Wedding Drama: AITA for Insisting My Niece is Co-flower Girl?

Wedding planning can be difficult, especially when it comes to deciding who will have which role in the wedding party. However, one groom-to-be is causing a stir by insisting that his niece be a co-flower girl with his fiancé’s niece. Despite his fiancé’s objections, he won’t back down. But the real reason for her refusal will shock you. Read on to find out what happened.

Big family, big wedding: Choosing bridesmaids and flower girls.

Loving uncle wants niece to be co-flower girl, AITA?

Bridesmaid drama resolved: Niece as co-flower girl instead?

Brynn and Aubrey as co-flower girls: Cute or Controversial?

Bridezilla bans niece from being co-flower girl.

Bridezilla insists on co-flower girl, AITA for stealing spotlight?

Update causes surprise and appreciation from OP in wedding drama.

Bridezilla or reasonable request? The co-flower girl debate.

Bride refuses niece as flower girl due to Down Syndrome

Bridezilla? A family feud over co-flower girl duties

Fiancé caves after advice from AITA community

Wedding drama! Who gets to be the co-flower girl?

Wedding planning is stressful and it’s even more stressful when it comes to family politics. One groom-to-be is facing a dilemma when it comes to who gets to be the flower girl(s) at his wedding. He has one niece, Brynn, who he adores and wants to share the spotlight with Aubrey, his fiancée’s niece. However, his fiancée insists that there can only be one flower girl and chooses Aubrey. The groom suggests alternative ideas like having Brynn hold a sign or walk with Aubrey, but his fiancée refuses.

The situation escalates when the groom finds out that the real reason his fiancée doesn’t want Brynn to be a co-flower girl is that Brynn has Down Syndrome. Outraged by his fiancée’s ableism, the groom leaves their apartment and stays with his sister and niece. Will the couple be able to come to a compromise or is this the end of their engagement? Keep reading to find out what happens next in the comments and reactions .

Wedding planning reveals deeper issues in relationship.

Replace groomsmen with sister and niece or none at all. NTA.

Have as many people in your wedding party as you want! NTA

Commenter advises OP to cancel wedding due to family drama.

NTA but consider premarital counseling due to red flags

Having two flower girls is not a problem. NTA

Prioritizing family over tradition, NTA. Uneven bridal party resolved.

Fiancé jealous of my niece, AITA for wanting her as co-flower girl? ‍♂️

Aubrey’s time to shine or a fair co-flower girl proposal?

Protect yourself and announce the truth before she lies.

User suggests couples therapy before marrying jealous fiancee

NTA stands strong against ableism.

Partner’s concerning behavior sparks NTA flower girl drama

Wishing good luck to a non-a**hole

Wedding party unequal: Niece as co-flower girl, compromise needed

NTA x100! Dodged a cannonball

Compromise is key! Niece as co-flower girl is reasonable

Co-flower girls are adorable and harmless. Fiancé needs to chill

Compromise is key for a drama-free wedding day

Commenter criticizes bride-to-be’s actions, predicts family drama.

Fairness matters at weddings too.

Commenter advises drastic action in wedding drama

Bridezilla vs. Fatherless 3-year-old: The Flower Girl Drama

Bridezilla alert! Insisting on excluding family from the wedding party

Break traditions and have the wedding YOU want! NTA.

Supportive comment defending niece with Down Syndrome, NTA.

Supportive advice for OP’s relationship with godchild and fiancé.

Bride prioritizes her family over groom’s. Will this create conflict?

You deserve better Keep moving forward ‍♂️

Keep standing up for yourself! It’s not Aubry’s spotlight! ✨

Stand your ground! It’s both of your wedding day

Update alert: NTA for insisting niece as co-flower girl

Supportive comment: OP deserves better

Commenter praises OP for supporting niece with Down Syndrome

Heartbreaking update reveals fiancé’s ableism towards niece with Down syndrome

Commenter sympathizes with OP and criticizes fiancée

Set a clear boundary and prioritize your side of the family

Finding someone who cherishes your family, ❤️

Important questions to ask before marriage, with and ❤️

Don’t let your fiancé make it all about her NTA

OP’s love for niece and realization of fiance’s bigotry

Traditional vs. modern: Wedding party etiquette explained

OP’s inclusive wedding gesture backfires due to ableist ex-fiance.

Stand your ground and be a co-flower girl advocate! NTA.

Aunt insists niece as co-flower girl, internet supports.

Dodged a bullet! Niece is co-flower girl. Ex is TA.

NTA for insisting on co-flower girl. Fiancé’s ableism a red flag.

Wedding wars! Niece as co-flower girl? NTA says Reddit.

Bridezilla alert! Red flags everywhere, run for the hills!

Compromise on wedding day: two flower girls won’t hurt

Commenter supports OP against ableism at wedding, praises decision to cancel.

Wedding drama gets spicy with NTA comment

NTA seeks therapist to resolve wedding drama and save relationship

NTA, but consider ending the relationship

Commenter offers support to OP after family drama

Fiancee’s ableism sparks outrage in comment section. #NotMyWeddingDay

Wedding drama: Bridezilla refuses to let niece be co-flower girl

Niece drama at wedding: Bridezilla or projecting her own wishes?

Heartwarming update brings joy and nostalgia to commenter ❤️

The commenter sympathizes with the OP and makes a sarcastic remark.

Heartwarming support for OP standing up for niece with DS ❤️

Heartwarming support for a kind uncle amidst wedding drama ❤

Last Updated on April 8, 2023 by Azka