Identical twins with different personalities, one a misogynistic pick-me girl, the other more level-headed. The latter had a chance to set up her sister with a crush, but it didn’t go well. The sister’s obsession with male validation, and her misogynistic attitude, led to a disastrous date.
After the date, the level-headed twin told her sister why she lost the chance with her crush. The sister demands an apology, but the twin doesn’t feel like giving one.
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When a misogynistic pick-me ruins her twin’s chance with a crush
Identical twins with different personalities, Kim and the author attend the same college. Kim is a pick-me girl that always spews misogynistic nonsense, while the author is more grounded. When the author rejected Dave’s offer to go out with her and instead set him up with Kim, she thought it was a good idea since they are identical.
However, after the disastrous date, Dave approached the author and asked her to return a lipgloss Kim left in his car. He revealed to the author that Kim was a misogynistic pick-me girl on their date, criticizing the waitress and saying things that would make a misogynist proud.
Dave was horrified and left Kim at the restaurant alone. The author told Kim that she ruined her chance with Dave because she couldn’t stop being a misogynistic pick-me girl for even a second. After some drama, the author apologized to Dave on Kim’s behalf and they ended up agreeing to meet up for lunch.
Will this be a date? Read on to find out!
Dave wins the hearts of commenters, and maybe OP too ❤️
OP misjudged crush and sister’s extreme beliefs, but may not be TA.
Queen Dolly would be proud of this NTA for calling out toxicity ❤️
♀️No apology owed to sister, but missed chance with nice guy
Twin sister’s misogynistic behavior ruins her chance with crush. Identical twins only on the outside. ☝️
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Changing hair color to avoid being mistaken for sister’s actions.
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Take your shot! Maybe Dave’s still interested.
Commenter supports calling out misogyny, suggests alternative locations for crush.
Sister’s toxic behavior gets called out, NTA sets boundaries ✌
Twin sets up sister with crush to avoid hurting her feelings ❤️
Sister’s behavior is exhausting!
Empowering response to sister’s internalized misogyny.
Supportive commenter defends twin’s actions against misogynistic sister
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Twin gets called out for baiting sister’s chance with crush
Agreeing with the commenter’s perspective on misogyny and dating.
Sister needed tough love, twin delivers with NTA comment
Commenter compares story to Disney/Netflix rom-coms
Comment section doubted authenticity of story with some support.
Is this a genuine comment or just trolling for upvotes?
Savage comeback!
Commenter empathizes with the situation, shares their own experience.
Sibling rivalry at its finest ♀️
Go for Dave! NTA for leaving a misogynistic crush
Brutal honesty, NTA comment gets straight to the point
Encouraging response to sister’s rejection with positive self-affirmation ✨
Agreement that the sister is not the a**hole
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Go out with Dave and show your twin what she’s missing
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