A woman supported her parents for three years after they helped her when she became a single mom. However, when she got married, her parents expected her to continue to pay all their expenses, even though they were both only 52 years old. The woman and her husband decided to move out and start their own family, but her parents demanded she continue to support them. When she refused to pay all their expenses, they demanded that she leave her son behind. The woman is now wondering if she is the a**hole for cutting off her parents.
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Woman cuts off parents demanding financial support
A woman shares her story of how she became financially responsible for her parents and how it impacted her life. After three years of paying for all their expenses, she decides to move out, start her own family and give her son a chance at having a family. However, her parents demand that she continues to pay for their expenses and even suggest that she leave her son behind. With the support of her husband, she stands up to them and refuses to be their retirement plan. Read on to see if you think she’s the a**hole.
NTA. Tough love needed for entitled parents who can work.
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Woman’s parents demand money, get cut off. Commenters agree she’s NTA.

NTA. Commenters support OP’s decision to end financial arrangement with parents.

NTA, plan for your future and give them a 30-day notice

Cut off toxic parents demand daughter pay their bills. #NTA

NTA! Your parents are emotionally blackmailing you!

Breaking free from financial control
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Don’t let guilt force you to pay their bills ♀️

Parents demand woman leave son to support them. Commenters call them insane.

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s struggle and offers support

Encouragement to stand up to entitled parents with humor

Not the a**hole. They used her child as leverage?

Supportive comment: Encouraging OP to live life without supporting parents

NTA – Give them a deadline and get it in writing

Cutting off toxic parents is tough, but necessary.

NTA: Cut them off financially and take some space away.

NTA. Remarrying or not, funding parents’ retirement is unreasonable.

Standing up to entitled parents. Good on you!

Stand your ground! You’re not their retirement bank

User questions the believability of the post, receives agreement.

Take control of your life , don’t let anyone hold you back!

Set boundaries and stick to them

NTA. The entitlement is real. Stay humble and move on

Stand your ground . Not your responsibility to support them.

Supporting your parents financially? NTA, they are.

NTA. Commenter supports OP for not paying parents’ expenses.

Cutting off toxic parents who demand financial support. NTA
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NTA. Don’t pay their expenses, enjoy your life and raise your child.

Commenter criticizes OP’s dad for being tired at 48/49

Don’t let others take advantage of you. Move out! ♀️

Cutting off parents for money: justified or too harsh?

“Sure you can go but you must leave us your first born”

Not the a**hole for cutting off grifter parents.

Breaking free from entitled parents who demanded financial support.

NTA: Don’t let your parents make you the breadwinner

NTA. OP shouldn’t be responsible for parents’ bills.

Heartbreakingly cruel demand from parents – NTA, agree with all.

Generosity not entitlement.

Empowering response to controlling parents. ♀️

Parents demand money, woman cuts them off. NTA.

User praises OP for cutting off entitled parents.

Secure your future and get out Family drama ensues.

Escape the abusive parents, take your son with you

NTA stands up to entitled parents demanding money for retirement

Childhood roles reversed: Parents become dependents, not dependants
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Retiring at 52 is not common, be kind but set boundaries.

Don’t let toxic parents guilt you into paying for everything

Protecting your child, not paying their expenses. NTA

Protect yourself and your son from manipulative grandparents.

Age is just a number. NTA for cutting off parents.

Commenter calls out lazy parents, receives empathetic reply ❤️

NTA! Let them get jobs and live your life

Encouraging reply to NTA comment with positive emojis

Hardworking adult child cuts off lazy parents. NTA

Independent woman stands up to entitled parents. ♀️

Breaking free from toxic parents and living independently!

Cutting off parents for taking advantage. #NotTheA**hole

Take control and don’t let them hold you back

Don’t enable their behavior! You’re NTA
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