotry.

Sister-in-law Juliana is a bully with no filter

Mixed-race family faces racial insults, sister-in-law speaks out

Woman insults mixed-race children at family gathering

Insulting mixed-race kids? Not cool

Insulting mixed-race children leads to family feud

Dealing with racism in the family, AITA for standing up?

Update on the situation, check it out

Update on the situation, gratitude expressed by OP.

Insulting mixed-race children is not an opinion
A woman insulted her sister-in-law’s mixed-race nieces and nephew, calling them “ugly” and “fat.” Shocked and angry, the SIL called her out and was met with tears and insults. Her husband is now giving her the silent treatment and demanding an apology. Is she the a**hole? Read on to see what Redditors had to say about this family drama .
Bullying won’t be tolerated! Sister-in-law stands up to her. ✊

NTA wins argument and suggests cute cat pictures

Woman stands up to racism, but faces relationship consequences.

Sister-in-law defends against racist insult with grace. ✊

Supportive comment urges person to leave toxic situation.

Commenter calls out fat-shaming and defends sister-in-law’s actions.
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Age gap relationship raises red flags, SIL’s behavior is concerning.

Protecting innocent children from potential abuse

Supportive comment suggests leaving husband and defending children.

Commenter creatively compares people to spiders and dogs ️

Standing up to bigotry and setting boundaries.

Curious for updates!

Support for confronting bigotry, despite potential backlash.

Defending against a wicked stepmother, warn the fiancé! ⚠️

Support for standing up to family bullying, reconsidering marriage ❤️

A fiery comment calling out a husband’s lack of support

Insulting mixed-race children and a cat? Definitely NTA.

Fiancé’s kids insulted, sister-in-law advises caution

Support for standing up to toxic family

Protect these kids from their abusive future stepmom

Family drama: commenter declares not the a**hole

Silent treatment is abusive. NTA for standing your ground

Stand up for yourself and leave that toxic relationship!

Sister-in-law suggests counseling for fiance and potential stepmom.

Size doesn’t matter, body shaming is not okay

Insensitive comment gets the brush off, but what about consequences?

Husband’s dismissive reaction to SIL’s racism is concerning. Yikes.

Supportive comment calling out racism and suggesting informing fiance.

Don’t waste any more time with a family like that.

Defending against racism towards kids. NTA for sure.

Standing up to family’s racism

Sister-in-law defends mixed-race children, commenter not the a**hole

Protect the children! Let the fiancé know.

Sister-in-law advises to divorce and cut ties with racist family

Don’t let toxic family members bring you down. ✨

Defending against racist insults towards mixed-race children. #NTA

Goodbye toxic family, nobody needs that negativity ♀️

Marrying someone with kids is a commitment to treat them fairly

Insecurity and insults: Commenter supports NTA, questions bully’s motives.

Supportive comment calls out racism and advises caution in relationship.

Sister-in-law defends mixed-race children from wicked stepmother insults

Get out while you can! Toxic family alert

Standing up against bullying of mixed-race children

A satisfying clapback to a racist soon-to-be in-law

Don’t settle for less, move on and find happiness! ✌️

Mixed-race family drama – commenter considers leaving, NTA

Thin woman insulted by sister-in-law named ‘Fatty Patty’

Sister-in-law defends against Disney Villain-level racism

A mix of laughing and confused face emojis in response.
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Don’t hide behind ‘just my opinion’ to be racist

Standing up to racism and ignorance, NTA takes charge ✊

Insensitive woman insults mixed-race children; gets called out by sister-in-law.

Standing up to bullies is never easy, but necessary.

Support for OP’s decision to not join toxic family.

Commenter calls out bride-to-be’s age-gap relationship, scathing but accurate

Opinions are a two-way street ️

Commenter questions if family had a stroke

Protect yourself and your children. Leave toxic in-laws.

Family drama and body-shaming: calling out a bully

SIL a cartoon villain in Pixar film, commenter not the a-hole

Update on the story, check it out

NTA stands up to racist family member, suggests telling fiance

Spouse downplaying racist insults? Have a serious talk ASAP

Standing up to hateful family members is important, NTA

Standing up for yourself against racist in-laws.

Supportive comment urges OP to leave toxic family.

Supportive comment encourages OP to take action, adds positivity (^v^)

Protect yourself and chonky boy before confronting ex.

Standing up against family insults takes courage

Defending mixed-race children against toxic family member.

Standing up to family insults with a fiery NTA response

Confronting racism with grace and a plan

Support for calling out racist comments, recommend informing fiancé

Demanding conditions for apology after racist bullying incident.

Mixed-race insult leads to sister-in-law calling out behavior

NTA runs from toxic family after racist insult to children.

Calling out a racist in-law. NTA, husband defends bully?

Sharing a personal experience, advise to tell parents, and NTA support ❤️

Protecting yourself and your loved ones ️

Protect yourself and future family. Don’t marry into toxicity.
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Supportive comment calling out toxic family member.

Commenter calls out dysfunctional husband’s family
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Clapback against body-shaming: NTA calls out double standards

Defending animals and children

Don’t mess with family. NTA stands up for mixed-race kids

Commenter defends standing up against racism with fiery language

Standing up to racism, even when it’s family.
