Teen harpist performs at friend’s wedding, payment arrangement causes drama

Wedding harpist defends navy blue dress choice, surprises everyone

Harpist asked to change dress by bride’s mother

Wedding harpist wears navy dress, bride’s mother asks for change.

Wedding harpist refuses to buy new dress, sparks controversy

Harpist’s navy dress causes drama among mother-in-law and bride.

Unpaid wedding harpist confronts bride’s mother-in-law

Harpist faces backlash and payment refusal at wedding gig.

Talented harpist struggles with financial burden and low rates.

Wedding harpist faces dilemma over dress code: AITA for protesting?

Wedding harpist denied payment over navy blue dress ♀️
A young harpist was hired to play at a wedding, but ended up being denied payment due to her navy blue dress. Despite getting it approved twice, the mother of the bride demanded she change her dress at the last minute because the bride’s dress was also navy blue. After refusing to buy a new dress, the harpist was not paid for her services. Feeling helpless and alone, she turned to her parents for help. This incident raises questions about the importance of clear communication and respect for workers, regardless of their profession. Stay tuned for the comments and reactions to this story .
NTA approved dress sparks controversy, but OP still got paid

Lesson learned: Always get payment upfront for business transactions NTA

Always get a signed contract and run your business professionally

Wedding musician advised to charge fairly and get a signed contract.

Wedding vendor gets stiffed on payment, commenters suspect setup

Wedding harpist defends navy dress, but suspicions arise

Wedding musicians often get dress codes approved by clients. NTA shouldn’t have been denied payment.

Wedding harpist faces bridezilla, teaches us about harp acclimation

Musicians and creatives should treat friends like any other client

Payment upfront next time? NTA for sure.

Protect yourself and get a contract for future gigs.

Navy dress approved but not paid for? Not cool, wedding party

Harpist stands up for herself after shady wedding behavior

Bride approved dress, but client accuses harpist of scamming payment

NTA, but learn from this and update your business practices

Harpist’s navy dress gets NTA approval

Standing up for yourself is never wrong!

Harpist blamed for bride’s mistake, deserves full payment

Stand up for yourself and get paid

Unprofessional family tries to take advantage of wedding harpist

Stand up for yourself! Share your side publicly.

Empathetic response to mistreatment towards commenter.

Commenter suggests passive aggressive response to dress controversy.

NTA for wearing navy dress approved by bride, money not involved
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NTA shuts down MOB’s jealousy over bridezilla accusations ♀️

Take them to court? Not the a-hole, but maybe too far

Unexpected deposit drama in personal acquaintance’s wedding performance

Unfair dress code? Commenter defends wedding harpist with NTA argument

Non-traditional dress leads to wedding harpist controversy

Harpist not the a**hole, should send bill and demand letter

Harpist not at fault for dress color, bride and MIL AH

Charge what you’re worth Your talent deserves fair compensation

Wedding harpist defends navy dress, NTA, bridezilla overreacts

Stand your ground and let go of toxic relationships

Wedding harpist not in the wrong for wearing navy dress

Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness again! ♀️
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Empathetic comment towards mistreatment of young woman at work.

Bride approved dress, lame excuse to not pay you

Getting paid upfront is crucial , and the dress was approved twice

Standing up for yourself against disrespectful adults. You go

Harpist wears navy dress approved by couple, avoids bridal colors

Approved dress, no blame on harpist

Lesson learned: Always get payment upfront and charge reasonably.

Outfit oversight or not, they should’ve paid. NTA

Harpist not at fault for bride’s dress code mishap

Wedding harpist’s navy dress deemed acceptable, not a**hole move

Wedding harpist undercharging hurts the community – NTA

Wedding harpist stands up to manipulative clients.
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Harpist defends navy dress, calls out wedding entitlement

Lesson learned: never mix money and friendship.

NTA harpist receives abhorrent treatment at wedding over dress mishap

Protect yourself with a contract and deposit!

Money and relationships don’t mix

Wedding harpist not at fault, get payment upfront

Underpaid wedding musicians deserve better

Harpist wears navy dress, bride doesn’t pay. NTA or ESH?

Wedding harpist stands up for herself against non-paying client

Father of the groom stands up against MIL’s wedding dress drama

Lessons learned the hard way: always get the agreement on paper

Protect your hustle , get paid upfront always
