There are things that you can’t prepare for when you go to someone’s house for the first time. The smell of the kitchen, the decorations on the walls, the number of kids running around, the number of pets running around, how clean or messy it is, and how the people talk to each other.
You can’t really know what to expect, but whatever it is, you hope that you won’t have to be embarrassed. This woman was worried about being embarrassed, but then she was embarrassed anyway.
She was embarrassed because she didn’t get a dad’s joke and he didn’t want to explain it to her. Let’s see how the story unfolded when she brought it to Reddit .
27F explains her past as an *escort* and how it brought her to her current fiancé

The future in-law tried to embarrass her, but she wasn’t having it – and ended up embarrassing him instead!

Fiancee knows and he doesn’t care

Fiancee shuts down female in-laws’ attempts to ”police” their partners around his wife-to-be

Fiancé’s mom ‘begs’ for honesty after pregnancy reveal

FIL gets outsmarted when his joke backfires and he’s embarrassed by his future in-law!

She insisted on an explanation and embarrassed him!

A woman stands up for herself after being embarrassed by her future in-law for not understanding a joke and turns the tables on him.

She faced her past head-on and embarrassed her future in-law
The post tells the story of a woman (27F) who used to work as an ‘escort’ (h*oker) in her early twenties, and the drama that ensued when her future in-law (FIL) exposed her past. After two years, it seemed that the incident was behind them until the FIL tried to make a joke on the topic at a family gathering.
The woman didn’t get the joke and asked for an explanation, leading to her FIL’s embarrassment. Despite her fiancé’s (37M) family demanding an apology from her, she insists she was in the right.
This post has sparked a lively debate on Reddit , with readers divided between those who feel the woman was out of line and those who think the FIL deserved to be embarrassed.
Let’s take a look at the comments and reactions to this incident.
NTA Push back!

NTA! FIL crossed the line with an inappropriate “joke”

NTA: Don’t apologize!

OP’s future in-law is

You kept your cool

NTA! OP stands up to judgemental AH in-law

Table turns on future in-law!

Don’t apologize! ♀️

NTA:

NTA! FIL embarrassed himself for joking about banging his future daughter-in-law.

Respect for sex work!
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He got what he deserved!

She the future in-law!

NTA Don’t apologize!

Don’t apologize!

NTA: Demand explanation

♀️ NTA: Misogynists called out!

NTA:

NTA Don’t apologize

OP makes the decision to go NC

NTA! He was called out ♀️

NTA: He made a rude joke ♀️

Woman stands up to her FIL!

Revenge jokes are

NTA!

Husband’s upbringing revealed

NTA. Cut them out.

NTA ✋ Who’s embarrassed now?

NTA: Calling out BS!

She stood up for herself!

Did he really try to embarrass her?

NTA: Your FIL is an !

NTA: ♀️ Humiliating someone is not funny!

NTA Classy move ♀️

NTA and feisty!
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Turning the tables

Standing up to ✋ oppressive comments

NTA: Don’t let around your child.

NTA

NTA insists on an explanation

NTA

NTA: BIL should disclose more!

♀️ A joke gone wrong!

Not the a**hole shuts down a-hole

NTA: Made him look like a fool!

No a-hole here! ♂️

NTA if someone’s joke makes you uncomfortable!
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NTA: Woman stands up to in-law!

NTA

NTA! ♀️

NTA – She didn’t embarrass him

NTAH – No way to apologize

Woman stands up to future in-laws!

How She *KILLED* The Interaction!

NTA. You don’t deserve this

NTA! ♀️

NTA❗️ Future FIL gets a taste of his own medicine!

NTA! A hilarious response

NTA.

NTA stands up to in-laws!

NTA but

NTA: You’re right to call out in-laws!

NTA – Joke not funny?

Standing up for yourself!

NTA! Stand your ground!

NTA: Perfect response!
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NTA! You can’t take anyone’s s**t!

NTA: A ‘joke’ gone wrong!
