Woman Faces Backlash for Saying She “Raised” Her Younger Sisters

When a woman’s parents died in a car crash, she took on the responsibility of caring for her two younger sisters who were only 11 years old at the time. She made sure they had everything they needed, from a private boarding school to therapy sessions. She was involved in every aspect of their lives, attending their recitals and games and helping them shop for prom dresses. Now that her sisters are in college and doing well, she said she raised them. But when someone disagreed, things got heated. Read on to find out the details and decide for yourself: was she out of line for saying she raised her sisters or not?

Orphaned at 18, now a 28-year-old ‘parent’ faces criticism.

Sibling inheritance sparks wealth debate

Overcoming financial hurdles to secure future.

Woman receives criticism for sister upbringing, enrolls them in school.

Sister receives criticism for taking on parental role with siblings.

Sister’s unconventional approach to parenting leads to successful siblings ❤️

Raising siblings or just fulfilling a parental role?

Backlash for ‘raising’ younger siblings, AITA for pretending parent?

Woman faces judgment for raising younger sisters after parents’ death

After losing her parents in a car crash, a woman had to take on the responsibility of raising her 11-year-old twin sisters. She enrolled them in a private boarding school and stayed involved in their lives, attending recitals, games and even helping them shop for prom dresses. Now that the sisters are well-adjusted and in college, the woman referred to herself as their raiser in a conversation with friends, but was met with criticism. She was called an a**hole for pretending to be a parent and taking credit for the boarding school’s role. The disagreement caused tension and discomfort during the weekend, leading the woman to question if she was in the wrong. However, her friend and his parents supported her, while the sister continued to post passive aggressive messages on social media. Do you think she was wrong for saying she raised her sisters or was she simply fulfilling the role of a parent?

NTA! Raised younger sisters unconventionally but responsibly. Great job!

NTA for prioritizing own mental health while raising siblings.

When a ‘momfluencer’ judges your parenting skills. NTA wins.

Defending the “fake parent” label with NTA and sarcasm

Taking care of younger siblings is hard. NTA for prioritizing self-care

Sister steps up as parent figure, internet approves

Boarding school helped, but OP still did all the parenting duties

Block her on FB and move on. Your peace matters

Sibling defends woman’s parental role with a Harry Potter reference ⚡

Commenter opens up about insecurities and therapy due to post.

Don’t let the haters get you down!

You did raise them, and you did the best you could

Commenter supports OP for raising younger siblings despite criticism

Sister steps up and faces backlash for doing what’s right

Support for guardianship of sisters despite invalidation by outsider

Boarding school alum defends OP, says school can’t replace parents

Don’t let anyone undermine your role in raising siblings

Sibling support! Commendation for a successful family dynamic.

Taking parental responsibility in tough times.

You’re a guardian angel!

Taking responsibility for younger siblings sparks debate and insults.

Defending non-traditional parenting role, receiving support.

Boarding schools don’t raise children, OP not the a**hole (NTA)

Being a legal guardian at a young age is tough.

People support woman who raised her younger sisters.

Stepping up for family – NTA. Friends AH for judging.

Sibling support for guardianship, NTA wins!

Defend your choices with pride Don’t let others judge you

Debating the power of word choice.

Don’t let anyone diminish your heroic efforts! ‍♀️

Commenter praised for going above and beyond for siblings

A helpful reminder to consider others’ perspectives in family dynamics

Internet strangers applaud OP for raising her younger sisters responsibly

Supportive reply advises OP to ignore and confront judgy friend

Compassionate commenter defends woman criticized for ‘raising’ younger sisters ❤️

Boarding school parents unite! NTA for not raising kids alone

Defending against unfair judgment – NTA

Boarding school doesn’t negate parental role. NTA.

Sibling love prevails even in tough times.

Sibling caretaker gets approval

Defending against a rude sister with empathy and facts

Don’t let anyone take away your rightful credit!

Heartwarming support for a young woman stepping up as caregiver ❤️

User receives support for taking on parental role for siblings. #FamilyFirst ❤️

Defending a woman who raised her younger sisters alone

Take a stand against passive aggression with a strong response

Sibling steps up to care for younger sisters after tragedy ❤️

Sibling jealousy and financial insecurity fuel comment section.

Do your sisters agree? Their opinions matter more than yours.

Supportive comment: defending OP’s life choices and criticizing the rude sister’s behavior.

Ignore the hater, you’re NTA

Parenting is subjective and mommy influencers can be toxic. NTA.

Commenter calls out sister’s behavior, recommends therapy.

Complimenting OP’s admirable responsibility and dismissing sister’s criticism

Supportive comment suggests checking in with sister’s opinion ❤️

Proud Red heart You were a responsible adult at 18!

Kudos to OP for raising her sisters and standing strong!

Boarding school alum supports woman’s sister-raising, emphasizes family bonds

Validating feelings of sisters is crucial. NTA for meeting needs.

Commenter supports woman and shuts down critics with NTA.

NTA comment sparks curiosity about the woman’s problem

Sibling caregiver gets validation from commenters. NTA

18yo raises younger sisters after parents’ death, gets criticized. NTA

Single mom attacked OP for ‘raising’ sisters, NTA claps back

Ask your sisters for their opinion, not strangers on the internet

Sibling success story: Estate, boarding school, and NTA vibes

Boarding school doesn’t mean no parents. NTA, role model

18-year-old steps up to care for younger sisters after parents’ death

Defending a parent’s choices. NTA gets a supporter

Breaking the mold of a traditional family. NTA wins!

A young adult took up parental responsibilities. Support and ignore haters. ✊

Boarding school does not negate parenting. Supportive NTA response.

Lilo and Stitch fans unite! Not the a**hole here

Stepping up for your siblings doesn’t make you any less parental

Sibling rivalry? NTA comment defends raising younger sisters ‍♀️

Support for OP and criticism of friend’s sister