Teen Gets Secret ADHD Diagnosis After Parents Dismiss His Struggles

Being a teenager can be tough, but when you’re struggling with academics, it can make things even harder. One teen in particular was having a difficult time with school and suspected that they might have ADHD . However, when they mentioned it to their parents, they were shut down and told to study harder like their twin sister. But after a chance conversation with their boyfriend’s sister, who happens to be a psychologist, they started to consider the possibility of ADHD. Despite their parents’ objections, the teen decided to pursue a diagnosis and ended up getting it confirmed. But now their parents are upset and are blaming the teen for not taking accountability. Could the teen have handled the situation differently or were they justified in going behind their parents’ back to get the diagnosis they needed?

Feeling overshadowed by twin sister’s academic achievements

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Teen secretly diagnosed with ADHD after parents dismiss his struggles

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Teen struggles with undiagnosed ADHD due to parents’ academic pressure

Academic pressure can be tough on anyone, especially when parents force their children to compete with each other. In this post, a 17-year-old explains his struggles with academics and focusing, which were dismissed by his parents as laziness. It wasn’t until his boyfriend’s sister suggested ADHD that he found out the root of his issues. Despite finally getting a diagnosis, his parents refuse to acknowledge it and even forbid him from seeing his boyfriend. This begs the question, was it worth it for him to pursue the diagnosis even if it meant going against his parent’s wishes? In the comments, share your thoughts on how parents can better support their children’s academic struggles and the importance of seeking medical help when necessary.

NTA for seeking ADHD diagnosis without unsupportive parents’ involvement.

NTA. Parents’ outdated views perpetuate taboo around mental health.

Teens struggles with ADHD diagnosis dismissed by parents, but NTA. Replies highlight importance of understanding and support.

Denied ADHD diagnosis, parents compare OP to sister. NTA.

Commenter sympathizes with and calls out parents for ignoring medical conditions.

Take charge of your life! NTA deserves ADHD diagnosis.

Don’t ignore mental health. Seek help and medication for ADHD.

Insightful comment on family dynamics and ADHD diagnosis denial

Parents dismiss teen’s ADHD, boyfriend’s family recognizes struggle. NTA.

Undiagnosed ADHD can affect anyone, regardless of gender.

Take control of your education Inform your school of ADHD diagnosis

NTA. Getting diagnosed with ADHD as a teen can be life-changing.

Empathetic comment calls out parents for negligence and selfishness

Breaking the cycle: Overcoming parental denial and stigma about ADHD

ADHD is not an excuse, it’s a reason. NTA, get the medical care you deserve!

Don’t let anyone dismiss your struggles, take control

ADHD diagnosis can be life-changing. NTA for seeking help.

Acknowledging medical conditions is important for academic success.

Be your own advocate. NTA for taking control of your health.

Seeking an ADHD diagnosis is crucial for your health

Supportive comment praises OP and learns new word.

Overcoming family denial to seek treatment for ADHD –

Don’t let anyone dismiss your struggles. You’re not defined by ADHD

Standing up to dismissive parents and sibling favoritism

Supportive comment offers ADHD diagnosis advice and medication savings tip

Supportive comment recommends getting a second opinion.

Celebrating independence and self-care with ADHD diagnosis

Getting an ADHD diagnosis is a huge step forward

Discovering ADHD at 17: Good news despite unsupportive parents.

Undiagnosed ADHD affected her grades until her 30s. NTA.

Comparing ADHD to COVID-19 in a witty comeback

Advocate for yourself and seek the help you need!

Undiagnosed ADHD can have severe consequences. Seek professional help ‍⚕️

A teacher’s perspective on ADHD diagnosis and treatment

Congrats on your diagnosis! Your psychologist is right about denial.

Encouraging support for OP in abusive household

Don’t let narrow-minded parents ruin your future

Getting an ADHD diagnosis was a good thing, don’t ever doubt it.

Finding understanding through diagnosis – NTA

Taking responsibility for ADHD diagnosis and treatment – NTA

Supportive ADHD diagnosis comment with helpful tips and resources

Join the discussion on r/insaneparents

Challenging the misconception about ADHD, NTA comment stands out

Understanding oneself with ADHD doesn’t absolve responsibility.

Encouraging comment supports teen’s bravery and offers hope for future