Falling in love is a beautiful and wonderful thing. It’s an amazing feeling. But the thing is, it’s not the only thing. It’s not the only thing that needs to be taken into consideration when you’re thinking about whether to get married to your partner. It’s also about your future, your career, and your personal growth.
Having this in mind, it’s rather sad to see how some people can forget about everything else and make decisions based solely on their feelings. Like this woman did. A Redditor shared how her friend betrayed her boyfriend who helped her get an education.
The author of the post also revealed how they got into a big fight over this.
She dumped her long-term boyfriend for a “real man” after he planned to propose

Living in poverty, the options for women and men were limited and bleak.

She found a supportive partner who helped her achieve her dreams but she still dumped him for a “real man”

Friend’s heartbroken after her man planned to propose to her friend, but she found a “real man” instead

He supported her dreams despite his struggles for a real reward: love

A friend betrays her BF who supported her for years for a “real man”, despite his plans to propose

She argues that marriage should not be a life partnership and that she deserves a “real Man”

A woman’s choice of ‘real man’ has sparked debates on feminism and being an a**hole.

Friendship gone wrong, commenter cut ties

Woman dumps her boyfriend who was planning to propose, deserves a “real man”

Ex-boyfriend is thankful for all the support he has received in the midst of deep hurt

She left her boyfriend who helped her get an education and said she deserves a “real man”.
OP and her best friend grew up in poverty and had few options for education. She got lucky and started dating a factory worker who encouraged her to go to school. He took out loans so she could get an education, and supported her through and through. However, after she became a lawyer, she broke up with her boyfriend just as he planned to propose and said she “deserves” a “real man”.
The poster was horrified and told her that she was betraying the man who helped her become who she is. It is not the woman’s job to pay the bills, but feminism means women financially supporting their male partners as much as the reverse.
This story has sparked a major debate about relationships and the role of men and women in them. Let’s dive into the comments and reactions.
NTA ✋️ She used him for his money, love, and support

NTA: You deserve better!

Contradictory views?

NTA!

The stigma against blue-collar workers needs to end!

NTA: She used her ex

Karma will take care

NTA. ♀️ A real man isn’t money or status!

NTA: Hoping for the best

Karma’s perfect timing

NTA: ♂️ Not cool!

NTA: friend no more! ♀️

Sympathy and for the boyfriend

Calling out the story

Supporting her ex , she says NTA

What an awful situation ♂️

Friend NTA – ♀️ a real man!

Friend in for a r**e awakening

NTA: She used him all along

Boyfriend betrayed

Feminism ≠ using people. ♀️

NTA: Betrayal!

NTA: Not OP’s responsibility

Does she deserve a real man?

Is this an outrage bait post?
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Revenge ✊ at the !

NTA:

Is this a Tyler Perry movie?

NTA: She deserves a “real man”

A friend’s bad experience

Is it real or fake?

NTA: Lawyer’s Contradiction?

Is this “woke-scolding”

Is this a true story?

NTA: Is it ironic

NTA: Friend’s behavior unacceptable!

Woman dumps her BF, the lawyer makes an incoherent argument

Gold-digging user ♀️

♂️ NTA: She deserves better!

A law license, not a ticket?

Dream man needs a
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She made the ⚖️ choice!

No a**hole here?

♂️ A friend betrays her long-term boyfriend to find a “real man”!

NTA, but your friend deserves

NTA: Karma won’t spare her ♀️

Girl dumps bf who supported her all these years to be with a “real man” ♀️

YTA for hating women

She found a “dumb f**k” to pay off her loans

AH, she dumped him

Betrayal of a *kind* boyfriend?

Last Updated on March 3, 2023 by Chifundo